Then, look at the problem. First of all, don't be biased. First of all, we should treat it with a "neutral" attitude. Ceng Zi said that "knowledge is in things", and it is of positive significance to explore the mind.
Why do people take part in certain activities? Are there really "pure" people who do nothing The conclusion is that people are destined to participate in certain activities. No one is so pure as to do nothing! As long as they can eat, drink and move, they will definitely do things outside of work. Believe it or not, it can be seen from observation that some people like smoking, drinking, playing cards, getting close to women, confusing men, fishing, planting flowers, cooking, playing with clothes, playing chess, keeping pets, reading, writing, drawing, singing and playing the piano, of course. For example, this is not because they need to eat and drink, but because they want to play and secretly pursue excitement.
So we know that people will always do something, including some boring people and people who want to make trouble. Well, theoretically, people will always have some "pastimes" outside work, otherwise they may really "live no longer", that is, they will have some pastimes in prison. Two years ago, a man knocked on my door at night. We seldom greet each other, so I'm a little surprised. As soon as he entered the door, he said, "Can you teach me where to play the piano?" I knew he was definitely not the material, so I asked him why he suddenly thought of this. His answer embarrassed me: "Shit, it's okay to get divorced. I have to do something to kill time. " I quickly told him that learning to play the piano was a very painful thing. To learn the piano, you must first learn to hum a few songs, learn to read music, endure the ridicule of others, don't disturb others, don't let others scold you, at least invest in the piano and consumables, and the most important thing is to persist for a long time. I can't learn well for three months, two months and two months. You won't know if a woman comes to you again. Everything will be in vain. He said, I'll come to you after I buy the piano. As a result, several years later, he still insisted on smoking and learning piano every day. Thank god, he let me go.
So there is a popular saying on the Internet: I am drinking loneliness, not wine. Of course, this can also be translated into other versions. It's not smoke, it's loneliness. For "aunts", people are not dancing, but lonely.
Square dance can really keep fit, but there are many ways to keep fit, and you don't have to dance square dance. Square dance is the first sight. However, "aunts" fell in love with this kind of square dance because of accidental fate. What should I do? Besides, "auntie" is family. Mom, sister, your wife likes dancing in this square. What do you think of her?
Square dance also has its own wonderful features. Women are born to be appreciated, and women are born to love. Aunt's squares are side by side, and she starts dancing as soon as the music starts. I feel relaxed and relaxed, and I don't know how drunk I am. Children are not fish, but they know the happiness of fish! I would be happier if there were several men in the "Auntie" team. This is called charm. No charm. Did that man sneak in?
Square dance, not only for fitness, but also for joy and glory, is a landscape and vitality of society. There is really no noise and silence in cities and villages. In less than three days, people will feel horrible. Whether it is drinking or playing cards, whether it is love between men and women, it is a form of society. You play chess, I fish, you read, I dance, and each has its own way of living, and each has its own way of living, and the unity of opposites. It's called a vast and colorful world. The premise is, please don't tolerate, understand and quarrel with each other. People have to do something. People who do nothing may be dead. You don't smoke, play poker or go whoring. You save all the money. I told them. Spend money once. Half a year can take one year. What do you mean? I always do something. You just don't know.