Women's marriage wisdom, it is not easy to manage a good marriage. In marriage, girls should have the wisdom to manage marriage. A smart woman can run a marriage like a duck to water. It takes wisdom to run a marriage. Let's share the wisdom of women in marriage.
The wisdom of women in marriage 1 1, learn to rely on it.
Marriage depends on your husband to improve his sense of mission. Every man has a hero complex. I look forward to being the patron saint of the woman I love deeply. So women with high emotional intelligence need to use this.
You need to make him feel that you are not good without him, you will miss him without him, and you will be lonely without him. But in your heart, you must understand that no one in this world is equally wonderful, and it is not easy to change for everyone.
2. combine rigidity with softness
A woman should be a little woman at heart and learn to be tenacious alone in the maintenance of marriage, but the surface must be gentle! Especially in front of her husband, always be a charming little woman.
3. Adjust daily life with romance.
Lovers in love need romance, and there are some unexpected surprises in the married life of husband and wife, which can also stimulate the dull sex life of husband and wife. Although boys concentrate on their work after marriage, women have to do housework besides work, and they don't have much energy to think about romance, but it's better to show each other in key life.
Step 4 respect each other
If two people who love each other want to maintain this relationship for a long time, the most important thing is to respect each other, their preferences, their living habits, their families and their friends.
Don't interfere with each other's personal hobbies, don't change each other's living habits too much, respect each other's family just like respect your own family, show friendliness in front of each other's friends and leave enough face for each other.
5. Don't nag
Remember that silence is golden. Silence in time, you will find it more useful than nagging. However, if you meet a man who plays the fool, you can give him love violence, pull your ears and bite your nose, but don't use force.
6. Make friends with your husband
Friends are based on "like-minded". No matter what happens between husband and wife, they are interested in doing it together. No matter what topic, there are always endless words, so that the relationship between husband and wife will be stable for a long time.
Try to understand and like your husband's hobbies. You can go to the movies with him, play a football match with him, or go for a walk in a famous mountain with him.
In short, talking about anything is better than "boring". Even if you are really not interested in his hobbies, at least don't hit him and dig at him. You may not understand the moon, but you can always look up, right?
The wisdom of women in marriage II. The wisdom of a happy marriage.
Choose a partner voluntarily.
The secret of finding true love is to rely on oneself, based on the combination of inner love, rather than the herd behavior forced by family pressure, to alleviate loneliness, the needs of economic life and the inherent lifestyle of society.
Husband and wife should grow up together.
Husband and wife bring new knowledge to each other, help each other explore their own potential, surpass themselves and get along with others in a more mature manner. Husband and wife should have a sense of sharing, patience, gratitude, acceptance and forgiveness.
Love yourself and constantly improve yourself.
Your cuteness is what attracts your spouse. Believe in your own value, respect your own wishes and requirements, and be a complete person, not half of others. We must constantly improve ourselves in order to obtain the unity of external beauty and internal beauty, so as to maintain lasting attraction.
Learn to communicate and negotiate.
Without good communication, the relationship between husband and wife is like an empty boat carrying a frustrating journey full of confusion, speculation and misunderstanding. Nothing is more painful than being apart from each other. Communication lets the other person know your needs, wishes, changes and feelings, which is an important way for couples to keep their relationship smooth and active.
Careful care of emotions can achieve a hundred years of harmony.
Cherish the people you love and cherish the people around you. In the event of a quarrel, an active and sincere apology, an open-minded self-criticism and a conciliatory gesture can soften the anger of both sides, and even deepen mutual understanding and love by communicating and venting negative emotions.
When marriage faces challenges, face life together.
Husband and wife should interact, be harmonious and support each other. When a person is weak, another person should help him to be strong and tide over the difficulties. Establish a life mechanism so that your partner can share your success and pain.
Women's Wisdom in Marriage 3 How should a woman run a marriage?
First, understand the difference between love and marriage.
The biggest change of many women after marriage is that they like to complain that their husbands don't love themselves as much as before marriage. In fact, this is an immature concept of love. Two people are bound by love, but living together is not just for love. After entering the marriage, the responsibilities and obligations assumed by both parties are correspondingly intensified, and the interpersonal relationship faced by both parties is more complicated.
Neither side can spend much time with the other. At this time, love does not exist, but because the responsibility is placed on love. Sometimes my husband sends you a bunch of flowers to please you in some way; Sometimes it is your husband who accompanies you shopping to cater to you;
Sometimes it is the husband who doesn't quarrel with you in order not to create more contradictions, and so on. If you look too clearly, your happiness will be gone. Therefore, love can't make people mature, but marriage makes women more and more interesting. When you understand the difference between love and marriage, you will care less, share more and have more peace in your family.
Second, I still don't forget to cheer for myself in my marriage.
There will always be your casual beauty in life and your indifferent feelings in marriage. Once married, many women are obsessed with the trivial matters of life all day, with no vitality and vitality. In fact, a woman has her beauty at any age. However, we must not let ourselves fall behind in our ideological understanding. Don't forget to save your strength no matter how busy you are after marriage. The most beautiful cosmetics in this world are books, and the most nutritious ones are books.
Therefore, women should become attached to books after marriage. Learn more subjects and knowledge you don't know, whether it's life or health or personal enterprising. The more you know, the stronger and gentler your heart will become.
You won't care about the little things in life, you will look down on the contradictions in marriage, and you will know how to keep the marriage fresh, and at the same time, how to make yourself a young, happy and likable person.
Third, pay attention to the education of husbands and children.
If a woman in marriage wants to manage her marriage well, she must properly handle two kinds of relationships. That is, their relationship with their husbands and their children. A wise woman never imposes her will on her husband. They will try their best to guide them and let them express their ideas and opinions happily in a pleasant atmosphere.
Therefore, a smart woman must have carefully observed her husband and understood him, thus learning to avoid contradictions, create surprises and seek common ground while reserving differences. In this way, the family has always maintained a harmonious atmosphere. For children, smart women know how to lead by example, know their own example strength, always use practical actions to enlighten children, and will not easily tell them what to do and what not to do.
They don't give children too much pressure and tasks. Instead, they will always guide their children to learn to manage their daily lives.
After reading the above, I believe you should know how a woman should run a marriage. If a woman wants to manage a marriage well, she must let herself see through it and let her husband and children rely on it emotionally. We should not only learn to make life interesting and understand the true meaning of life, but also learn to cheer for ourselves and create vitality for life.