Emotionally speaking, as the boss, it is unacceptable for parents to ignore themselves after giving birth to a second child. Because the boss is also a child, he also needs the care and love of his parents, and parents can't pay full attention to their children and ignore their feelings because of their older children.

Physiologically speaking, when a child is born, he needs 100 parents, because at this time, the child has no self-care ability and no awareness of prevention. Only his parents are his bond with the world. And because the boss is old and has the basic self-care ability, he will naturally care more about the second child.

Therefore, parents do not prefer the second child, but because the second child is young and needs more careful care, it is inevitable that some people will ignore the boss. And don't be sad, because you used to be treated well, and your parents loved you very much, but now the second child needs your parents' care more.

The palm of your hand and the back of your hand are all meat, which one hurts which one.

This will happen to some families. When there is a conflict between the boss and the second child, parents will unconsciously criticize the boss and think that you are brothers and sisters and should make way for the younger brother. At this time, the boss will think that his parents are partial, because he doesn't know anything and just makes way for the second child. But the parents' idea is that the second child will be smaller and the boss will be more sensible. The original intention was to hope that the two children would help each other.

For parents, the palms of their hands are all meat, and both of them are distressed, but they are not good at handling things, and their love for their children is the same.

Even so, I still hope that all parents treat their children equally and don't ignore the boss after giving birth to the second child. Because he was in your hands before, if you ignore it too much, it will inevitably make your child feel lost, sad and even hate the second child.

I also hope that all parents can face up to the boss's needs, just like when I was a child, I would tell my parents that I wanted that toy, that new bed and that sunny room, and my parents would try their best to meet my needs, no matter how my brother cried and made trouble. In fact, I don't really want it, just an attitude that my parents love me, because bosses are generally insecure and worried that their parents will not love themselves because of their second child.