Trotted into the arms of Peng. 202 1, 65438+February 6, the hug ended Sun Haiyang's 57-day journey of finding children for 14, and Sun Jia ushered in a reunion.
A year is fleeting. On February 7th, 65438, Mr. and Mrs. Sun Haiyang hosted a banquet in Shenzhen to celebrate the first anniversary of Sun Zhuo's return to China. At the same time, they thanked 14 for helping and caring for people from all walks of life.
In the past year, a family of five went out to climb mountains, watch movies and play skateboarding together. Looking back on that reunion, it seems as if it was yesterday. Sun Haiyang thinks that in the 14 years of searching for Sun Zhuo, every day is like a year, very long, with no darkness during the day and no dawn at night; After finding Sun Zhuo, every year seems like a day.
200 steamed buns
On February 7th, 65438, Shenzhen experienced the first round of strong cold wave this winter, which was a rare sunny and warm day. At 4 o'clock in the morning, Sun Haiyang came to his steamed stuffed bun shop and made 200 steamed stuffed buns by himself. On this day, he and his wife Peng will hold a banquet to celebrate the first anniversary of their return to the motherland, and at the same time thank all sectors of society. Steamed bread will be given to guests as a small gift.
The thank-you banquet was held in a fishing field in Bao 'an District, which was remote but quiet. In the farmhouse, tables and chairs for entertaining guests have already been set up. A red banner reads "The first anniversary of Sun Zhuo's return, Sun Haiyang welcomes people from all walks of life to reunite", and two posters more than one meter high stand on both sides of the banner.
At about 6:5438+00:30 in the morning, the couple arrived at the fishing ground with Brother Sun who came from his hometown in Hubei. Seven or eight parents looking for children, fans and friends who have supported the Sun Haiyang family for many years, and several media people also came one after another.
The parents present are all old faces in the activities of recognizing relatives. Zheng Chuze's father, Luo Miaoquan's father, his mother, his younger father, his mother, Chen Jinjun's mother and his wife didn't tell these "comrades-in-arms" to hold a thank-you banquet, so as not to let them make a trip in vain.
But parents still come from all corners of the country-they tacitly remember the day when each child came home. In June 5438+February last year, they failed to witness the engagement of the Sun Haiyang family. This time, they came specially to congratulate.
The yard was very lively, and many live shots were set up at the scene. There are media people in front of the camera, parents who take this opportunity to publicize the information of finding relatives, and fans and friends who spontaneously help sign cards. Sun Haiyang is one of them. He held posters of missing children, became familiar with the information of missing children, and called on netizens to help forward them in the live broadcast room.
Near noon, Sun Haiyang began to greet everyone to share steamed buns. A long time ago, Sun Haiyang wondered what Sun Zhuo should do to thank people from all walks of life who helped and cared for them in 14 years. Finally, he decided, "I want to invite everyone to dinner and make buns for everyone."
During the 14 and 57 days of searching for Sun Zhuo, Sun Haiyang almost went to other places in China except Xinjiang and Tibet, and accumulated a thick stack of tickets. The road to finding relatives is long, and it is not only his tenacious heart and deep fatherly love that support him, but also a little kindness from all directions.
At the banquet, Sun Haiyang expressed his gratitude: "Thanks to the work of the police, thanks to the constant attention of media friends, and thanks to thousands of fireflies. Sun Zhuo has been home for a year, which is the best result we have been waiting for for for a long time. "
On the first anniversary of Sun Zhuo's return to China, Mr. and Mrs. Sun Haiyang always propose a toast to their friends attending the thank-you banquet.
Meeting again seems to be yesterday.
"Zhuo Zhuo is back, just like what happened yesterday." Recalling Sun Zhuo's experience of going home this year, Sun Haiyang said with emotion.
On February 6, 2002112, he met his wife Peng in the criminal investigation bureau of Shenzhen, and met 14' s abducted son.
At the wedding scene, Sun Zhuo trotted onto the stage, and Sun Haiyang immediately came forward to hug him and refused to let go. The joy and bitterness of reunion turned into tears, and he burst into tears. Peng and his son also cried.
The great joy of successfully finding the child affected Sun Haiyang and his wife. One morning after meeting Sun Zhuo, Sun Haiyang saw the rest of Looking for You at home, and couldn't help wondering: "Is it a dream for me to find Zhuo Zhuo?"
A year has passed, and this joy has remained firmly in Sun Haiyang's heart. Looking back now, he feels that in the 14 years when he was looking for Sun Zhuo, every day seemed like a year, very long. There is no darkness during the day, and there is no dawn in the darkness; After finding Sun Zhuo, every year seems like a day.
When Sun Zhuogang came home, he and Peng paid more attention to his feelings and wanted to make up for what had been missing since 14. Peng wakes up for dinner every morning, just like a three-or four-year-old child. Every time Sun Zhuo eats a dish, she asks, "Is this dish delicious?" In order to take care of Sun Zhuo's taste, she also specially studied Shandong cuisine such as sweet and sour tenderloin and flavor eggplant. In Sun Haiyang's view, these dishes are sour and sweet and have a strange taste, which is not to his taste, but Sun Zhuo likes them very much.
The couple sent Sun Zhuo to school for the first time after taking Sun Zhuo back to his hometown in Jianli, Hubei. At that time, they set off for Yanggu again and sent him back to his high school.
At that time, although he was going to be separated from his son for a while, Sun Haiyang was very happy, because this was the first time he sent Sun Zhuo to school. Although the road to school is 900 kilometers long, it is still unknown when the three people will meet again.
Half a month later, Sun Haiyang and his wife took Sun Zhuo back to Shenzhen to go to school. Since then, as long as Sun Haiyang is at home, he will take the initiative to send Sun Zhuo to school. The schoolbags of high school students are heavy, but Sun Haiyang is happy to carry them. He always walks Sun Zhuo to the school gate.
This road is a rare time for father and son to be alone. Sun Haiyang will tell Sun Zhuo about his childhood. For example, when Sun Zhuo was three years old, he was able to help his parents go shopping in the nearby vegetable market. He is very clever.
Sun Haiyang will also introduce Shenzhen to Sun Zhuo along the way. "I'll tell him when this building was built and which road our family used to live on. I hope that through this form, he will be familiar with Shenzhen as soon as possible. " For the blank period of mutual absence, both father and son tacitly did not mention it.
In Sun Haiyang's "nagging", Sun Zhuo gradually merged into the city of Shenzhen. He began to go to school by himself; He will go out to play badminton alone with his friends; He thinks the school cafeteria is much more delicious and the learning environment is more relaxed than before. Some people say that Sun Zhuo and Shenzhen are predestined friends and their initials are "SZ". After a circle, he returned to the city.
Sun Haiyang's family.
"Like water in water"
June 5438+October 2022 10, Sun Yue returned from studying abroad, and the Sun Haiyang family of five finally ushered in a real reunion.
Sun Yue got to know his brother soon after he came home. She taught Sun Zhuo English, took Sun Zhuo to bungee jumping, and went hiking in Yunnan Snow Mountain with Sun Zhuo, helping her brother to integrate into the family that violated 14 years in a young way.
Now, as long as there is time on weekends, Peng and his three brothers and sisters will climb mountains together, and the family will go skateboarding in the square and go to the movies together.
In the 14 years before Sun Zhuo returned to China, Sun Jia rarely had such a happy moment. In the months after Sun Zhuo's death, there were always quarrels at home. And Peng blamed each other, saying that they lost it because of each other.
One day in 2008, Peng knelt in front of him with a kitchen knife, banging on the floor, and his face was bleeding. Sun Haiyang quickly threw the knife aside and told her that she didn't take good care of the child and would definitely get it back.
After that day, Sun Haiyang changed his character. He became silent. He didn't say a word to other family members about going out to find relatives. There is always a depressing atmosphere at home.
Sun Zhuo's return broke the silence. Sun Haiyang's words began to increase. He doesn't have to go out quietly to hide his whereabouts; Don't swallow all the pain of going out to find relatives. Now he will tell his family what he is doing, where he will go and what plans he has for the future.
He also told all the stories that he had never told before. Sun Yue listened to these stories and compiled a book called Home: 14 years and 57 days.
In September this year, the Sun family welcomed a new family member-a light orange kitten. Except Sun Haiyang, who was spoiled, the whole family liked it very much. Sun Yue and Sun Zhuo competed for its naming rights, and they finally let Sun Zhuo decide whose name is better.
Sun Zhuo didn't choose their names. He said he would call them "Ye Zi". As soon as the name came out, everyone in the family was surprised. Because Peng loved to call Sun Yue "Zi Yue" when he was a child, Sun Zhuo was inarticulate and kept calling him "Ye Zi".
Unexpectedly, ten years later, the name came out of his mouth under such a coincidence. "These may all be in his subconscious." Peng said to him:
On February 6th, 65438, the first anniversary of Sun Zhuo's return to China, Sun Yue shared the comparison between her childhood and Sun Zhuo's growth on her social account. In the yellowed old photo, Sun Yue, aged six or seven, held little Sun Zhuo in his lap and grinned at the camera. In this year's new photo, the brother and sister are flying, and Sun Zhuo is leaning on Sun Yue's shoulder. Sun Yue took this opportunity to take this photo and laughed at the camera.
Sun Yue wrote in his essay: "It's like water melting in water, just like never seeing the difference."
Sun Yue and Sun Zhuo take a group photo.
He said, "The child will definitely find it."
After finding Sun Zhuo, Sun Haiyang did not leave the family tracing team. "I am very grateful to Ocean Brother. Sun Zhuo has been helping us since we found him. If there is a chance, he will tell us and let us spread the child's information. " Tang Youxiu, a parent looking for relatives, said.
Tang Youxiu is better known as "Mother Chen Jie". In 2006, 6-year-old Chen Jie got lost in a farmer's market in Kunming. Since then, Tang Youxiu has embarked on a long way to find his son. On February 6th, 65438, she also came to the thank-you banquet in Sun Haiyang. In order to go to dinner, she came to Shenzhen from Chongqing seven days in advance.
Looking for the missing only son, Chen Jinjun's mother, Wen-jun Jiang, who worked in Guangzhou for 27 years, got up early on the 6th and took three buses to Shenzhen. She carried a foldable notice about finding relatives with her, and the jumpsuit that Chen Jinjun wore that day.
Chen Jinjun's mother took the clothes that you and your children had worn.
At the banquet, their first task is not to eat, but to repeat their children's information over and over again in front of live media cameras. "We also know that it may be inappropriate or useless to come here and say these words, but we can't sit still." Tang Youxiu said, "I can't help coming out. If you don't make a sound and spread information, the opportunity will be even more embarrassing, and you will feel sorry for the lost child. "
Sun Haiyang never cared about the behavior of parents looking for relatives, and even took the initiative to help them publicize. During this year, he still accompanied some parents to run around looking for clues; He posts information about finding relatives on his social account from time to time; After Sun Zhuo returned to China, he held two banquets, both of which provided opportunities for parents to find relatives.
Because Sun Haiyang sympathizes with the anxiety and pain of parents who are looking for relatives more than anyone else. In the 14 years of searching for Sun Zhuo, he, like these parents, seized every opportunity to be exposed in the media. They don't hesitate to open their scars and show their grief in front of the camera, as long as it can bring more attention.
Many things happen. After returning to my hometown in Sun Zhuo, I found abducted children by DNA comparison technology, including Jun Chen who was abducted in 18, Zhang Yangyang whose mother searched for 24 years, and Mei Zhiqiang who disappeared on a rainy night.
In March this year, Xu Jianfeng, who was abducted for 3 1 year, was finally found, which is a special event for many parents who are looking for relatives. My mother, Yang, is a "comrade-in-arms" and "big sister" of many parents who are looking for children. She searched for children for 26 years, then unfortunately got cancer and passed away on 20 17. Five years later, when Xiao Jianfeng finally came home and accompanied him to pay homage to Yang's grave, many relatives felt heavy.
Recalling the scene at that time, Tang Youxiu couldn't help crying again. "Sorry Yang Dajie, also sorry for yourself. I hope that we can find children in our lifetime and don't leave regrets. " She said.
The way to commemorate Yang is to write a separate chapter of her story into her new book "Going Home". The title of this chapter is selected from Yang's epitaph-"But I don't see Xiao Jianfeng".
"This is a tragedy. I wrote this story to tell the abducted children how difficult it is for their families to find them. It is also telling traffickers how deep they have made it. " Sun Haiyang said, "At the same time, I also want to tell you, find your parents, take care of yourself, take care of yourself, and your children will find it!"
"Take care of yourself, take care of yourself. Children can definitely find it. " This is perhaps what Sun Haiyang said most to his parents this year. This is his most sincere blessing and the best prospect.
Parents holding posters of missing persons