It is generally believed that the only way for a man to cheat you is to go to a nightclub or throw himself at his secretary or friends. Now there are new tricks. Deception has never been so easy to succeed as it is today.
In addition, social platforms, online dating communities, text messages and emails all make it possible to establish an improper or imaginary relationship with an unattainable man. All you need to do is tap the computer keyboard twice. On Facebook, some women got in touch with their lovers in junior high school or college again. After chatting for a month, they found that he was married, and he was careless about his marriage in his personal introduction. Other women make friends with men they meet at work or read Facebook, and finally establish unfair or imaginary relationships with these men who can't get them.
Natalie is a student of 2 1 year old. She is obsessed with becoming her university teacher, so she explicitly proposed to add him as a friend on Facebook. He accepted it at once, mainly showing friendliness of non-occupational hazards; Their association has gained a rapid development trend. They send messages and information to each other every morning, afternoon and evening. In the next few weeks, they dated several times in a hotel near the campus-they fell in love. He told him that his married life was very unhappy and he was leaving his wife, who didn't log on to Facebook and didn't know what happened between them. When they go out for a tryst, he often complains about his wife, which gives Natalie an incorrect impression that he can get it. At first, he would take her to a special restaurant for dinner, but within a month, they would lie in bed and have a happy paradise meal. The next month, there was only sex, no dinner. After you have sex with a married man, it is typical to lack such a love stage! At first, he treated you like a prostitute.
Natalie began to complain that she couldn't see him often-it was even harder to see him on Sundays or in key places. She asked him to take her to dinner at least once on her birthday. He said he needed to see his homework and stood her up at the last minute, because his wife's sister came to his house and he was tied up. He said that he might make it up to her and send her some very cheap bouquets. Natalie basically kept sending messages to them for the next week, but _ didn't receive all the replies. She sent them a message on Facebook, "Where are you? Did something happen? " He replied, "My wife is pregnant. I think I really love her, and I hope I can solve my own problems. Sorry, we can't meet again. " Then he added her to Facebook's credit blacklist.
Natalie collapsed, and she didn't go to class for the next week. She can hardly wake up, let alone study. Dealing with a fraud company and a liar, she not only lost her self-esteem, but also lost six months of her life. In order to better prevent revealing her secret, she has decided to get along with her friends. When their relationship ended, she had nothing to talk about. Natalie is very embarrassed. She can't tell everyone what happened because she is afraid that they will try her for cheating on her marriage.
This is a cautionary story. Don't be Natalie! No matter how wonderful that relationship looks at first, it will never have a satisfactory result; Sorrow always lasts longer than secret trysts and forbidden husband and wife life. When a woman tells everyone that she has been dating or falling in love with a married man and expects to know how to get him, everyone evaluates her love experience and other connections to find out why she is infatuated with a man who can't get him. Everyone will always find that she is emotionally unfamiliar with one of her parents or the other, and that's all she knows. Therefore, no matter how impossible it is for her to date a married man, it is warm and intimate. Everyone tells women like her to shout "next!" I am not afraid of the inconvenience of meeting a man who can really get it, and then get rid of the cycle of self-harm.
People are likely to say, "but he meets my requirements for appearance and kindness, and I have never met anyone I like", or "meeting a married man is better than being there alone", or "he agreed to leave his wife." If you find that you have been looking for such an excuse, please tell this married man that he won't call you until he divorces his wife and no longer lives together in daily life, otherwise you don't have to say hello to him-cut off communication-and be busy with others! You will probably spend two years casually, have sex with him in a cheap hotel, and firmly believe in his insincere promise to spend the summer vacation alone while he is on vacation with his relatives in Aruba.
It should be noted that married men are not the only men who can't get it. Sometimes, a woman will reach out and ask how to deal with the man who has been staring at her in her office, or the man who has been using the treadmill next to her at the gym. "It's been three months, and he will still look at me and tease me, but he never asked for my contact number? What should I do? "
Too bad you can't do it all! Sometimes, men like to play tricks on people and are very friendly to people. However, if they invite you for coffee or drinks or a tryst, they may already have a girlfriend. If a man keeps staring at you, even talking to you, flirting with you, but trysts with you, it is an illusory relationship. You don't have to sit next to him or pretend to be innocent. I suggest you discuss the secret of fitness exercise over coffee. Try to push the development trend of things in this way. You will be rejected immediately, or you will create a relationship that is not easy to produce at all, and then you will be rejected. It's not easy to get a good result by doing that, so don't do that!
Sometimes, an illusory relationship begins with a man suspecting that you have been secretly in love with him. We have played together many times. One day, he asked if you wanted to try to be more than just a friend. He will probably say that he has always had feelings for you, but he always feels that you two are not alone (the first risk data signal! ), which means he is shy. In general, most women will throw themselves at him in some way (yes, that's it! )。 He said what he wanted to say, looking forward to knowing if you want to try. You think, "naturally, let's try." Everyone seduces each other, and then under the condition that you expect him to follow you again, the connection between everyone becomes more and more completely incomprehensible. He doesn't invite you out for a tryst, just asks you to send a message at the last minute, just like he did in the past, or he will invite you to go skating and sleep together, but then he will bypass Qixi. Everyone's association is full of different information content. He will come and go in your daily life. You even joked with your female friend that he is probably under the witness protection program, because you have never found him, especially on your birthday or Spring Festival.
When it comes to love, people call such men "men with honest information". They try to give you the impression that you are in love, and sometimes they even say something, but their personal behaviors don't match. If you complain that their main performance is not as good as your boyfriend needs, they will argue that "my previous breakup was really bad, and I don't know if I can guarantee it", that is, "my mind is in a mess now", or swear that the flower shop trampled on the bouquet he ordered, but you never received it from him on your birthday. He has a long list of excuses that many women believe. Next, he will only ask you to send a text message "Why can't we meet again?" if you think you should break up with him completely. The purpose is to quilt your stock again. Ouch! The information content is a man who buys shoes!
Of course, you will be confused and look forward to knowing why. There is no need to doubt. Nothing happened. What's bothering him? What can this produce for them? Everyone showed a lot of information about men who bought shoes. Therefore, he is likely to have dealt with his ex-girlfriend or all the women. He has an elusive connection with his mother; Or he's just bored, and going there with you is very interesting to him, just like a sports or game video-in either case, he doesn't fall in love with you!
How to fall in love? Such women sometimes say that this man is very polite to them, but it is not easy for men to be polite to women-they just love them. We don't want to tell you this, but when a man likes you, it's not easy to spread all the information about that man buying shoes! Once a man came back and suggested that everyone should not be just friends, but later he didn't follow him like a real boyfriend, and everything was over. Great! The last thing you expect is an inexplicable man who occasionally asks you to send text messages and information content, which makes you have illusory expectations. You probably don't understand that he also has four women like you waiting for him to deal with his work or emotional problems. He's not even married. For you, he just can't get it.