Words: honesty. Athena Chu: zuò rén Interpretation: 1, meaning to be a man; Treat people and things. 2. solve the problem; Understand the mind. 3, without losing face, decent. 4. Be an upright and selfless person. 5, grasp the discretion of things, don't mess around. 6. Fulfill your obligations and obey the law. 7. Be able to respect the old and love the young and make others happy. 8. Help others. 9. Do things seriously and be a down-to-earth person. Do as you would be done by. Love is infinite. Be a good person: be a low-key person; To be a man, you should learn to be steady, not make public, pursue fame and fortune, and let everything go with the flow. Basic explanation 1. [behavior; [Being a person]: It refers to treating people with things and knowing how to behave. 2. [Be an upright person]: To be an upright and selfless person, you must be such a person. Treat people and things. Jin Dong explained the fourth volume of Yuan's The West Chamber: "It is difficult to be a man now." Li Mingzhi's Notes on History Outline Volume XIII: "Zhong Hui doesn't know how to be a man." Yang Shuo's "Three Thousand Miles of Rivers and Mountains" XIII: "When you meet in spring, you are good, and you feel the psychology of others." 2. solve things; Understand the mind. Yuan Guan Hanqing's "Tune the Wind and Moon" is the first fold: "Although I am a powder, I only strive not to wear a headscarf and hate those unreasonable women." Ma Yuan Zhiyuan's Tears of Shirts is the second fold: "A pretty soul can't hover without me, I am a person's solution." 3. Lose face and have dignity. Qin Yuan Fu Jian's "Dongtanglao" is the third fold: "You are a man to take care of me, so I ask you to be a helper!" 4. Be a decent person. Chapter 18 of Jun Qing Tsunami: "The question is whether you have the courage to confess to the organization, check sincerely, correct your mistakes and turn over a new leaf." Anthropology's explanation of being a man has risen to the same height as bamboo's Principles of Being a Man-Solving the Mystery of Life, which is a book that expounds the truth of being a man and the mystery of life. This book points directly at the core issues of human studies-humanity and humanity, and is also an innovative masterpiece of human studies. The author points out that being a man is a unique concept in China culture, and there is no corresponding fixed vocabulary in western culture. In order to understand the mystery of life, the author gives a strict definition of being a person: being a person refers to the activity of doing things, treating people and directing yourself to become a certain person in a certain way or concept in any period of time. To put it simply, being a man is to act in a certain way or concept, treat people with things, and command yourself to become a certain person at any time. In this way, we can explain various specific problems in life by being human. Edit this paragraph to be a man. Being a man is for others to see, and doing things is for yourself to see. Because others only look at how you are and seldom look at how you do things, there are many people in the workplace who are incompetent but live in higher vocational positions. This kind of person is not really incompetent, but his ability to be a man far exceeds yours. Nowadays, a large number of people don't like asking for help from others and feel embarrassed. Or colleagues around you please their superiors, which will also cause discussion among colleagues. Please pay attention. Don't talk about others in the future. You should feel a sense of urgency. Maybe the next boss is the colleague you are talking about now. You can have a look if you don't believe me. I remember when I was in primary school, a classmate liked being a monitor very much, but he never showed it. But when the head teacher drew up a candidate, he talked about this person behind his back. Why is this happening? Because he is very concerned, his heart is extremely unbalanced. Of course, a monitor was nothing at that time, but you were born in society and still look like this. Then you may always be just an employee in the company. Why don't you convey your opinion to your superiors? Everyone wants to be a manager, of course, it doesn't rule out that some people like to be managed, but if you don't reveal your thoughts to others, how can others know what you are pursuing? It's a little confusing, but every word wants to remind everyone that being a man is better than doing one thing. Some people have worked hard all their lives, and finally they will retire. The boss just found out, Lao Wang! Why don't I give you two years and one meter so that you can retire and enjoy the rest of your life? And some people can be promoted from clerk to metre in a year, but Lao Wang spent most of his life. Is it worth it? Of course, after we do our life well, we will also do what our superiors tell us. People who don't trust you like this and don't want to promote you! This is just my personal opinion. What I have seen, felt and learned from books, the structure is very chaotic, not as good as a writer! Please forgive me! Edit this paragraph to understand that the truth of being a man is the highest among animals. Of course, to be a good person, people can walk upright, people can eat, drink and be merry, people have joys and sorrows, and people also have ups and downs. They constantly weave our beautiful life and let us find the source of life. People are emotional and rational, and keep their promises. Have you ever been touched by others? Have you been in contact with anyone? There are so many things around us that we should be fascinated by the world. Why be a man? There is no need to rummage through everything to find the answer, such as affection, love, friendship, brotherhood and so on. These "feelings" are enough to surround you and let you find the value of being a man. Zhu said: "Sages talk a thousand words, but only teach people to be human." . Life is irreversible. I hope you and everyone will cherish this unique life and learn to be a man. It is not difficult to do things. Being a man is the premise of doing things. Being a man is the foundation of life. Learning to become a talent is the theme of life. Success in life is the greatest success. Personal dignity is the noblest, diligent and enterprising. The greatest real society will abandon laziness and cowardice. It will abandon vanity, bow down to be a man, and want nothing. Only when you do things can you be confident, calm, comfortable, self-respecting and mature. Noble and free-spirited growth is more important than success. The process of growing up is the process of being a man. Learning to be a man is bound to succeed, but not to be a man. As a man, he must learn to be a man all his life, show his dignity, experience his happiness and realize the value of being a man. Never forget that he is a capital "person"-from the editor of Life Collection. Look at and deal with problems with the concepts of activity and movement, connection, contradiction, change and development. The cooperation between individuals and society, that is, the beneficial and effective cooperation between individuals and national social groups, can promote the rise of people's happiness index. The goal of life is nothing more than this. Therefore, on the one hand, we must understand that it is not enough to rely on our own efforts, but also the functional guarantee and organizational cooperation of social groups and political parties. Of course, here we only talk about how specific people do it. Man is a combination of matter and consciousness (I hope everyone can supplement it): (1) Exercise and training consciousness 1). The most important thing for a man is to have a healthy body, which is the foundation and less physical suffering. Health is indeed a kind of happiness. There are many books about health preservation methods for reference. (2) Human consciousness can be expressed by "mental quotient" (including: brief summary: a). Exercise IQ: study cultural knowledge hard, never too old to learn, and apply it to practical tests to point out the direction for life. Without a scientific mind, it is still very difficult to become a brilliant person who knows how to innovate and create scientific development. Including the ability to feel, perceive and represent things, as well as the thinking ability to judge, reason, analyze and summarize concepts. B) Exercise will quotient: that is, people's will quality, such as discontinuity, self-awareness, self-control, tenacity, etc. Human beings have always possessed noble courage and fighting spirit, strong will, and know how to persist. More people should inherit this excellent quality. It is difficult for people with low will quotient to undertake big tasks. C) Exercise EQ: EQ largely determines the success of one's family and career. Regardless of their relatives. People have to experience many different partners in their life. Why are some close and some distant? Of course, including themselves. It includes the ability of emotional reflection, emotional memory, emotional adaptability, emotional sensitivity and emotional rational thinking of value. Of course, there is also a very important point: love for mankind, love for the motherland and love for society. Without this feeling, being a man is first and foremost inferior (you can cherish and care for your family and friends, don't other people's family and friends and everyone's family and friends deserve your love? It is equally worthwhile and equally important. ) (2) Protecting the environment, even if we do our bit, can also protect the society, the country, the earth and mankind. Environment is where people stand, and its foundation is hairless skin. To be a man, specifically: 1. To be a man, you must have a plan. A man without a plan is like a puppet with a elm head, and his life is lacking. Of course, there is no harm in scheming here, not calculating other people's hearts, not playing tricks and cheating. To be an upright person, there is no room for a little haze in your heart. Such people are pure people. On the contrary, people who specialize in politics and deception will eventually suffer the consequences. Have a little ingenuity and draw wisdom from life. Never experienced the baptism of society, never experienced the tempering of life, such people are always simple and natural, without the slightest intention. Being wet in the world for a long time and having more experience will naturally produce scheming, so scheming is also the concentration and refinement of life. It is also the need to protect yourself from harm to keep a little scheming in dealing with people. The scheming is not used to harm people, but to protect yourself. As the saying goes, harming others is not good for yourself. Human feelings are warm and cold, the world is cold, and things in society are complicated. In the face of such a world without any hidden secrets, how can we properly safeguard our own interests? 2. Be principled. Be a man of principle. A gentleman does something and doesn't. It is difficult to be a person, and it is even more difficult to be a good person, because being a good person has principles and moral standards, and requires patience and modesty. Principles can be the starting point of self-improvement in life, grasping moderation, not seeking the best, just seeking better, being happy in continuous progress and making contributions to society. 3. To be a responsible person, you should have a sense of responsibility, shoulder morality, and take due responsibility for work, friends and family; The same is true of financial management, taking people's money and eliminating disasters for others. No matter what "wealth" you earn from part-time and full-time, you must pay a decent return and have a clear conscience. 4. Be a person with plans and goals, have plans and goals, know how to correctly analyze yourself and analyze the future; The same is true of financial management. You can't make money and spend without a plan. There is no "moonlight" if you have a plan, and you will not be empty-handed if you are white. 5, will choose friends, be honest with people, understand that a hero has three gangs, and friends have many ways. Once you choose a friend, you should carefully cultivate and be honest with each other; Just like financial management: don't put all your eggs in the same basket. Funds, stocks, government bonds, securities and gold are all "friends" who can accompany you all your life. You should be accurate and patient. 6, be a man, enough is enough, don't be eager for quick success, don't be hot-headed, and shoot when it's time to shoot; The same is true of financial management. Don't compare with others at will, curb blind consumption, live within your means and don't waste money. 7, be a man, be a man, don't be timid, don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss; The same is true of financial management: the money that should be spent needs to be spent. The key to financial management is how to use and allocate money to make yourself happier, instead of being too frugal and stingy and suffering from kindness. 8. If you want to work hard, you must know how to use the resources around you and strive for a broader space for yourself. After all, individuals are weak, of course, you should also learn to use various "relationships" to achieve great things. So is financial management. We should seize every opportunity, pay attention to the details of life, and constantly explore the potential power that can bring extra income or harvest, so as to turn small money into big money and small profits into big profits. 9, be open-minded, be open-minded, be informal, and have a broad vision; Financial management should be aboveboard, don't be careful about others, and don't hurt everyone's kindness for petty gain. You know, intangible wealth is more important. 10, a man should know how to give up, know how to give up, give up, don't let yourself get stuck, understand that letting go of the past and always grasp the present and the future; Financial management, but also feel at ease, "spin a thousand silver, all come back!" Those who can win must also afford to lose. To understand that there are gains and losses in business, there is no need to punish the confidence of today's efforts for yesterday's investment failure. 1 1. Good at coping with changes. In fact, for a person, there are too many changes in life, work and study. Changes happen all the time, which means that changes are eternal, whether we are afraid or not. Don't feel sorry for the broken glass, and we don't yearn for the "cheese" in memory. It will only be the helplessness and wishful thinking of the "White-headed Maid Xuanzong". What we need is to find a way that suits us, get rid of comfort, transcend fear and move at random. Life will not depend on someone's wishes, change will come at any time, so we should face it positively. If we can adapt to the change as soon as possible, we can do better. When we face changes, we will be afraid and at a loss, which is normal. As long as we can treat fear seriously and scientifically, it can even help us avoid real danger. We don't have to refuse change. We can completely change our attitude towards change, enjoy change in change, embrace change and welcome change. 12, be good at seizing opportunities. We live in such a fast, changeable and innovative era. Everyone may face a completely different situation from the past, so people often feel that their goals are changing. All kinds of external strong changes and internal conflicts interact, which makes people feel at a loss in all kinds of changes. First of all, ask-what has changed in my goal? Then I was at a loss because I was not used to the new life state, and I couldn't handle it correctly and fell into confusion. If you are always immersed in the pain of "loss", the dilemma of "decision" and the helplessness of "disappointment" in all kinds of sudden changes, then life itself will become an obstacle. Life is a big maze for us, and you will stay in a corner and settle down. After a long time, as you get older, you will be "too lazy to change" or "have no courage and passion" to change and pursue. We should pursue our goals in real life. Goals do exist and are constantly changing. We should actively create harmonious interpersonal relationships and sincere cooperative partnerships with full work enthusiasm, positive and optimistic outlook on life, strong sense of competition and service, and strive for a better tomorrow! With the rapid development of social science, our competition is becoming more and more fierce, and competition is everywhere. Our current goals may be removed at any time. How can we keep our current goals? Only by adhering to the ideological line of emancipating the mind and seeking truth from facts, finding the goal of keeping pace with the times and constantly innovating, doing a good job, constantly learning and understanding new knowledge, mastering new technologies, meeting competition and challenging the future, can we not be eliminated. 13, a low-key life, we often have the idea of explaining something. However, once explained, I found that anyone's explanation is so pale and weak, and it will even get darker and darker. Therefore, being a man needs no explanation, so he becomes a wise choice. So in today's society, getting along with people, I think the key is to learn to keep a low profile! Being low-key is a character, a gesture, a demeanor, a cultivation, a mind, a wisdom, a strategy, and it is the best gesture. People who want to succeed must tolerate others, and then be accepted, appreciated and worshipped. This is the foundation of human existence. Being a low-key person is an excellent gesture to strengthen the foundation of the world in society. Being a low-key person can not only protect yourself, blend in with the crowd and live in harmony with others, but also make people accumulate strength, sneak quietly and achieve a career without showing signs of dew. Learn to be a low-key person, that is, don't be noisy, pretentious, insincere, involved in right and wrong, suspicious and jealous. Even if you think you are brilliant and better than others, learn to hide others. Complaining that you have no talent is only superficial. To be a low-key person is to look at everything in the world with a peaceful mind. Practice to this state, you can from beginning to end, not only can make people happy when they are humble, but also can make people suffer when they are prominent. 14. Role adjustment will naturally play a specific role, first children, then teenagers, young people, parents/couples, grandparents, grandparents, friends of others, some roles at work and so on. We should first understand the rights and obligations of each role, even if it is a superficial activity, and then clarify our real identity and strive to be a person who conforms to our identity. Of course, role identification is usually a leap-forward transformation. Or mix identities and occasions. You should know how to distinguish them, so that you can make appropriate and satisfactory behaviors in different space and time. Some roles require you to put a lot of sincere feelings and even sacrifice, while others don't. 15. Care about current affairs and politics, don't be blind, and have a clear understanding of your environment, such as the collective, society, the world, the universe and what happened. Don't know how to learn. People can't live without their surroundings. Only by interacting with the environment scientifically can we settle down first and then develop. 16. Take care of the environment, regardless of your own family, collective and society. Caring for the environment can make your living space clean and sanitary, reduce pollution and ensure health, which is also the happy enjoyment of being a human being. Interaction with the environment includes concrete (actual resources). Without information, it's like a blind man touching an elephant. Not bad. Resources: Resources are precious, otherwise, we don't need to transfer water from South to North, build factories to develop manufacturing industry and keep doing research ... Non-renewable energy has been in crisis, so we must save on use and prolong service life, even though the country is still developing new energy sources, such as solar energy. If nuclear fusion energy is realized, information: the person who reads this manuscript is the one who understands the importance of information and the one who searches for information. Not everyone is born with knowledge. A good material, if ignorant, will be buried. Relatively speaking, knowledge is also a kind of information, and the treasure house of knowledge is extremely rich. It depends on whether you can learn it. There are also current politics, surrounding things, logical relations and so on. It is better to consider and weigh the decision comprehensively. Information, timely analysis. 17. The small bureau obeys the overall situation. As long as people need it, there will be differences, contradictions and unfairness. People, people and groups, groups and groups have it. This is an inevitable phenomenon. A friend explained how to protect his own interests. There are always big and small interests, and there are differences between the local and the whole. If the ministries fight or retreat, they will fight because of indecent assault, and the country will have no peace. Of course, at that time, there was no understanding today. Only a few people were willing to sacrifice their own interests and were still arguing about the political system of the country. In today's society, it is extremely wrong and will not succeed if we can't recognize the problems of the overall situation and the small situation, evade responsibility and fight internally. For example, how to survive working in a company 18. Apply what you have learned according to your needs and do your own "job". It does not have to be appointed by any company or individual. The society needs every screw, and it is also trying to organize, coordinate and maintain the normal, orderly and good operation of the state machine. If you don't get on the bus, you will be left behind. After learning, you can't just take advantage of yourself, enjoy the moon and have fun. Some people in society are actually very capable. Wild geese leave a voice, others leave a name, those who have the ability do not work hard, or they die if they don't succeed. For young people, the conditions are much better now. Even if it is a big deal, they should give full play to their abilities and find a place for themselves. It is not empty talk to love peace and feel life. China has also experienced many wars, and each time it was miserable. At present, the world is not very stable. Middle East If we live there, why should we worry? The contradiction between big and small in other parts of the world is becoming more and more obvious because of differences in national interests. Therefore, peace is very precious. Here, you can chat leisurely, relax, study, work, eat a good meal, have time to educate children, exercise, watch the news, buy lottery tickets, do business, have a place to reason, have friends to help you, and have the internet available. I have the opportunity to read this manuscript ... in short, there are many ways for people to face everything in the environment, their specific reactions and behaviors, and their interactions, that is, scientific summaries and theories (you can refer to many books), but the real world is vast, profound, great and unknown. If you succeed, you will be buried in the long river of history. If you fail, you are still an individual. Anyway, in the long river of history, everyone has his own position and has made certain contributions, and different positions reflect different values. We just try our best to reduce the reaction that hinders the progress of society and instead push the wheels of society forward, because the descendants of mankind, including you and me, must not come to an abrupt end and stagnate. We are born as human beings, and life is priceless. It is the greatest pride for human beings to persist in developing into today's world. This is an unwritten law, but it is different from the law. It mainly depends on education, public opinion and people's conscious understanding. -Mao Yisheng, bridge expert II. To make people truly educated, they must have three qualities: profound knowledge, thinking habits and noble sentiments. Not much knowledge is ignorance; Not used to thinking about whether it is rude or stupid; Without noble sentiments, it is vulgar. -Chernyshevski, Russian literary critic and philosopher. Morality can be divided into two kinds: one is wisdom and the other is behavior. The former comes from learning, while the latter comes from practice. -Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher and thinker 4. Happiness from evil virtue can still hurt us in happiness; The pain from virtue can still comfort us in pain. -Goldon, British geneticist. Politeness is not always a sign of wisdom, but impoliteness always makes people doubt its stupidity. -Randall, English writer. Politeness is the first important habit that children and young people should pay special attention to. -British philosopher Locke. Politeness is the most important thing in life, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge. -herzen, Russian philosopher and writer. Politeness is the most beautiful flower in noble character. In winter, British painter 9. Punctuality is the greatest courtesy. -Louis XIV of France 10. Politeness is the desire to regain courtesy and respect. -La Rochefoucauld, French writer 1 1. No matter how noble or poor you are, it is your parents' business. You should try to create your own world. -Fang Haiquan 12, ideal, a way to express dissatisfaction. Ideal is a kind of power! 13. In this vast sea of life, ideals are compasses, and enthusiasm is high winds. 14, the higher the goal, the more valuable the ambition. 15. Even if we don't move, time is still moving for us, and the passage of days is enough to take away what we want to keep 16. Life is like a journey, and ideals are the route of travel. If we lose our route, we have to stop moving forward. 17, people can survive only if they have material things; One must have ideals to talk about life. Do you want to know the difference between life and life? 18, only by combining with this world can our ideals blossom and bear fruit; Without this world, ideals cannot bear fruit. 19. My ambition and ideal for my career is to take "truth" as the starting point, "goodness" as the process and "beauty" as the ultimate goal. [