2. How many frustrations and hardships of life are hidden behind you? Only you know. At the moment when I tried to understand, I felt much extra.
3. When people reach middle age, they are intoxicated with idealism, and life is ups and downs, such as a cup of tea, bitter as tea and fragrant as tea. Shallow reputation, Polly. No dispute, no gain. Everything is natural, everything is refined, and everything enters the beautiful artistic conception, which is the elegant beauty of life.
Sometimes you are rude to a person, but behind it is endless affection and bitterness.
It doesn't matter if you are sad, it doesn't matter if you want to cry, it doesn't matter if you are hurt, and it doesn't matter if you are alone. Give time and everything will pass.
6. Too much consideration of other people's feelings will often hurt yourself.
7. When someone says that you have changed, it is only because you no longer live in the way they are used to.
8. When I was young, I prepared materials and wanted to build a bridge to the moon or two palaces or temples on the ground. Living to middle age, I finally decided to build a shed. anonymous
10. In our life, we should go our own way and suffer our own hardships. No one can rely on it completely, thinking that we can't walk, and look back after crossing the past, that's all. Good morning!
1 1. Time will pass. Let time drive away your troubles!
12. Persist in hardship and struggle in fatigue.
13. Life now is not what I want at all. Think about my carefree life as a teenager. At that time, I always wanted to grow up quickly, so that I could speak and have sex with men. It's really silly to think about it now. Now that I have grown up, I feel that things are no longer simple. If you have it, you want to talk about marriage, but you want to give in. I don't have it yet, but I do.
14. Adjust your mentality. When life is frustrated, the fate of static products is bitter and happy; When life is proud, listen to the brilliant movement of life; Many people's failures and pains are not that they can't get out, but that they can't get back.
15. When I left, my heart was broken and I could never see you again. Hello, my heart is broken. It's over, it's over.
16. How can there be so many bright moons and breezes when people reach middle age? Pressure comes one after another, and the body hides a landslide, but the heart should accumulate experience after experiencing the world, and gradually become clear and relieved. A wise man should not make his own cocoon. Smile when you wake up in the morning and go to sleep without emotion at night.
17. I love you and see you when I am happy and angry. You can't miss my ups and downs You can't miss my death. Even if I want to be a thief, you have to be a thief with me.
18. People don't realize that to be a real person, you don't need utility, action or mind, you just need to be down-to-earth, diligent and true, and be a person who is afraid of everything.
Middle-aged people have no choice but to feel sad about life (part two) 19. Life is a revolving ladder, we can't get ahead in life, and we may eat away some happiness and beauty in our hearts at some point. Therefore, we must never lose our happy heart, the courage to pursue hope, and a pair of wings to fight the storm. The road is endless, and life will not despair because of temporary misfortune and pain.
20. The mountain will support you only if you climb to the top.
2 1. People can't struggle blindly. Have a goal. Only by striving for your own goals can you get what you want.
22. When people reach middle age, they will feel how many regrets they have and how many opportunities they have lost, and their fate is in their own hands. This is just a self-summary. It's not terrible to miss it, but to be afraid of making mistakes in the same place again.
23. Middle-aged men often feel lonely. Because he opened his eyes and was surrounded by people who wanted to rely on him, but there was no one to rely on. You're right. Everyone wants to grow up and doesn't want everything to change too fast. Because everything is gone forever.
24. The world is neither so good nor so bad. What we have to do is to be kind to everyone when the environment permits. When the environment does not allow, protect the people you really care about.
25. When someone says that you have changed, it is only because you no longer live in their way.
This middle-aged man in his thirties is of medium build and has a square face. The skin on his face looks rough because of years of working in the fields. It seems that he hasn't slept well for several nights, and his eyes are deep.
In order not to leave regrets and regrets in our lives, we should seize every opportunity and change our lives as much as possible.
28.30 years later, I saw it with my eyes, touched it with my fingers, held my 30-year love in my hand, and feathered into a lush flower, fluttering in the wind and overflowing with fragrance. Don't look at how short your shadow is and how long your steps are. Go ahead, walk into the lush Yuan Ye and stare into those eyes, and your future years will be reinterpreted and full of happy flowers.
29. Don't say anything until your friend decides. Suit yourself. This is an irresponsible heart, pretending to be easy-going face. Don't say anything after a friend decides. I have already reminded you. It's no use, smart mouth.
30. Stand up and dry your sweat. Go on, life will go on.
3 1. There are always some beautiful things in life that are inadvertently missed. Happiness is actually a state of mind. Some people lack happiness simply because they lack a happy attitude. In fact, there is happiness everywhere in life. As long as we keep a happy mind, we can find happiness even in a small matter.
32. Find a good chat, go shopping and eat when you are lonely. Don't let loneliness drown you.
33. There is no beginning once and for all; There is no ending that cannot be saved. In life, what you need to grasp is that you should start without hesitation; If it's over, it's over cleanly.
34. When people reach middle age, they still have to soak Lycium barbarum in a thermos.
35. You must sell yourself 100%.
36. Start your life again, even if it is a person.
Middle-aged people have no choice but to feel sad about life (Chapter III). I heard that happiness is very simple, and time is diluted as soon as it is rushed.
38. Learn to be strong in failure and optimistic in loss.
As long as we work hard, anyone can be his own hero.
40. I will try my best to smile, just so as not to worry you.
4 1. A person becomes himself, that is, he reaches the peak of happiness.
42. Learn to let go of everyone who has hurt you, because these injuries have enriched your experience and completed your life. Injury is also a part of growing up, and we all have to go through it.
43. Hello, New Year 2022! I will greet every enemy with a smiling face.
44. You can take any road, but you can't take a dead end; You can choose any road, but you can't choose the wrong one.
45. When people reach middle age, their emotions will fade. Now I hate nothing but being poor, and I am not afraid of anything but being old. Loneliness and emptiness can only be said by qualified people.
46. Life has both roads and muddy roads; There are both beautiful scenery and traps. Only those who have firm faith and go forward bravely can reach the end of victory.
47. Although sometimes things go wrong, you can control everything by yourself, face it happily and do things without feeling tired. Be happy with yourself and infect everyone. You will feel carefree when you cry, and a rainbow will appear after the rain.
48. Life is like this. If you are with sunny people, you won't feel gloomy. When you are with happy people, you often have a smile on your mouth; People who are enterprising will not lag behind in their actions; With generous people, you are not stingy; If you are with wise people, you will not be confused when you encounter difficulties; With smart people, you will become smart. Borrow people's wisdom to improve themselves; Learn from the best others and be the best yourself.
49. If we manage well, we will be happy.
50. The performance of life needs hundreds of times of practice before it can be beautiful. Life gives you some pain just to tell you what it wants to teach you. If you can't learn once, you will suffer once. If you can't always learn, you will wrestle in the same place again and again.
5 1.—— Go ahead and you will see a bright future.
52. When tomorrow becomes today, yesterday, and the last unimportant day in memory, we suddenly find ourselves unconsciously pushed forward by time. This is not the illusion that we are moving forward when we are in a stationary train and cross with adjacent trains, but that we really grow up on this matter and become another ourselves.
53. When you are hesitating, the world is big; When you take the first step bravely, the world is small. When one day you become the person you like, who will question that your choice is unreliable?
I miss you very much, but I don't want to see you.
Feeling that middle-aged people are not easy to feel helpless and sad (4 1 sentence)
Copywriting that middle-aged people don't easily feel helpless and sad (I) 1. People don't know until middle age that they are led by desire every day. There is no end to desire and life is coming to an end.
2. Strong self-confidence can make ordinary people make amazing career.
Love is a flower and marriage is a fruit. Beautiful metaphor, isn't it? But the law of the plant kingdom is: fruits and flowers can't both be picked up, there is no flowering fruit, and there is no flower when it bears fruit.
Only when you climb to the top of the mountain will this mountain support you.
The so-called surprise is that the rabbit you are waiting for comes, but it is followed by the wolf.
6. All women's sad past events are related to love.
7. Not every corner of fate is smooth. Don't care too much about romantic affairs. Don't miss the lost youth. If you fall, you can get up. Life is easy to get old, and no one can afford it. Victory is not crazy, setbacks are not rout, risks are not light, it is not easy to rush, it is not easy to relax, it is not easy to stop, suffering is at your feet, and the future is always beautiful.
8. No matter how great you think you are, there will always be someone stronger than you; No matter how unfortunate you feel, there will always be someone more unfortunate than you.
9. People who distort others' goodwill forever are hopeless.
10. When you sat with me for the first time, my palms were empty.
1 1. In fact, the only way to make an ordinary love have a longer shelf life is for two people to guard it together.
12. You are watching the lonely scenery, and I have the memory of escaping.
13. Our love has become the past, and the present has nothing to do with the past.
14. There are many detours, paths and dark roads in the journey of life. Only those who are determined and never stop can hope to reach the distant place of victory.
15. There is no hard work and no place where people are not complicated. Don't lose your temper at will. Nobody owes you anything. Learn to keep a low profile, there will be gains and losses between choices, don't care too much. Learn to be pragmatic, and the harder you work, the luckier you will be. When a person has enough connotation and material backing, life will become full of confidence. The good is called wonderful, and the bad is called experience.
16. In a paragraph, there is always a kind of helpless tranquility, a kind of feeling, and an incomprehensible poetry, only to know the helplessness of life.
17. When people reach middle age, stop comparing with others and put health and happiness first. Everyone comes to this world as a passer-by, and people don't take a dime. What's the point of fighting and taking pictures? Never treat yourself badly again. Nothing is better than having a good mood, and nothing is better than good health!
18. When people reach middle age, they will feel how many regrets they have and how many opportunities they have lost, and their fate is in their own hands. This is just a self-summary. Missing is not terrible, they are afraid of making mistakes in the same place again.
19. Life now is not what I want at all. Think about the carefree life as a teenager. At that time, I always wanted to grow up quickly, so that I could speak and have sex with men. Now I feel really stupid. Now that I have grown up, it is no longer simple. If you have it, you want to talk about marriage, but you want to shrink back. I don't have it yet, but I do.
20. Open the palm that you have been holding tightly. Love turns into a bird, standing on your shoulder, chirping towards the sunshine after the rain, towards the other side of the grass and towards the approaching rainbow.
2 1. Time is like water, lonely reflection, when is the end?
Copywriting that middle-aged people don't easily feel helpless and sad (Part II) 22. When I was a child, I thought I could save the world when I grew up. When I grow up, I find that the whole world can't save me.
23. It doesn't matter if you are not chic after you have packed your bags and want to leave. What you feel is the helplessness and hardship of life.
24. The quickest step is not to leap, but to continue; The slowest pace is not a small step, but a wandering; The best way is not the main road, but to be careful; The most dangerous road is not a steep slope, but a trap.
25. The watchful heart, erasing the initial memory, the helpless memory, or the pessimism of missing, is just the fault of life, just the loneliness of life.
26. When people reach middle age, I understand that life is like a dream, the past is like smoke, and everything goes with me without sadness.
27. When you say marry me, you are married to happiness!
28. Dissatisfaction is a substitute for vacancy, which makes people have a constant desire to climb up in comparison.
29. Those who dare not get angry are cowards, and those who don't get angry are wise men.
When you plan to start a new business, you can start it when one or two out of ten people agree, so it won't be too late.
3 1. Bending knows how to bend in order not to destroy the integrity; Sometimes, proper bending is a reason; In reality, bending contains rich philosophy. Learn to bow your head to follow suit; Sometimes, proper bending is a kind of detachment; In life, bending embodies the art of tolerance. Dare to bend, in order to stand more stable; Sometimes, proper bending is a state; Actually bending can solve annoying problems.
In order not to leave regrets and regrets in our lives, we should seize every opportunity and change our lives as much as possible.
33. Excitement is a kind of worrying love, which overflows slowly. Excitement is a hard wait, the coming Ying Ying.
34. It is things, not people, that fail.
35. I cut off my tongue and put it in your mouth. This is the longest kiss.
36. Don't ask why it is my last tenderness.
37.**, friendship, affection ... We have everything except love.
38. The road is at my feet, and I have no reason not to move forward well. The care of relatives and your company. These will be the best and most effective weapons I use to clear obstacles. The most precious thing in life is not what you can't get and what you have lost, but what you have now. It is a great pity not to cherish what is in front of you. Because what you have will always be lost, don't regret it, and learn to cherish what you don't have.
39. People will encounter unpleasant things and people in their lives. If you don't learn to forgive, you will have a very painful and tired life. Forgiveness is a kind of grace, a kind of feeling, it is like an umbrella to help you walk in the rainy season. Learn to forgive and learn to be happy.
40. When people reach middle age, they have a value that they no longer doubt, a family full of peace and a source of income that they don't worry about spending-I think this is the specific definition of happiness at my age.
4 1. expectant mothers are key protected animals. They can't be blown by the wind, catch cold or shed tears. They all need someone to accompany them when they walk. There are countless taboos about confinement. This is not confinement, this is a prison.
The helpless and sad sentences of middle-aged people in The Little Red Book (47 sentences)
Little Red Book 1 A sad word from a middle-aged person. Seeing a very good saying, when people reach middle age, they just watch the older generation grow old and then wait for themselves to grow old.
Life always makes people bear a lot, and it is this helplessness that makes life colorful. You have the right to live, and life has the right to choose you. Even if the whole world abandons you, you can't abandon your heart.
I disdain to argue with anyone. Those who love me, don't argue. If you don't love, it's no use arguing again.
Experts and forgers can't go against the essence of things, only artists can, because artists are constantly changing, and they don't go against the essence of things.
The so-called "person" is what you add to it, and it is no longer a "person".
6. When people reach middle age, even the background color of happiness is no longer pure.
7. Life is like this, people have no choice. If possible, I hope that the warmth that once gave me never existed.
8. I always want to work hard and live seriously. I always want to be sincere and keep smiling. I always hope to be full of hope and never despair. I always want to be kind to my family and friends. I always want to be grateful and optimistic. Only to find that there are always some roads in life that are already difficult. There are always too many expectations and disappointments, too many dreams and too many words to say. Always want to escape from disputes and get into reality. There are always many grievances, and I have always been helpless.
9. Thirty years later, I realized that the days ahead are still very long.
10. Life is not perfect. If you find a mistake, don't cover up another mistake with one mistake. Always soaking in a pool full of mistakes will only make you weaker and weaker. Only by letting go of yourself can we enjoy today's happiness. If others don't forgive you, you can forgive yourself!
1 1. Our road to love, even if it is a thorn, will never retreat, only move forward.
12. Messy biological clock, I really want to stand on the street and scream at the sky at the moment. Everyone is drunk and I wake up alone. Hahaha, the streets in the morning are the most ruthless and cruel, and all I see is the helplessness and hardship of life.
13. Remember this sentence, yesterday, delete it. Today, for the memory. Tomorrow, fight for it. Yes, insist. Wrong, give up.
14. They all left because they wanted them to come back one by one in the most lonely time.
15.30 years later, I realized that love held tightly in my hand is the burning sunshine.
16. You must sell yourself 100%.
17. plant happiness in your heart and you won't be sad.
18. You will meet many people in your life. Some people love you, some people are jealous of you, some people value you, and some people don't take you seriously. You are injured, you are tired, you are lost, you are missed, and all this has nothing to do with people. You are responsible for your future.
19. There are two kinds of hopeless people: those who disobey orders and those who do what they are told.
20. Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws and irresistible. When death catches you, you need to face it calmly and laugh at death! As long as we are honest all our lives and don't do anything wrong, we should draw a satisfactory conclusion for ourselves.
2 1. The withered heart has lost the care of life. If it is helpless, it always puts down the pattern. A person always bears the greatest wind and rain.
22. The road is at my feet, and I have no reason not to move forward well. The care of relatives and your company. These will be the best and most effective weapons I use to clear obstacles. The most precious thing in life is not what you can't get and what you have lost, but what you have now. It is a great pity not to cherish what is in front of you. Because what you have will always be lost, don't regret it, and learn to cherish what you don't have.
23. Life is a vast stage, constantly deducing the warmth of family; Life is a spectacular picture depicting the true feelings between friends; Life is a magnificent bridge, which builds a deep sincerity between people. It is in this heart-to-heart collision, the communication of ideas and the integration of exchanges that a beautiful spark is struck.
24. Life is easy to get old, and people's life ladder will soon flash behind them and never return. Not cherishing is like running water: "running for a long time is no longer the front water."
The middle-aged people in the little red book have no choice but to be sad. 25. If fish drink water, the water is warm and cold. A very uncomfortable sentence.
26. If you have any good ideas, act immediately; If you meet a good opportunity, seize it at once! Take immediate action, your success is limitless!
27. I cut off my tongue and put it in your mouth. This is the longest kiss.
28. In this world, no pain belongs to you, so there is no need to be pessimistic and disappointed. Living in this world, no one is not painful, and no one will not shed tears. For everyone, pain is just a passer-by, a kind of training, a kind of test. In the face of pain, don't just be sad, but cheer up Pain is inevitable, don't lose heart, and firmly believe that the pain will endure.
29. When the ends of the earth are far away, all my memories are of you.
30. Dissatisfaction is a substitute for vacancy, which makes people have a constant desire to climb up in comparison.
3 1. It's okay. Although there are many regrets in life, it doesn't matter. Because I know that there are many regrets and helplessness in life, not the accessories of life, but life itself.
32. Life is painful, and it is thought and philosophy that sublimate it.
33. Growing old is a compulsory course in life, and maturity is an optional course.
Sailors are more adventurous than spectators, but there is hope to reach the other shore.
35. The temperature of life depends on the temperature of the soul.
36. There are two kinds of people you can't forget. One is the one you love, and the other is the one you hate, but they are often the same person.
37. Small things, humorously; If you are not sure, be cautious; Happy things, reading words; Don't tell everyone about the sad things; Speak carefully about other people's affairs; Do your own thing and listen to your own voice; Now, do it; We will talk about the future.
38. Holding your hand, day and night, holding your hand, waiting for tomorrow, holding your hand, walking through this life, holding your hand forever.
39. Perhaps there is a lot of helplessness and hardship behind every glamorous person. When we complain that life is not easy and unfair, think that there is no easy word in everyone's life.
40. Life is so good, as if I were rowing a wooden boat and walking alone. The biting cold wind and the biting sea water rushed at me, so helpless.
4 1. Will people swell in middle age or will people swell with a little money in middle age, proud and full of anger, and no longer remember?
42. Friends are intimate and parents are filial.
43. Be the best today, review the best yesterday and welcome the best tomorrow.
44. The saddest person in the world is a person who has no advantages to show off, but uses annoying arrogance and boasting to cover up his poor inferiority.
45. When you say goodbye, try to be gentle, preferably in a joking way, and let the other person feel that there is still a future.
46. Middle-aged people are particularly tired. What is a foreign body? After the passion of youth disappears, everything is just a foreign object.
47. When people get old, their careers have come to an end, and their former glory has become a thing of the past. Standing in the last post of life, people are eager to purify their hearts, need to sublimate their spirits, and look forward to simplicity and truth. At this time, only by revisiting the old place, reuniting with relatives and reminiscing about childhood dreams with old colleagues, old classmates and old comrades-in-arms, can we find the feelings and true feelings of childhood, cherish the true feelings and enjoy the true feelings, which is also a great pleasure of old age.