Therefore, parents often cultivate their children around this goal, and eventually children become tools for parents to realize their wishes! If you want to achieve these three goals, let your children study hard. If they are not good, these three goals may not be achieved, so parents will constantly force their children to learn. When children have problems in their studies, parents' anxiety will come immediately!
As an independent life, the relationship between children and their parents is not subordination or sacrifice, but sharing and * * * sharing. Parents should be separated from their children. The success or failure of children is their business, and parents can only help them and do their best to achieve it!
Then the ultimate goal of raising children, first of all, is to let children leave their parents and live well in the world!
The second is to let children become themselves and have the life they want! Therefore, parents need to give their children two abilities, one is the ability to leave their parents, that is, the child's ability to be independent, and the other is their own ability!
If you want to give your child these two abilities, you need to constantly learn and educate your child's knowledge and grow at the same time. Raising children is a deep knowledge, and parents with mature psychology can effectively promote the healthy growth of children!