Storytelling is a kind of occurrence, occurrence is an action, and action generates power. The book says: After telling the story, some new things will grow invisibly in my life, such as compassion, tolerance, courage and action.
Yes, in telling stories, I got up my courage. I can summon up the courage to read letters to my parents and bravely express my love and gratitude to them. I let them see their own value and importance. I want them to have a little confidence in their hearts, to live with their heads held high one day, and to have more happiness in their later years.
? Being close to my parents' heart really made me feel the power of telling stories and gave me great inspiration. I thought of another dearest person in my life, my dear brother. I hope to get close to my younger brother and make him understand me better, so as to gradually understand and accept my parents.
So, I began to tell my brother stories, my stories, my parents' stories. The first time I received a phone call from my brother in the middle of the night, I heard him say, "Sister, when I grow up, I can protect you from injustice". I was too shocked to speak for a long time. The joy came so suddenly that I didn't expect her to reply to me so quickly. After the shock, a warm current came to my heart-my dear brother came back. My brother was young, and we were protecting him. When he grew up, I don't know when, but our relationship gradually alienated. Now, a heartfelt explanation has brought the long-lost kinship back, and our brother and sister's hearts are closer. My brother not only called me, but also took the initiative to call my father who works in other places to say hello. I think love is beginning to flow slowly between my father and my brother.
Storytelling is also a process of self-exploration and self-healing. The story makes me more complete and makes me "more like myself". I believe that the story will also make my brother and parents more complete and make them "more like themselves".
Su *, I read what you wrote and was very moved. You are a very good and kind person. But where is your self? Besides your parents and brothers, what about your other family? What I saw was a Su Xia who desperately tried to save her family, but she ignored her relationship with her family. You know, you are the most important!
I feel that you sisters in your fifties are very kind and kind. You have done a lot for your family and parents silently, and you seldom care. However, I hope my sisters will think about it and say, "I love being selfish". Who told you this idea? Your father loves himself. Is he selfish? Your brother loves himself. Is he selfish? You have done a lot for your parents. Do you think that brothers and sisters who have not paid so much are selfish? Do parents think they are selfish? You hope that your children will take care of their small family, do all the housework at home and take care of their parents in the future, just like you. They are too tired to rest or complain, for fear of being called selfish. Do you think your child will be happy if she leads such a life?
Thank you for responding to your partner from another angle. It's good to have you.
The mode of inheriting ancestors is often imprisoned by filial piety ... really, many times I just can't find my place in my mind, and there are many grievances and anger. At the same time, I will use this "love" to control others, and there is no room for happiness. Thanks to Xiaoyun for doing this anesthesia-free psychological surgery for 50+ people. Although it hurts a little, what I get is the radiation of love after loving myself. Thanks to the philanthropist Xiaoyun. I believe that this compassion will be reincarnated and blessed to Xiaoyun and the people Xiaoyun loves.
Teacher Cheng has a pair of [fist] [strong] [rose] perspective of discovery, and he never stops learning from the teacher.
You too.
I will always feel sorry for me and help me when I am in the most difficult time. Seeing Mr. Cheng's head, I have the courage to overcome difficulties. [10] [10] [10] [10] [10] [10] [10]
Teacher Yang, I don't know how the "difficulties" feel when they see what Teacher Yang said to me and that he has the courage to overcome them.
Difficulties: Try your best to be yourself and never forget your initiative within your ability. As long as you are altruistic, all the results will come naturally. I'm here to help you grow up, just like the Monkey King helped the Tang Priest learn the scriptures. When I appear on the road, there will always be a bodhisattva to help me. Remember karma, remember gratitude. [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face]
How does the host feel when he sees difficulties to help you grow? What is the relationship that the host wants to maintain when he has difficulties?
No more fear and anxiety, just accept coexistence and peace, be grateful and then thank it and the bodhisattva that comes with it.
Friend relationship
@ 丫丫丫丫丫丫 ~ Stable? I want to be friends with Difficulties. If so, what kind of distance does the difficulty want to keep from the master? In other words, what does it feel like to be friends when it hears its master say?
Wow, it turns out that I also welcome difficulties. Thank the host for his understanding and consideration. When she intends to stop growing, I will interrupt her. When the master's potential is tapped, I will become a floating cloud and float away naturally.
I am grateful to Mr. Cheng's serial call, beating my sleeping heart. I remember Teacher Zhou said that in the process of helping others, it is more important to ask a good question than to solve a problem. This is also the basic skill I want to practice. Hang in there!
The same experience, but Mr. Cheng Can put the blade inward, which is commendable. It is true that every life is its own expert. [strong]
Review interaction
Wow, at the moment, I feel a warm current surging in my heart. Teacher Cheng has built a warm "heart" for us, where everyone can tell their stories and release their emotions with peace of mind. At the same time, in the response of teachers and partners, we were seen by ourselves and by our partners. We get understanding, support and resonance, which makes our life strong and powerful.
I want to say that here, we have defined the direction of growth, found a long-term motivation, and created and enriched new stories.
I found that, as Mr. Zhou said, it should be repaired according to the situation. Every "situation" in life and every person or thing we meet is an excellent opportunity for us to "see ourselves" and practice good deeds. Now in this paradise, the more I look at it, the more I understand it.
Listening to stories heals, telling stories grows, and listening to stories nourishes. Thank you, I love you, TOEFL, our collective meditation space of "writing narrative reading"! ! !