First, reshape your three views and don't pray for the love of your parents.
Daughters in patriarchal families tend to please their parents. This is because I have never been paid attention to since I was a child and I lack love. It's easy to form a flattering character, and only by unconditionally satisfying parents' requirements can you get that little sense of existence. Even though she knew that her parents were biased, she couldn't refuse. At this time, it is particularly important to reshape your three views. We should clearly realize that parents don't love themselves, learn to love themselves, and always tell ourselves that we have grown up. People can't choose their own birth, but they can choose their own life. Keeping a sense of boundaries with vampire parents is declaring independence.
Second, you should cry to your parents from time to time, and don't tell them your real income.
This is definitely not selfish. No matter what your situation is, a pair of parents who try their best to squeeze you have no affection at all. If they knew their daughter's income, they would keep kidnapping her morally. Generally, they will cry about how difficult it is to raise their daughter and ask her to repay her now. At this time, you must have your own opinions and don't be kidnapped. Once parents know that their daughter is worthless, they won't keep it.
Third, don't live with your family. Don't contact if you can.
A sense of boundaries is very important, and often this kind of family has no sense of boundaries at all. If you want to live a good life, you must be strong. Anyone who has a successful career is bold and somewhat disliked by his parents. China pays attention to human feelings and is more tolerant of his parents. If the parents' demands are not met, the children will be severely criticized by their relatives on the moral pillar. Ignore them. It is most important to live a good life first.
Want to get rid of it? Fan sheng American style? In our family, women should be completely independent in spirit, and their parents have excessive demands. Whether they want to commit suicide or jump off a building, they should not compromise. Leave them alone, because such selfish people are very afraid of death. The first time you keep your bottom line, they won't dare to be demons behind your back. Remember, anyone who treats himself is allowed by himself. Your parents squeezed you, and if you refused, they wouldn't squeeze you again.