Answer this question according to your question. First of all, although the state encourages all of us to have three children now, having three children is not suitable for all our families, of course, we still have to do what we can. Triplets are also not recommended in the following aspects.

The first is that the husband and wife disagree. Raising children is a long-term effort and investment. Husband and wife are United, so as to achieve your ultimate goal. If one party resolutely opposes it, any trivial matter after birth may become the fuse of family problems or war.

Secondly, parents are older. You can't take care of our children anymore, and you have no energy to help us. But we need jobs to make a living. So it is also one of the reasons for not having three children.

The second or third child affects the bottom line of survival. One more child will definitely reduce the quality of life. As the saying goes, poverty means poverty, and wealth means wealth. However, in many cases, having one more child will lead to one spouse's unemployment and the family's economic income will be greatly reduced, especially in cities with high survival pressure. If family wealth is not accumulated enough before having children, having one more child will really affect survival.

Finally, Dabao is extremely opposed at home. It is up to parents to decide whether to have a second child or a third child, but Dabao's opinion still needs to be heard. Especially when Dabao is extremely opposed and forced to die, it is very important for the second or third child to take a break, or to adjust Dabao's mental health first.

The above answers hope to help friends in need.