(1) economic guarantee;
(2) physical and mental health;
(3) There must be an interlocutor who can understand each other from the bottom of his heart;
(4) Work and function beneficial to others;
(5) can get proper sexual satisfaction.
Love and marriage in old age, in most cases, have played a role in meeting these conditions.
The so-called sex does not simply refer to the satisfaction of sexual desire. Broadly speaking, sex in old age is to satisfy the feelings that both sides think necessary, to encourage each other, to strengthen unity and to share happiness. Conversely, both sides' emotions can be satisfied, which can dispel loneliness and increase self-confidence.
A large number of facts have proved that it is beneficial to the society, the family and the health and longevity of the elderly to do a good job in remarriage. In particular, it is indispensable to encourage and support the elderly to give full play to their residual heat and complete their unfinished business. It should be protected by law and supported morally. This not only guarantees the legitimate rights and interests of the elderly who wish to remarry, but also has many benefits to the whole society:
(1) is conducive to reducing the mental burden of children. Most children of single elderly people have established small families. They are busy with their jobs, raising children and family life, and worry that they can't take care of the elderly. If the demands and wishes of the elderly are met, the mental burden of caring for the elderly can be alleviated for some children.
(2) it is conducive to raising the next generation. Family is the cradle of children's growth. At present, most families in our country are dual employees, and couples leave early and return late, which leads to many problems in raising children, which is not conducive to the growth of the next generation. If the old man remarries, not only can the old couple take care of each other and be happy and healthy, but they can also share the task of raising the younger generation.
(3) It helps to reduce the burden of the state on the elderly. At present, our country can't cover all the living problems of the elderly, especially the lonely elderly. If there are conditions for the lonely elderly to combine courtship, this will enable some lonely elderly people to have a new home and reduce the burden on nursing homes and civil affairs departments.
(4) It is conducive to reducing and preventing the occurrence of abandonment and abuse of the elderly.
(5) It is beneficial to comfort the spirit of the elderly and develop their mental health.
In a word, whether the elderly remarry is their right, and the family and society can only provide them with reference opinions. Love and marriage in old age are "specific drugs" to improve the meaning of existence. Whether you are remarried or single, you should be recognized by your family and society.