Does anyone remember that I am also a person who doesn't care about appearance? I always thought that a person's face was not the most important thing. Girls of the same age are trying their best to dress themselves up, not to mention wearing masks, facial cleanser, even the simplest cream. Once, I did it once and always forgot. Now every time I see my skin getting worse, sometimes I really feel colder and sadder, but I can't help it!
I wonder, no matter which woman, when hearing her husband and children say "Yes, you have another gray hair", will she be happy again? "It's still herself in the mirror, and suddenly she finds that she doesn't know when to add a wrinkled face, and her heart will not be indifferent. Yes, children grow up and parents will get old one day, but how can they not get old?
I have been thinking: Why are women afraid of getting old? Then I figured out some reasons.
First of all, because of her husband. "I can't help myself" is an eternal truth. In ancient times, Mrs. Li Chongfei was in the palace of the Han Dynasty. After only a few short years, she became very ill until she was bedridden. The emperor went to see her personally, and Li Furen covered her face and said, "My concubine has been ill for a long time, and her face has been ruined. I don't think your Majesty wants to talk about King Chang Yi and his brothers. " She insisted on seeing the emperor's bounty and Li Furen's brother's gift in exchange for the official position, but she refused, just sobbing alone. The emperor has gone. After leaving the emperor, Li Furen's sisters blamed her. Ms. Li sighed and said, "I came from a humble background, and the emperor bears a grudge against me, because it is usually like this now." If he sees that I am not beautiful at ordinary times, he will be disgusted and afraid of being abandoned. How can I take care of my son? " With my brother? "Madam in a few days after the death of lee. Not seeing the last lover aroused the emperor's infinite pain. Li Furen will be buried and given the Queen's ceremony, and her lifelong painter's paintings will bear the image of her beloved son. Sooner or later, the feeling of missing will be aggravated. In addition, Yan Li is listed as the chairman of the National Music Association, and with her younger brother, what is the general promotion of Zheng Li Guangli? So, how important a woman's face is in men's eyes!
In today's society, many people think that the word "extramarital affairs" is no stranger! Over the years, for various reasons, many families have had extramarital affairs, and women also thought about it at this time. As the saying goes. "Men 3 1 a flower, women 30 tofu dregs." Many women believe that having an affair is because women are younger and more beautiful than themselves. In order to defend their marriage, they began to pay attention to their looks.
Secondly, nowadays, women not only stay at home as mothers, but also go out to work and do everything possible to improve their social competitiveness. After the exam, corresponding to baptism, the lower left is the face of competition. Therefore, they work, study more and go to beauty salons. As far as beauty salons are concerned, I don't think women dress up as men or women, and some even sacrifice the beauty of their lives! Even successful beauties have paid a lot of unimaginable costs! But, as women, do they have any other choice?
Of course, there are other reasons. Women are afraid of their age. I have always been a woman, and I have never been willing to spend more than 100 yuan on cosmetics. I might as well send my savings home to my parents for pocket money in the countryside. Fortunately, my husband works in the cosmetics industry, and I always get fat every Lunar New Year in China, otherwise my hairstyle will last forever.
But how to make women not afraid of getting old? I think besides improving the development of society, men think that women need self-confidence more. As for appearance, a woman who is born beautiful and confident and conquers others. Maybe this day is not far away.