Treat your enemies, enemies and opponents with tolerance, focus on the overall situation on unprincipled issues, and you will get the joy of taking a step back; The joy of turning war into friendship; The happiness of mutual understanding between people. You must know that you are not a one-way street. In this world, we each go our own way, and it is inevitable that there will be collisions. Therefore, no matter how kind a person is, it will inevitably hurt others' hearts. If you bite the hand that feeds you, it will not only heal the wounds in your heart, but also bind the injured person to endless quarrels. In that case, why not be a tolerant person? When you forgive others, you are actually creating a harmonious interpersonal environment for yourself.
Don't be a tolerant person? When you forgive others, you are actually creating a harmonious interpersonal environment for yourself. However, in fact, we often treat people around us like this, intentionally or unintentionally: you scold me, I hit you; You threw up on my face and I peed all over you. A tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye, a grudge must be repaid, and it is justified to think that this is "backbone." As a result, friends were flushed because of a gossip and actually walked together; Couples live in the same room because of family chores, and even children and parents will resent each other because of inexplicable misunderstandings until they die of old age, and so on.
When anger takes the place of reason, when you stand head-to-head with others, fight poison with poison and complain endlessly until you are exhausted physically and mentally and lose both sides. You may have lost your temper and lost your temper, but don't you find that at the same time, you have added too much regret and pain to your life, and the price is really too high. It's like cutting down a leafy tree to drive away a noisy crow. It's not worth the candle.