? If a person's life is compared to a tree, then parents and grandparents are the roots of this big tree.

? In the big magnetic field of the universe, if you want to be lucky, you must take root one by one, because the roots are deep enough to flourish.

I didn't understand this truth until people reached middle age. I used to think I was sensible and filial. After studying the traditional culture, I specially participated in the all-public welfare training course on filial piety, caring for the elderly and caring for harmony organized by Zhengzhou Current Health Company, which made me feel that I was still far from filial piety.

? I went deep into my heart and checked my mistakes. When I was a child, I often complained that my parents were eccentric and eccentric. I often think that I am not my own and have done a lot of housework, but I still can't get my parents' approval. If I make a mistake, I will be greatly blamed. When I grow up, I blame my parents for not letting go and interfering with myself too much. I always want to stay away from my parents so that my parents can't reach me.

? I often travel on business, but I didn't tell them for fear that they would stop me. After I came back from my trip, I never told them where I went, saw the beautiful scenery and met those people, fearing that they would talk about this and that.

In this way, although they are relatives, they are deeply separated, never communicate, and some opinions are avoided, so although they love each other, they never flow.

? Participated in two sessions of health wisdom classes, but also attended without telling my parents. I used to be a serious sub-health patient. I took a lot of medicine and health products and exercised a lot every day, but my health didn't improve fundamentally. It was not until I attended the fast meditation class that I realized that all diseases are created by heart, and only seeking inward is the foundation of good health. By cultivating the mind, seeing through and letting go, the body recovered to a young state and lost 65,400 weight.

? Both parents are over 70 years old, although they also pay attention to maintenance, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases still come to you, except for a bad heart and a slight cerebral infarction. They eat health care products all the year round, and believe in the hospital, especially after they got a cerebral infarction in the past two years, and the infusion in the hospital quickly eased, so they believe in the hospital even more. So when I first told them that I wanted them to take a health and wisdom class, my mother said that she would never go. How to convince them? Teacher Jia said that sincerity is the spirit. I asked how sincere my heart was. I pray from time to time for the blessing of Guanyin Bodhisattva. Later, I called again and again to persuade, taking myself as an example, and told my parents that Mr. Jia had a great influence on my work. I infiltrate traditional culture into the classroom, so that students can learn the rules of apprentices, practice bow and scrape, and have respect. When giving lectures, let students share their learning experience as much as possible, so that my class can come alive and be deeply loved by students. I have great respect and gratitude for my students. My father, a teacher, was very moved after listening to my story. There is a saying that moved my mother: "Mom, you go. If you go, my illness will be fine. " In fact, parents are the most selfless in the world. They are willing to give everything for their children. If my mother came for her own health, she might hesitate. When she speaks for me, she will make up her mind to come. Because my right eye is convulsive, a teacher Wang told me a few years ago that the root of my illness is resentment against my elders, and I can kowtow to my parents in public to make amends, but I know this truth, and there is still a long way to go.

? I went to see them off on the day of class. I said, you should study happily. Don't think it is your duty to stay at home and cook every day. You should have your own life. This sentence may also be in their hearts, so they came happily.

? I went to see them twice when I was studying. Every time I go, I see my parents are serious about meditation. Everyone is tired and resting, but my father who had a femoral head replacement is still walking, keeping a fixed rhythm. I remember how many laps I walked each time.

? On the first day of filial piety class, I asked my parents to go on stage to wash my mother's feet. Teacher Zhang's emotional guidance made me cry. After washing my feet, I held my mother's hand tightly and held her hand tightly. Everything my parents used to do for me was displayed before my eyes. I used to think it was all my parents' responsibility, but I didn't understand my parents' helplessness at that time. I just want more love, but parents also have difficulties and can give it to their children.

After this class, I told Mr. Jia and Mr. Shi that I now feel that my parents are actually very kind to me, which I didn't feel before. I wanted more at that time, but my parents didn't want it. They also have their own helplessness and pain.

The last two days fall on Saturday and Sunday. I came to the class with my parents. Teacher Jia said that since I'm here, I have to come on stage to share.

? In fact, I have a lot of ideas hidden in my heart. In the National Day class, I used to confess my resentment against my parents on the stage, resenting that they didn't care about me when I was a child and never recognized me. I think I must go on stage this time, wash my feet and kowtow to my parents in public and confess to them. In fact, this idea came into being two years ago, but I never walked to the stage. The face thought of intellectuals has always hindered me, and I admire others for confessing on the stage. I used to wash my mother's feet after class, and I couldn't say anything about repentance, but on this platform, I did it.

? In the sharing after the last class, I expressed my understanding and gratitude to my parents. The energy field in public places is really great. My ungrateful daughter now knows that her figure and hair are influenced by her parents. Now when people praise me for my big eyes and double eyelids, I can think that my parents gave them to me. When my son was admitted to graduate school and determined to become a scientist, I can think that it was given by my parents. They helped me take care of my children when I was in the most difficult time and gave them knowledge and scientific enlightenment. When my son graduated from college, he said that his scientific enlightenment came from the principle of internal combustion engine when his grandfather showed him the train when he was a child.

? When I said on the stage, I thank my parents, you gave me everything, and my parents shed tears. When I bowed respectfully, my father, who was not good at expressing his feelings, hugged me excitedly and said, Good boy. At this time, I knew that I had opened the channel of communication with my parents, and I was rooted.

On the way back, I asked my father, "Dad, will you stop taking medicine in the future?"

My dad said, "No more."

? "Are you afraid of getting sick in the future?" My dad said, "I'm not afraid."

I boldly asked again, "Dad, are you afraid of death in the future?" My dad said, "I'm not afraid anymore."

? My mother said, "We have been saving money since we were forty years old, for fear that we won't have the money to be hospitalized when we are old. Now that I have mastered the method of not getting sick, I don't have to save money in the future, and my heart is relaxed. " "Then I heard my mother say to my father," We will never eat meat again. "

? The father then asked his mother, "How can I change my living habits in the future?" My mother said, "I get up at five in the morning and eat sweet and sour shredded ginger." It's winter, and it's cold, so I just walk at home for an hour, cook breakfast at six o'clock, do housework at seven o'clock, start walking at home at eight o'clock, then rest for an hour, go downstairs to meditate at nine o'clock, rest at half past ten, rest at noon, and insist on going downstairs to meditate at three or four o'clock in the afternoon. "

? My dad said, "well, will it be awkward for you to see your daughter-in-law in the future?" You always feel that what others do is not in line with your own meaning, directing others to do this and that. " My mother said, "Change it, change it all."

? My dad said, "That's right. Everyone has their own ideas. Our approach is not the only correct one, and others' approach may be very good. "

My mother said, "That was before. Have I not changed a lot now? Sometimes I just talk to you. "

My dad said, "Not only can't you talk behind your back, but you can't even think about it, or you will get sick. And we can't ask for anything in return when we go back to our hometown to do good deeds for the village. We can't do it just to make others say we are good. We have no requirements for others, as long as we do our own thing according to our own wishes. "

? After listening to their words, I realized how profound the changes brought by the health and wisdom classroom were. How stubborn they were in the past. I have no right to speak in front of them. I once told them that their illness was caused by their hearts, but as soon as I said it, they refuted me together. Now they have only participated in the first stage of study, and their hearts and living habits have been completely changed. My mother always said that my father had a femoral head replacement and couldn't walk too much. Now I have no objection. How nice!

Some people say that the best filial piety is companionship, and some people say that the best filial piety is to return home with clothes on. In fact, filial piety has four realms:

First: filial piety to adoptive parents. That is, children often support their parents with a certain amount of wealth, so that parents have no worries about food and clothing and no shortage of daily necessities.

Second: filial piety to adoptive parents. That is, children often go home to see, chat with their parents, chat and comfort their parents.

Third: the ambition of filial piety to adoptive parents. That is, children should not only work hard, but also do their part wholeheartedly and strive to realize their ideals. We should guide and help parents to realize their ideals and ambitions. Sometimes parents' ideals and ambitions can be realized through our achievements. So as a child, we must work hard and behave well.

Fourth: Honor the wisdom of adoptive parents. That is, children should not only study hard and go deep into classics, but also gradually understand the truth of the universe and life, handle daily affairs well and live a happy life. We should try our best to help our parents live a happy life in various ways. Make their hearts calm and their wisdom complete.

? The hardest thing is to make parents' wisdom perfect, and sometimes it is the hardest to communicate with relatives. However, if we attend such a health wisdom class, it will help us realize our wishes. I really hope that more and more elderly people can enter such a platform, get a healthy lifestyle, get the wisdom of life and get the wisdom of life.

? Grateful for our health wisdom class not only cured our body and mind, but also helped us to be filial. Appreciate all the encounters in life and all the friends along the way.