The rules come from Fiona Fang.

Suffering hardships,

You are a master.

Everyone has a different understanding of rich children.

In my opinion, the real wealth of raising children is rich knowledge and vision.

Raising a daughter with wealth is pampered, and raising a daughter with knowledge and experience is really rich. The real enrichment is to let children know that parents are not easy. The significance of rich support is not to let parents tighten their belts to meet all unreasonable material needs and inflated vanity of their children, but to enrich their hearts and strengthen their will. Using money to "have money" to raise a daughter will only expand the child's desire indefinitely, and there will be no desire. Only by seeing your parents' hard work with your own eyes can you know where your wealth comes from; Only by understanding their parents' difficulties can they cherish what they have now, and they will not make endless demands that embarrass their parents.

1. The sense of ritual in life is the best "enrichment" for children.

On the way of growing up with my children, I will find a sense of ceremony in the seemingly ordinary little things in my life. For example, for my family's birthday, I will carefully arrange the birthday scene with my children, discuss making a delicious meal together, customize the cake together, and invite friends and relatives to celebrate the birthday together, light candles and sing birthday songs. On this birthday, our family will have a wonderful time. Therefore, every time you have a birthday or an important festival, your child will look forward to it very much. I will also tell the children that their birthday is Mother's Good Friday. So that every time the children celebrate their birthdays, they will give me gifts and design a meaningful birthday dinner for me.

2. Willing to make children suffer hardships and enrich their ability to adapt to society.

Hardworking doesn't need to deliberately create a miserable environment, but let them experience real life. For example, let children participate in housework, let children clean up their own rooms, let children help others as much as possible within their own capabilities, and let children try to solve problems by themselves when they encounter difficulties. It's not that parents do everything when things go wrong.

Let children realize their own value, know that the meaning of life lies in taking responsibility and efforts, and let them know that the meaning of a person's life is actually great.

Let children have more contact with the real world, let them realize the richness of life, know how to be cold, know how to be hot, know how to be bitter and know how to be sweet. After some hardships, children will be able to exert their strength and become independent and dependent on their parents when they grow up.

Suffering hardship is a unique inner experience, which will deepen children's cognition and experience of their emotions. Suffering can make children more experienced, establish more harmonious and sincere interpersonal relationships, and integrate into society more easily in the future.

On the other hand, spoiled children often don't know if they are blessed. They are used to eating sweetness and can't appreciate the happiness brought by sweetness. If they suffer, the "suffering" will be magnified several times, which makes them unbearable.

Suffering education is not only to cultivate children's tenacious willpower, make them stronger and more resistant to pressure, but also to cultivate children's rich emotions.

3. Enrich children's spiritual world with rich knowledge.

We let children receive a good education, that is, through the absorption of knowledge, let them pass on human wisdom and knowledge.

We let them go out to travel and let them know and understand the world by looking at it;

We let them make friends, participate in social activities, let them know how to tolerate and respect others, and master the scale and discretion of interacting with others. ...

In the final analysis, it is for your own knowledge. Enrich children's spirit.

The growth of a child is a practice of drifting away.

Not only children need the process of growth, but also parents need it. No one is born as a parent, and no one is labeled as excellent at birth. The process of raising children is the process of growing up with children. Love does not protect children with its own wings, but teaches them how to fly.

Poor cultivation can't be poor in spirit, and rich cultivation can't be rich.

Whether rich or poor, it is better to grow up with loving children on the road of life. Cherish those fleeting warmth and happiness, even in the cold winter, you can create beautiful scenery with your hands.

Abundant support is a person's sense of satisfaction and security.

This is Fuyang.