Generally speaking, the gift is too light and meaningless, and it is easy for the recipient to misunderstand that he looks down on him, especially for people who are not close. And if the gift is too light, it is difficult to ask others to do something, and the chance of success is almost zero. But if the gift is too expensive, it will make the recipient suspected of accepting bribes, especially for officials and superiors. Except for some people who love to take advantage and are courageous, ordinary people are likely to decline politely, or even if they accept it, they will pay it, or they will find ways to repay it in the future. Isn't this forcing people to spend? If the other party refuses, your money has already been spent, and it's useless to keep it, which will cause a lot of trouble. As most people often say, "spend money to find guilt", why bother? Therefore, take the other party's pleasant acceptance as the scale, choose the gift with appropriate weight, and strive to do more with less money; Spend more money on good deeds.

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Appropriate time interval

The time interval of giving gifts is also very particular, and it should not be too frequent or too long. The giver may be well-off or eager for success, so he often delivers big bags to his door. Some people think that such generosity will definitely win the favor of others, but when you think about it, it is not. Because your frequency of giving gifts is too purposeful. In addition, reciprocity, people must return your favor. Generally speaking, it is appropriate to choose important festivals, celebrations and birthday gifts. The gift is neither abrupt nor empty, and you can feel at ease when you accept it, which is the best of both worlds.

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Pay attention to customs and taboos

Before giving a gift, you should know the identity, hobbies and national habits of the recipient, so as not to cause trouble when giving a gift. Someone gave perfume at the shower, but the giver didn't know that the recipient was sensitive to perfume. Isn't that indirect irony? Because the giver didn't know the situation, he had to break up in discord. In view of this, gifts must be considerate and avoid complications. For example, don't send a clock, because "clock" and "end" are homophonic, which makes people feel unlucky. Send a sad song "Happy Break-up" when others are sweet. If he can kick you out hundreds of miles away, I think he will!

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Gifts should be meaningful.

Gifts are the carrier of feelings. Any gift expresses the special intention of the giver, or returns, or asks for help, or contacts feelings and so on. Therefore, the gift you choose must be in line with your mind, and let the recipient feel that your gift is unusual and precious. In fact, the best gift should be a meaningful and thought-provoking gift chosen according to the other person's hobby, with extraordinary quality but not obvious. Therefore, when choosing a gift, we should consider its ideological, artistic, interesting and commemorative factors, and strive to be unique and unconventional.