When you are a college student, the first thing you lose is your academic confidence. Achievement is the hard power that a student has the most say in his study. When hard power is insufficient, other channels cannot make up for it. No matter how confident you are in other aspects, you will think that scholarships and other things have nothing to do with you, and you don't want to fight for them, so don't think too much about the bonus policy. This is the loss of confidence. He is no longer a soldier who wants to be a general. For a vivid example, if there is a beautiful woman standing in front of a single and lonely man, if this single and lonely man is a premature ejaculation patient, he will not push down this sister paper. Because he knows that he has pushed down the sister paper, he will soon play the game over, and the sister paper has not come out yet, so he will lose face extremely if he pushes it down. This is the impact of hard power on self-confidence.
The second is the change of your habits. If you lose confidence in your study. Often a large number of people will believe that "college study is not the most important" and start to pay attention to other aspects. I may be awesome in the club. I may play music very well, right? Maybe I earn more from part-time jobs than others? I may be able to reach the level of an anchor by playing games, earning millions a month. I am good at basketball. Maybe my sister is chasing me. . . I'm a little excited to think about it. Then it will deviate from the habit that should be formed. Studying in college is not the most important thing, but learning to study independently is the most important thing. For example, this semester, we started specialized courses, and the teacher only read textbooks. . I don't know anything, so universities have libraries, study rooms, networks, seniors and teachers. You can learn this course well through all resources and learn more than the teacher said. Even you will encounter problems that you can't learn in class, such as how to intercept the video, how to remove the voice of people's lines in the movie video, and leave a background music. These things are not learned in many professional classes. But you can solve this problem through libraries and the Internet. This is the process of learning. But the change of habits will stop you from being crazy about learning. And addicted to games, sister paper, part-time, music, social and other after-school activities.
Third, confused youth. After four years of college, you will want to cry when you leave. Because you lost your beautiful youth. You don't remember what you did. Trying to remember, bits and pieces appear in front of me. But those fragmentary tiles have nothing to do with the building you want to build. Your building stays in a beautiful dream. Your construction period is over. Postgraduate entrance examination seems very difficult. Looking for a job, or what should I do My youth seems to be coming to an end