1. Ms. Li, 66 years old
My husband and I have three children together, so I was under great pressure when I was a child. Because my parents-in-law are in poor health, I can only take care of my children at home and can't go out to work, which leads to my lack of income, and all the responsibility for supporting my family falls on my husband. In order to earn more money, my husband often has to hold several jobs alone and stay busy until late. There are so many people in the family waiting for him to earn money alone, and there is a lot of pressure.
After three children grow up, my husband won't have to bear such a big pressure. The whole person relaxed at once, but his health became worse and worse, and he would soon be exhausted. It may be that the previous busyness led to the later slack, the gap in life is too big, there is no pressure, and people are easy to die first. I have to say that men are too tired and bitter to support their families, and women should be more considerate.
2. Ms. Ji, 69 years old
My husband was under great pressure at work before his death, so he got into the habit of smoking and drinking. Smoking is to release stress, but drinking is inevitable in social life. I can only say that his life is too hard and difficult. Even smoking and drinking are just to fight stress. It is not easy to live in this world.
The most important thing is that my husband has been feeling very frustrated in recent years, probably because he has no ability, so making money is very rough. I often see him crying in the toilet in the middle of the night, and I know that such days put a lot of pressure on him. It was this pressure that made him die not long after he retired.
3. Ms. Qin, 65 years old
It was not until my husband died that I realized that I had gone too far in these years. In daily life, I have a bad temper. After marriage, whenever something goes wrong, I will make a scene, lose my temper with him and put the blame on my husband. I know, I will make my husband feel bad, but I just can't help myself. I regret it even more until one day he left with a heart attack after being angry with me.
It is not easy for a man to work for the whole family. If women are not particularly busy at work, they should be considerate of men, and don't blame them blindly, otherwise your injury will become a sword and fall heavily on men. Over time, it will damage his physical and mental health. Isn't it not worth the loss? Most of the reasons why men die first come from being too busy and tired at work when they are young, leaving the root cause of illness or perennial stress, which makes him breathless, and his wife's incomprehension will eventually die soon. In fact, in marriage, it is not easy for two people to stand in each other's position, understand each other and make allowance for each other to form a family. Both sides should work together for the family, and each other's life will be more complete.