It's normal that you don't take the initiative to fall in love for a long time, and it's easy to dilute your feelings. If you want to keep your feelings hot, you need more practical actions and more initiative, so that you can surprise each other, make each other happy, become more interactive, and have more communication between couples.

Second, allow the other party to be imperfect.

Everyone has shortcomings, even the perfect lover in your eyes will make you feel uncomfortable. We should accept this from the heart, instead of asking each other to be perfect and have an inclusive heart. We should try our best to see each other's advantages and disadvantages, or kindly remind them and correct them slowly.

Third, establish a good attitude.

Don't be impatient, lose your temper, and yell at each other easily. Everyone is in a bad mood, and everyone is unhappy sometimes. But you have to explain to each other why, don't kill people for no reason. In this way, you are likely to accidentally hurt each other!

Fourth, cultivate more feelings for each other.

It's hard to get feelings back to the fiery heat when they first fell in love, because they are already familiar with each other and know a lot about each other. Now the feelings have become that kind of affection. But it can also be changed. Two people should interact more and quarrel less in daily life, so that their feelings can be maintained better.

Fifth, learn to express yourself.

China people are naturally reserved and embarrassed to express their love, which is not conducive to the communication between lovers, and many things you don't tell others can't understand. Therefore, forming the habit of expressing love is very beneficial to increase feelings. It can be a hug, a kiss, a message or a "I love you", and you will find its magic.