In the "Blue Book for Teenagers" published by the Institute of Journalism and Communication of China Academy of Social Sciences, five sentences that children dislike most from their parents are sorted out according to the survey. Come and see if you have been tricked.
1 urge learning: hurry to study/write homework;
2 comparison of the same age: you look at other people's children/you look at others;
3 entertainment restrictions: do not watch mobile phones/TV/games;
4 Direct negation: really useless/stupid;
5 others: I know how to play all day long.
In fact, excellent children are parents' "routines". If the above negative and disrespectful words are replaced by the following "routines", the children will get better every day. The harder parents work, the better their children will be. Mothers like to collect, and they use it a lot every day ~
1 invincible rainbow fart
Baby, you started doing your homework as soon as you got home from school. I admire you a little! Still a baby, the efficiency of your homework today is much better than yesterday. Keep going. Mom believes that you will do better and better.
2. Strengthen reverse thinking
Mom, I believe you will do better next time.
3 Exaggerate self-discipline
Wow, you didn't want to do your homework, but you finished it so quickly. How did you do that? I knew it.
Praise and keep your promise
After watching cartoons for half an hour, turn off the TV yourself. It is a good boy who keeps his promise.
5 encourage expression
Although you lost your temper, mom knows you must have your own reasons. Can you tell me?
Open your heart.
I see. Thank you for sharing your little secret with me. Mom will take care of it for you.
7 frustration education
It doesn't matter. Setbacks will make you stronger. You are doing very well. Mom believes that you will do better next time.
8 frustration guidance
It's a little hard to do, but you keep on giving up. You're doing well, baby. Great!
9 listen patiently
What you said is very reasonable, with clear expression and strong logical thinking ability.
10 affirmative behavior
You have tidied up the toy area really neatly. Is it a sense of accomplishment?