1. How did self-cultivation come from? Even in the face of all provocations, we should suppress our explosive thoughts and enlighten ourselves. This is a simple general formula. No matter what happens, the first thought must be to suppress the outbreak and then comfort yourself, and always find an exit, bright and warm. You don't have to pretend to be restrained when you encounter the same thing again. Smile and you will lose. That's probably how self-cultivation comes.

2. True temperament means that you are kind and smart, do not slander, dare to admit when you are wrong, understand when others are wrong, have a sense of responsibility, are not hypocritical, do not deliberately please others because of interests, and live tenaciously and independently in this world. It is not an excuse to blame strangers at will, break openly, and be unfriendly at any time. You don't feel afraid of offending people. This is low emotional intelligence, not pretending.

When you have something on your mind, but you can't find an ear to listen to, you know that you have been forcibly pushed into adult society. Happiness can be taken out to bask in the sun, but sadness is left to yourself. This is the motto of the bar mitzvah. Still miss us at that time, we are all young and happy. Later, time deceived innocence, and fame and fortune overcame innocence. The age of innocence is no longer difficult.

In the face of those who scold me, I don't have time to stop and quarrel with each other or explain afterwards. I can only keep running and running, running and running, and the voices of those who stand in the same place and scold you will be low. Maybe there will be new people cursing you ahead, but I still believe that the further you go, the less time you have to curse people, because everyone is running.

5. What is the difference between youth and maturity? When I was young, I always wanted to change. When you are mature, you always want to be stable. In fact, it is best to do different things at different stages of life, because after that period, you really won't do many things. I am most afraid of being lazy when I am young and regretting when I am old. Life is just a process. If you don't do what you have to do, you will live in vain.

6. Since when do we feel that we can't continue to be friends with a person because of a sudden sentence? You may nod, chat and say hello when you meet, but the content will never touch some topics again. Because you don't think it's necessary. It's three points colder than breaking up.