1, children's rebellion is a normal phenomenon, so don't be overly anxious: in fact, adolescent children's rebellion is a normal situation, a stage of natural growth, and a stage when children are eager to be recognized and respected by their parents. At this stage, parents should not interfere excessively, let alone criticize too much, as long as they respect their children and let them do what they like, as long as it is not wrong or illegal.

2. Treat children with more appreciation: For children in junior high school rebellious period, parents should not criticize and accuse them too much, but should treat them with more appreciation, so that children feel that in the eyes of parents, they are naturally not so bad, and parents still like themselves.

3. Communicate with children in a more negotiated tone: When communicating with rebellious children, parents can no longer educate their children in a tough and imperative tone. Children already have their own thoughts and ideas, and have their own ideas, so when talking, they can discuss with their children more and put forward their own opinions, so that children can make a comparison and choice.

4. Give care and help to let children feel the warmth of home: For children in the rebellious period, parents should pay more attention to their words and deeds and pay more attention to their behavior changes. Of course, parents should not interfere too much. As long as the children are no different as a whole, parents should pay more attention to them, let them understand their love, feel the warmth of home, and let them be willing to communicate with themselves.

5. Give the child an independent space and know how to let go properly: For children in the rebellious period, what the child wants most may be that parents should not restrain themselves too much, give the child an independent space and tell their parents that they have grown up, so parents should let go properly and not be bound by everything, lest the child do something wrong.

6, put down the shelf, less nagging, more guidance: for rebellious children, parents had better put down their identity shelves, don't unreasonably ask children to obey, and don't completely ignore their explanations. At the same time, parents must stop nagging. The more they nag, the more rebellious the children become. What parents should do is to grasp the direction, talk less and do more, and give their children correct guidance.

7. Be patient and don't form hostility: most children in the rebellious period are soft and hard. Parents should pay attention to methods, be patient, and don't feel that they have said it. Once hostility is formed, it is difficult to communicate.