I was born in a farmhouse. /kloc-lied about his age at the age of 0/5 and a half, and joined the army at the age of 20. After joining the army 18, he was transferred to a public institution in his hometown. My eldest brother died at the age of 38. The burden of providing for the aged is shared by my three brothers and four brothers. In order to provide the elderly with a sense of security, my parents and brothers reached a consensus and signed a pension agreement, stipulating that parents should share food, clothing, illness and pocket money.
Although my family is poor, we attach great importance to family ties. Brothers are close, and sisters-in-law are also harmonious. The signed pension agreement is consciously fulfilled. Home is better than my brothers, and I understand that it is not easy for my brothers to go home in the countryside. In order to thank my parents, I took the initiative to pay more. My parents paid for the medical expenses, and my brothers asked me to share them. I smiled and said, no, let's talk about it next time. I never mentioned it.
My parents are old and need to prepare coffins. Third brother is a generous and filial person. Discuss with me what to do. I said, I've been away from home for a long time, and I don't know what the rules are in the neighborhood. He said the more beautiful the better. Four pieces of Mouton wood, five pieces of cypress and carved flowers. The cost is naturally high. Because I can't find a big cypress, I can't buy a third-class cypress. I said it doesn't have to be too good, just about it. The third brother said that the fourth brother made others look down upon him. Both parents were present during the consultation. I asked my mother about the problem of caring for the poor and burying the poor. I said, it is much better to spend the money saved on old-age care than to buy a good coffin. Mom said, yes. When people are alive, it is better to buy a piece of candy and eat it in your mouth than not to raise it when you are alive. It is best to hold a big funeral after death, so that the old people can eat in their mouths, fill their stomachs, wear them on their bodies and keep them warm in their hearts. What's the use of crying, offering rich offerings and beautiful coffins when people are dead? ! You are very kind to me. Don't cry when I die. I am very satisfied. When people are old, no one can stay. Listen to this statement, recall this statement, tears!
When parents were alive, they tried their best to support them. Ordinary people, where there are delicacies, cook home-cooked meals, eat well and wear warm clothes, get sick and go to the hospital, and don't make the old people angry. They are filial sons and grandchildren.
My mother was bedridden with diabetes, cataract and hemiplegia in her later years. Father is also hemiplegic and bedridden. My brother's sister-in-law expressed filial piety to each other. Those who have money pay and those who have no money send their parents away. Brick coupon tomb, four Mouton woodcarving flower coffins, the third anniversary, invited suona class, invited drama to sing three plays, and hosted a banquet in the restaurant to thank relatives and friends, which cost a lot.
The cost of the third anniversary, thanks to parents' hard life. Reflection afterwards: Don't make the third anniversary big, make it small. Save the money spent on large-scale projects and donate it to the elderly association of the village group to provide some benefits to the elderly in the neighborhood, honor their parents and be grateful to them.
Sincerely advise future generations to honor their parents while they are alive. If you have filial piety, you should be kind to the elderly, so that parents who have worked hard to raise us and saved money for a lifetime can have a good old age, and eat it in their mouths, starting with a candy knot and a steamed stuffed bun.
Wear it on your body, starting with buying a pair of socks and a new dress. My heart is warm, starting with a greeting and a meal. Stay in bed after a long illness, starting with carrying excrement and pouring urine, changing urine pads, and wiping your body and washing your face. In this way, filial piety has no regrets.