It is tone and body language, not words, that determine the communication effect.

It is meaningless to speak correctly, but it is important to speak effectively.

The effect of communication is decided by the other party, but controlled by yourself, because you can change the way of communication.

4. Repetition of ineffective communication mode will only make the relationship between the two worse; Insisting on ineffective practices will only destroy the relationship.

Before saying every sentence, ask yourself: "Will this increase the strength of the other party or decrease it?" Before doing every action, ask yourself, "Will this make things better or worse?"

6. Everyone has the right to refuse to communicate at a certain time or something. Failure to respect this right will only lead to a sharp deterioration of relations.

7. One person can't change another person, only himself (1); (2) do something that makes the other person want to change; (3) Make some arrangements for yourself, so that whether the other party has changed or not, it will not affect your success and happiness.

8. There are at least three different ways to do anything; Anyway, there are at least three solutions.