Our youth is fleeting, and wrinkles climb up the corner of our eyes. We can't stop the years from destroying our faces, but we can let our hearts hone slowly in the years, just like the sand in a clam shell, and slowly smooth it out. When we are pale and faltering, we can also make the luster of pearls dim in the last trip, can't we? (learn to grow)
Every one of us will inevitably have regrets and disappointments in our life. Maybe we can't change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. Treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful mind.
Face the reality, solve all the problems that can be solved, keep the ones that can't be solved, and time can change everything.
What is happiness? Some people think that happiness means owning a mansion and a famous car. Some people think that happiness means being with the person you love. Some people think that happiness means seeing sunshine every day. Some people think that living is happiness.
Familiar habits, familiar routes and familiar days will never be a miracle. Changing thinking, changing habits and changing a way of life will often create infinite scenery!
Only when we set out will we reach our ideal and destination, and only when we sow will we reap. Only by pursuing can we taste a healthy life, and only by keeping a simple life can we have more happiness in life!
Don't bring trouble to yourself because of the ignorance of all beings. Don't make yourself miserable because of the ignorance of all beings.
Parents are right. They are good to you, whether you accept it or not.
Life Classics _ What You Must Know
10 is too brave to be reckless; When integrity goes too far, it becomes pedantic; If you are too alert, you will become smooth; If you pay too much, you will become a beggar; When greed goes too far, it becomes corruption; If you are too persistent, you will lack your mind; Too much goodwill has turned into weakness; Overriding, life classic _ The truth you must understand becomes overbearing; If you go too far, you will come to a dead end.
Where the heart thinks, there is light; Where the heart thinks, there is a miracle; Where you are moved, you will have new ideas; Where the heart is placed, there is power.
12 gradually understand that the person who cares most is often the one who makes you cry the most; Gradually understand that a lot of love can be met but not sought; Gradually understand that many things can only be owned once, and letting go means losing; Gradually understand that sincerity does not need to be returned to a person; Gradually understand that in fact, a person is quite good.
13 don't say that others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful. Practice by yourself? What do you know about life?
14 Don't believe the story that you will succeed if you work hard. The key is the standard of your success and the direction of your efforts. Trust a man, even if you try hard, you can't have children. Don't believe any theory that can change your life. Birth comes first, luck comes second.
15 Some words are suitable for rotting in the heart, while others are painful and suitable for forgetting silently.
16 You should thank the person who told you your shortcomings.
It is shameful for a person to cover up his shortcomings by hurting others.
18 Don't lose your temper easily, it's cowardly unless you trust someone very much. Otherwise, never let others know what you are going to do next.
19 Don't hit your own woman. If you don't love her, just let her go. There is nothing unforgivable about her. Who told you to love her? If you don't love her, you shouldn't hit others. What do you hate if you don't love her? Either you choose to accept, or you choose to give up or you die.
Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if it is wrong, don't be sad. There are right and wrong in life, not to mention many things. In retrospect, right or wrong doesn't matter.
2 1 People who dare to face difficulties are strong in life; People who dare to challenge adversity thrive.
Anyway, learn to make a timetable for yourself. You can choose from 1, 2, 3 and 5 years.
It is not that there is no water in the well, but that it is not dug deep enough; It's not that success comes slowly, but that you give up quickly. It takes wisdom to get one thing and courage to give it up!
There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be praised. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.
To save face for each other is to save face for yourself. If you don't want to stay, don't stay.
Only when the weak have difficulties can the brave overcome difficulties; Fools only lament, but wise men have thousands of ways.
Perhaps a person has to go through many roads and experience the sudden prosperity and desolation in countless lives before he becomes mature.
The eyebrows that grow first are not as long as the beards that grow later; Mr. Wang's ears are not as long as those of the young. Wisdom is not in age, Excellence is not in qualifications, and latecomers often come from behind.
Position can increase people's power, but it can't increase authority; Position can increase people's strength, but it can't increase people's ability; Lot can increase people's money, but it can't increase quality; Position can satisfy the desire for fame, and money can satisfy the desire for material things, but it cannot realize personal value and the meaning of life.
3 1 Since God has given talents, let it go and be hired! Life has no rest; Step forward, everyone in the world knows you!
The most powerful time for 32 people is not when they insist, but when they let go. When you choose to be empty-handed, who else can take anything from you! How many people lament the helplessness of fate, but forget the three most powerful words in the world: don't care.
Smart people must know the classic quotations in life.
0 1, in an instant, I began to realize that true friends may be those who will not easily influence you. Although their values and philosophy are diametrically opposed, they never force you to do anything, and they know how to reduce your psychological burden as much as possible. Standing beside them, you never have to worry about being overshadowed by them.
In some people's eyes, failure seems to be no big deal, but in my opinion, it's just that. After all, how many successful people didn't roll out of the mire, so why bother to cling to failure?
03, many times, people respect not people, but the background. Some people are lonely in the noise, while others are busy in loneliness. You'd better not miss two things, the last bus home and the people who love you deeply. Many people love someone by mistake because of loneliness, and more people are lonely all their lives because of loving someone by mistake. Life is tired, half from survival and half from comparison.
The four seasons bloom like spring breeze, and the five lakes are like the sun. Flowers press branches, only love peony hanging head. Don't ask me why I think, just to get drunk and solve a thousand worries. Life doesn't know when to dream, and people wake up when they dream. Jiangshan is idle in the rivers and lakes, and things have changed. The whole world is drunk, and I wake up alone, and a smile disappears forever.
05. Sit still and always think of yourself. Gossip is not about people. It's not idiots who are willing to suffer. Those who can bear hardships are people with lofty ideals. Only by respecting a gentleman can we show virtue. If you are afraid that the villain will not be incompetent, you will retreat to the highland. A contented person is always happy!
06, the rain gives birth to brilliance, and the flowers will be exhausted. Excuse me, lothario, point to Qijia Garden. Iraqis love romance but don't know how to be happy. Only when you are not in love will you get drunk.
The most popular people in the world are never those who constantly review yesterday's hardships, sadness, failures and painful setbacks, but those who look forward to the future with confidence, hope, courage and pleasant curiosity.
08. Confident people know the truth that "I was born useful", and rely on the confidence to win, and sail to the other side of success in hard struggle.
09. Many things seem difficult to accomplish on the surface, but in fact they are very simple. As long as we have a little courage to try, we will often get unexpected results. Each of us has courage, which is our own inexhaustible wealth. We should know how to use it reasonably, otherwise it will be a waste.
10, on the road of life, even if you lose everything, you have no reason to despair as long as you have a breath. Because everything lost is likely to be recovered at a new level.
Classic Quotations: You have to let go so that you won't get hurt.
1, love is not looking for similarity, but learning to respect differences.
2. One of the greatest courage in life is to be able to maintain trust and love after being cheated and hurt.
Your life will never let you down. Those wrong turns, wrong roads, tears, sweat and scars all make you unique.
4. We live in a vast universe, and we are even smaller than the cosmic dust flying all over the sky and the light dust of the Milky Way. We are still working hard in great despair, and this feeling of not giving up makes them become little stars in the boundless darkness. We are all little stars.
A boy who is still working hard in his twenties is like a brick mover. He can't catch you with a brick. He can't support you if he puts down the bricks.
6. All confused people will eventually face their own hearts. If they can't change from the heart, then confusion is still confusion, and the problem is still a problem. Only when people understand that they can change, and only they can change, can we give ourselves a satisfactory answer to our questions about life.
7. When fantasy confronts reality, it is always painful. Either you are knocked down by pain or you step on it.
Everyone's eyes are open, but that doesn't mean everyone is watching the world. Many people hardly use their own eyes to see. They only listen to others, and the world they see is always said by others. If a person really looks with his own eyes, he will see what the model can't summarize and see a different world.
9. Sometimes your disappointment is only for someone or a certain kind of person. Don't fantasize about being disappointed in love. Only by believing in love can we meet better love. Love is actually hope, which can illuminate your life.
10. Life is a journey full of unknowns. What you care about is the scenery along the way, and what you care about is the mood of watching the scenery. The trip won't end with beautiful scenery. The road you walked has become the scenery behind you. You can't stay back. If you stay at this moment, you will miss the better scenery, keep quiet and keep a clear head. Enjoy the feeling of every moment and enjoy the scenery everywhere. This is life.
1 1. True love does not pay attention to excitement, ostentation and extravagance, prosperity and howling.
12, we have a good eye when choosing lovers, and a better eye when choosing unsuitable lovers. There seems to be an instinct to try to find out what is inappropriate. Of course, these unsuitable people are still suitable in some ways-they punish, intimidate or humiliate us, let us down, leave us, or worst of all, make us think that they are not inappropriate. So we wavered in the world of love.
Sometimes you have to pretend to smile as if nothing had happened. This is not giving up, but maturing.
14, the perfect lover with you is not natural. Just because you fall in love at first sight doesn't mean you will get along well. Those who get along well are not necessarily loyal. The truly perfect lover actually depends on polishing. You change a little, he changes a little. Although everyone loses a little self, they can become a tacit couple. Being in love and getting along are two different things. Love is attraction, and getting along is to change each other.
15, if someone hurts you, please be kind and beautiful as always, and enjoy life and love as if you have never been hurt. One day that person will regret missing you.
16, do we know where the kite in our hearts is? If we miss it in life, we will never get it again. Maybe we will repent and redeem, but it seems too late. Whenever kites fly in the sky, should we ask ourselves whether we really cherish everything we have?
17, the new beginning is unwilling to let go of the past. It's like you are already in the car, but you are still holding on to the railing of the platform. You must let go so that you won't get hurt.
18, everyone has their own life trajectory, and the road to success is not the same. The college entrance examination is not the end of the struggle. No matter what your grades are or what university you go to, it is not the key to your success or failure. What determines a person's success or failure is the mind, spirit and courage that accompany him all his life; Life is not a 100-meter race, but a never-ending marathon.
19, to love someone is to grow up with him for a long time and die together in the last few years of life.
20. There is always such a person in this world, who is your yearning and your warmth. Even if he is not far away, as long as he thinks of him, he will always feel practical, practical and confident. Even the surrounding air has become certain.
Quotations from nan huaijin _ Very classic, required reading.
Nan, 19 18, from Dituan Township, Liucheng District, Yueqing, Zhejiang Province (now Qiaotou Village, Dituan Community, Wengyang Street). Young people learn from the imperial court and less from a hundred schools of thought. China is one of the masters of contemporary China studies.
1 People often ask me why I have such good knowledge. I always tell the truth. This is the result of memorizing these ancient books before I was thirteen.
Everyone is truly free if he develops an independent personality and stands out from others. No language can express people's true thoughts and feelings. If there is a way, there will be no misunderstanding between people.
We all often hear about getting carried away, but according to my personal decades of life experience, I have to add a word: getting carried away by setbacks. Some people used to be nice. When he is rich and proud, everything is handled well and people are polite. But once frustrated, even people don't want to see them. A pair of annoying faces, inferiority complex and various troubles followed, and people completely changed.
I don't know what charity is and what reward is. All beings in this world don't know what real charity is, and they don't know what reward is. They think that giving money will bring merit. They think if they help others, they will get something in return. This mentality is not charity, it is business!
It is very problematic to follow everyone who has no sense of identity. There is no ambition to ask for heaven, and it is genius to expose heaven. This is the goal of life.
6 people can't live without learning and knowledge. What's the use of drilling for the sake of study? We don't agree with such knowledge.
Seven conditions for being a general: as strong as an ox; As mean as a dog; As cunning as a fox; As clever as a monkey; Charm like the devil.
The great goal of this world politics is accomplished in twelve words: good weather, peaceful country and people, and living and working in peace and contentment. But if you want to ask, when will the world achieve peace and harmony? I said, humans may never realize it. If mankind really has such a society, it will be the time for the destruction of the universe. Society is very strange, that is, chaos, there are positive and negative, so it has a taste. Peace is good, but peace is not fun!
9 autumn leaves are piled up and swept away thousands of times. Sitting in a leisure place with a smile, let him fall to the ground.
Nan huaijin _ Very classic, must see.
10 the founder of Zen Buddhism said: "Buddha is an ordinary person who does nothing." Therefore, learning Buddhism should be based on serious books, not serious books. Don't cling to all the words in Buddhist scriptures. Once you cling to them, I'm sorry, although it's not a heresy, it's a sideline, that is, religious prejudice. Religious prejudice is the most exclusive and exclusive. But I think every religion is the same, because it basically teaches people kindness, which is not wrong! Needless to say, you are a teacher, so am I. You take a nap and I sleep in. The highest point of religion is different, but you should not look at others with the highest point, but from the equal line.
1 1 Ordinary is Buddha. People who study Buddhism are crazy and refuse to be ordinary. After the Buddha realized the Tao, he lamented that "all living beings have the wisdom and virtue of the Tathagata", all of them are Buddhas, and everyone has all the wisdom and virtue of the Buddha. Why can't they be enlightened? You can't prove it just because you are delusional and persistent. Then you just don't want to insist. Isn't it simple? You said, yes, so I have paranoia every day. Alas, didn't you insist on getting rid of delusion again? So you can't drink a tank of water, let alone a river.
12 according to my research, the foundation of everyone's knowledge and career is based on adolescence, regardless of ancient and modern times. From this period of adolescence, we can see the achievements of middle-aged and elderly people from the personality of teenagers. A person's life is also the ideal of youth and the cultivation of knowledge. In middle age, the career is to play the ideal of youth and recall the achievements of his youth when he is old.
13 The highest state of life is that Buddhism is the heart, Taoism is the bone, Confucianism is the table, and the world is open. Skills in hand, you can be in it, thinking in your head, and live calmly.
14 What's the difference between the outer road and the inner road? How can you call it heresy? Seek outside the heart, seek outside the Tao. In general, religions use heresy casually. For example, if I believe in Buddhism and you don't, you are a heretic. I believe in Catholicism, but you don't believe in my Catholicism. You are a heretic. I believe in some way, but you don't. You are a heretic. These are all nonsense. This heresy, like secular law, is from my point of view. Those who disagree with me are heretics, belonging to the following five viewpoints; See for yourself, look from the side, see Jaken, see and get seen, avoid and get seen. Seeing is ideas, and ordinary people are bound by these ideas and can't get rid of them, and they can't prove Bodhi.
15 The reason why every Buddha can become a Buddha and achieve Tao is because he has his great wish and his original wish, and he can succeed. Attention! The story ends here. We only want me to be good when we study Buddhism. I am selfish. Because every Buddha has his own special wishes and achieved his own special merits. For example, people who do business in the world, some people like to open department stores, some people like to open rice shops, etc., can make continuous efforts to develop and make achievements in their own expertise. This is the case in the world, especially when you are born to ask for Buddha. You must have his original wish first.
16 according to my research, the foundation of everyone's knowledge and career is based on adolescence, regardless of ancient and modern times. From this period of adolescence, we can see the achievements of middle-aged and elderly people from the personality of teenagers. A person's life is also the ideal of youth and the cultivation of knowledge. In middle age, the career is to play the ideal of youth and recall the achievements of his youth when he is old.
17 A good doctor can never save a patient; The tutor doesn't lead the way. Good food can persuade people to have a full meal; Rare treasures may not impress an honest man's mind. Today's world is dominated by science and technology. Without the cultivation of personality, it is chaos and abrasion. Education is just selling knowledge, which is the fundamental source of confusion and distress. Only when science, technology, philosophy, religion, literature and art, and personality cultivation education return to unity, return to the standard, and develop in a balanced way can there be hope.
18 don't be afraid of loneliness and desolation when studying. Only with this spirit and attitude can we talk about learning.
19 where does learning come from? Learning is neither language nor knowledge. Learning comes from life experience and is realized by doing things. This accomplishment is not only read in books, but also our books and education.
China's culture is like the father-son relationship between teachers and students. Before, one day he became a teacher and a father all his life. Teachers also take lifelong responsibility for their students. We have seen with our own eyes that this trend was still maintained decades ago. Even if a student wins the first prize, the official will do a lot. When I returned to my hometown, I saw my teacher, who had neither fame nor status. Students should bow to him, just as they did when they were teachers. Students are so kind to teachers, and teachers should be responsible for students all their lives.
2 1 A few years ago, on Teacher's Day, the child went home and gave money to the teacher, saying that he would give him 50 yuan. The child definitely said no, and it was for the teacher. 100 yuan. This kind of thing fades in middle school; After high school, there is no such concept at all; When students go to college, they are all irrelevant strangers when they meet their teachers. On the other hand, the teacher does the same to his students. He took out a leather bag, explained it with a book, and then took an hour's fee. Both are commercial activities. After teaching, do you understand? It's your business to take a purse and leave. In my opinion, it is very unusual for students to meet their teachers on the road. Generally speaking, they don't know each other, so they meet face to face. The higher their knowledge, the less they have the spirit of respecting teachers and valuing morality. This is a great irony of China culture today.
When a country's politics and finance develop, if its cultural foundation can't keep up, and its culture can't keep up with the level of financial development, the national society will be very dangerous. If there is only culture, finance and economics will not develop, and the lives of ordinary people will not work.
Now, respecting teachers is just a slogan. The people who truly respect teachers are primary school students. I think you all have this experience. If our children are in primary school, come back and keep your mouth shut.
To truly learn Buddhism, you must have a correct epiphany in addition to making a wish. It is difficult to have a correct view. Only with a correct view can we talk about practice. Only with the correct viewpoint can we talk about the correct method. If your knowledge is not true, then all practitioners will take the road of evil pleasure. Insight is also the reason why the Shurangama Sutra is untrue and the fruit is the heart of the song. Therefore, to learn Buddhism, you must have a positive view before you can practice.
Fear is respect, life is fearless, and it is really dangerous.
Today's world is dominated by science and technology. Without the cultivation of personality, it is chaos and abrasion. Education is just selling knowledge, which is the fundamental source of confusion and distress. Only when science, technology, philosophy, religion, literature and art, and personality cultivation education return to unity, return to the standard, and develop in a balanced way can there be hope.
Confucius and Mencius thought was originally separated from Taoism, and this separation occurred after Qin and Han Dynasties. China culture in Tang Dynasty was not discussed by Confucianism, Mohism and Taoism, but by Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism. Now, the only way to study real Buddhism is to come to China. What Europeans and even Japanese say is incorrect.
28 Tao is justice for everyone in the world. The meaning of life lies not in the body, but in the self-brightness. Don't be led by the big four, and don't play with them.
Politeness borders on politeness, but it is far from shame. Respect when you are polite. The so-called ceremony means that you are serious about things, not to salute or respect everyone; Although you don't salute, when a friend is in trouble, you will know that you care infinitely. Therefore, people respect others and disrespect others. Although the superficial attitude is important, what is more important is the inner thing. Therefore, respect is politeness. Why should people be respectful? Stay away from shame, so as not to bring unnecessary shame.
There is nothing to say about real Buddhism, and it is unnecessary for us to talk about pharmacist classics here today; I had a thorough understanding before I talked about the classics of pharmacists. This is the true doctrine. Everything in the 84 thousand law is heresy and everything is right. Therefore, what the six ancestors of Zen Buddhism said to their disciples at that time had his correct reasons. Six ancestors said: the righteous use evil methods, and the evil methods are also positive; The wicked use the right method, and the right method is also evil. So, where is the Dharma? Buddhism lies in knowing what is right, knowing what is right and seeing what is right. However, strictly speaking, is the real knowledge of rights right? Not yet. You still can't get it. Really, there is no righteousness, no evil, no good, no evil, nothing, even nothing. That's almost Buddhism, otherwise everyone's statement is not Buddhism. Like I'm in class now, now I can say that I'm slandering Buddhism, because there's nothing to say.
Before 3 1, the greater the official's work, the greater the learning, and the advanced learning after work. As can be seen from Beijing Opera, officials take their wives home at the door, are invited by their hosts and wives, and then sent to the study. What about now? Some civil servants have two dinners a day, just eating, and then they leave in five or six hours. How can they have time to work? When I come back, I will sing karaoke again. It's totally OK karaoke! The problem is too serious to be completed.
It is not enough to look at the positive history, but also to read novels. The so-called history, often people's names, places and times are true, and the content is not very reliable; In the novel, people's names, place names and time are all false, but that story is often true.
This is an era in which democracy, equality and freedom seem to be the most important. In fact, emperors all over the world are surnamed Qian, and money is the master. Money determines the ranking. Without money, there is no freedom. There is no truly independent and outstanding personality cultivation and knowledge cultivation, only messy so-called personality publicity and money first. Even scientific research, education and academics are under the command of money. Without spiritual support, once they lose their jobs, it's like the sky is falling.
34 Buddha is the heart, Tao is the bone, Confucianism is the table, and the world is generous; Skills in hand, you can be in it, thinking in your head, and live calmly.
The soul spirit of a nation is culture.
I read the four books and five classics in those years and memorized them all. The children are very happy after school. You push me and I push you while singing. If you study like this, you will keep it in mind and never forget it. When I think of it, I meditate in my heart, and the truth is once again pondered.
If consumption is to stimulate production, it is better to fight every day. So you see, the United States has provoked wars everywhere, which is the biggest consumption stimulus to production. Now, the United States advocates adopting the so-called neo-liberal economic thought. You should learn from this neo-liberalism, stand completely in your own country's position, rule the world with economic weapons, control people all over the world with money, and become an international economic warlord. What kind of culture is this? We should think deeply.
The warning of youth is colorful, the warning of youth is in struggle, and the warning of old age is in harvest.
If you want to lose your temper, turn your temper into compassion and boredom into happiness, this is called practicing step by step and correcting your behavior.