When you criticize strangers for hooking up with social software casually, maybe you can try to explore it. Being a model? Do you prefer to row left or right? Stranger social software explorers have been advocating a beautiful encounter between strangers. When you send someone a favorite and get a clear response, you will be happier than receiving 100 strange greetings. In the exploration, there are more than 5 million couples every day. How many love stories will be produced in these 5 million couples? Maybe we can start with the following story.
2065438+In June, 2006, Shen Tan received an email for help from a user in Shenyang. In the email, the user said that he successfully matched a girl on the altar. After chatting for a while, the two confirmed their love relationship. However, after 78 days together, the boy suddenly went to Germany to study for family reasons. In order to reassure the girl, they decided to get the certificate the next day. In order to commemorate their acquaintance in exploration, I hope that exploration can help him surprise the girl who celebrated her birthday on July 13. So, after planning, the detective helped the user erect a fan in Shenyang Joy City Plaza? Is there a door? .
Then, with the help of his girlfriend's best friend, he led his girlfriend to open any door. Inside the door is a big screen, playing videos recorded by boys in advance. There are not only separate shots of boys in the video, but also a group of foreigners. The girls were too excited to speak at the scene. And the protagonist of this activity is also very surprised to appear behind the girls. When they hugged, the distance of 7000 kilometers seemed nothing.
For today's young people, many offline activities have quietly shifted to online, even making friends. Exploration itself is like an arbitrary door, through which two strangers who can't get to know each other in reality can be connected, and the romantic story begins. The users of exploration are all young people, so we can see the emotional stories of young people happening all the time. When these stories unfold slowly, maybe we can understand the nature of social software, meet new friends and discover the new world.
The essence of social interaction: 2. About career planning;
Young people are confused when facing career planning. One reason is that there are too many choices and the social division of labor is becoming more and more detailed. Another reason is that career planning is really difficult. It requires a person to constantly explore himself and the external environment. This is a process of constant adjustment and matching.
The premise of career planning is to know yourself, which mainly includes two points.
1. One is to dig what you are very good at.
What I am very good at is not a specific thing, but a scene, which I didn't realize myself. I think others can do easily.
One way to find out what you are good at is to recall your success and then describe this trait. Another way is to ask others to help point it out.
Case:
For myself, I have the ability to explain complex concepts clearly, but I never knew I had this ability. It was only in a conversation with others that I was told that I had it, so I chose the career of storytelling.
2. One is to dig what you like.
When planning your career, think about whether you will continue to like it even if you don't give you positive feedback. This requires you to narrow down what you like, and then find the essence of what you all like.
Case:
If you like taking part in activities and attending various dinners, then you may just like dealing with people. Frequent contact with strangers is the key point to consider when planning your career. If you like playing games, thinking alone, and imagining things, then you may like to deal with people, and avoiding too much social interaction is an important factor to consider.
After finding what you are good at and what you like, refine their similarities, build a scene, and then you need to match the external professional characteristics.
How to match the occupation
First of all, we must understand the classification of occupations. Occupations are generally divided into traditional occupations and new occupations. You can open the recruitment website and find a career that belongs to the traditional profession. The classification is clear, but the new occupation can't be classified. The new occupation belongs to the category of entrepreneurship. The author's attitude towards entrepreneurs is not to follow the trend blindly, and it is recommended to accumulate good experience before starting a business. After matching what you are good at and what you like with your career, the next thing to do is to pay attention to things related to this position.
Case:
Many people want to do business, the first thing they think of is to do research, and then put a lot of energy into research. In fact, getting a certificate is far less rewarding than chatting with the cattle in this industry for a while. So when looking for a job, think about what you want to do and concentrate on it.
Generally speaking, career planning is a very difficult thing, which requires long-term efforts and discovery, but these efforts are definitely worth it. To quote Mark Twain, there are two most important days in life, one is the day when you are born, and the other is the day when you know the meaning of living.
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