No dog blood, no painful chemotherapy, no blow. It's just an action of a "middle-aged girl" to cope with the hair loss crisis.

I thought I didn't have enough courage to do it before, but now I understand that this is not a matter of courage, but a matter of mood.

I have wanted to shave my head since high school. Because my hair is soft, I don't lose much and I don't grow much, so my hair collapses when it is oily, which is ugly. I used to complain to my friends that I had little hair and used a lot of shampoo, but it didn't work.

Some time ago, I went climbing with a friend I haven't seen for a long time. She looked at my newly cut boy's head and said, "I feel your hair is missing again." This forced me to want to shave my head more and more strongly, so I ordered a wig at a treasure first, and then went to the barber shop alone to ask for a haircut.

"You won't regret it?" The male barber asked me carefully. I shook my head smartly. "Just cut it." In this way, I watched my hair fall in front of me and shaved it off at once. "Your hair is really rare." The barber's words made me feel that this decision was right.

▲ In less than a year, I changed three hairstyles and my hair became shorter and shorter.

After cutting, I immediately covered my bald head with a hat. I went back to my place and looked at my bald head carefully in the mirror. I touched my head, and it stung me, especially. Very cool. The only bad thing is that it feels a little cold in winter.

That night, I asked my friend to accompany me to buy a hat. "I shaved my hair very short." Then I showed her a small part of my forehead.

She was scared by me and was very angry: "Why didn't you tell me!" " What do people think of you when girls shave their heads? How can I find someone! What did your colleague boss say? What do customers think of you when you talk about this project? "She also blames me for scaring her the day before her exam.

I can't help wondering: "Why didn't anyone say that boys shaved their heads?" Can't girls shave their heads? ""Girls are different. " "Not to say that equality between men and women? Don't men and women have the right to choose freely? " "But others don't think so!" "I don't care what others think of me." "Maybe I can't keep up with your advanced thinking. "But in the end, she sulked and patiently accompanied me to take off my hat.

I don't like being conspicuous, and I know that baldness doesn't look good, so I always wear a hat to work. I have four hats, which I change in turn every day.

When my colleague and boss asked me why I wore a hat, I said frankly, "Because I am bald." They look surprised. "Why did you shave your head?" "I just want to grow more hair." My family didn't say much when they knew I shaved my head. Maybe I know, now that I have grown up, I can't say anything.

When I graduated, I told my friends that I wanted to be a consistent person inside and outside. If I complain or want to do something, I must act on it. I don't want to be a man of words and deeds. As a 94-year-old aunt who stepped into the "middle-aged crisis", I have been on the road of health preservation for half a year.

I feel like a typical "middle-aged girl" with two people living in my soul. One is a little girl who doesn't grow up: she will stare quietly when she meets a good-looking person; I want to try everything, like fun and exciting things, and most want to go to New Zealand to play extreme sports. I like playing games, and the pleasure I get from games is far greater than "buying bags and lipsticks".

One is a middle-aged man in quiet: he soaks his feet every day, likes climbing mountains and doesn't like cold drinks. Even in winter, I have to soak raisins in hot water until they are isothermal. When I see others showing their ankles and legs in winter, I will secretly say, "Young people now." ; I like to keep my home clean and tidy, and I am also used to putting away shopping bags and plastic bags. I like the taste of traditional Chinese medicine, I like to make good food, and I like to make soup best. I feel very satisfied when people say that my cooking is delicious.

But I especially like that cool feeling. I have a man's hat. When I put it on, it is a "cool girl". My long-lost college classmate (girl) saw me and said, "Why are you becoming more and more Man?" Ah, I like you more and more. "(We are all heterosexual)

I went to many wig shops to try on wigs before, but many of them were not satisfied because they always felt strange. I looked at myself in the mirror wearing a wig and couldn't help laughing. I said to the clerk, "I still like my bald head."

A friend of mine told me that she also wanted to shave her head, but she didn't have the courage. I want to say to her, be brave and be yourself. What kind of person you are has no direct connection and influence with what others think of you. Others can influence us because we believe in other people's opinions, but the only thing that can influence you is your opinion of yourself. Don't forget this.

If you are prepared, if you want to do something, as long as it is not something that hurts yourself and others, do it smartly.

(PS: Since I shaved my head, I found some small transparent plush on my forehead. I feel that having a thick black hair is just around the corner. Shaving your head is really convenient. I will often shave my head or something if I plan to work. )