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I am a junior boy. I'm too tired from college to have sex now. Some girls insist on pestering me. What should I do if I were my girlfriend?
You can refuse this girl.

If she bothers you, don't be tactful at all, just express your thoughts directly.

The first step is to find out why the other person will ignore you. Is it really because I hate you? Actually, not necessarily. When you pursue someone who doesn't respond, you are actually rejecting you in disguise. Not returning your message not only shows your attitude, but also takes care of your face. And now there is so much information, there is no obligation to reply to every item.

But you want to know. Keep interrupting and asking questions. Then the other person just doesn't care about you, and finally gets tired of asking, and can only hack you.

At this time, someone will jump out and say, then if she doesn't refuse me, she just wants to hang me. Then you are still naive. The girl who really wants to haunt you is like this: you send her a WeChat and you give her a gift.

Your interaction with her is ambiguous. When you think you are going to be a couple, you tell others. As a result, people say, Oh, they just treat you like a brother. You are very kind, and they depend on you very much. But I don't want to fall in love yet.

Then you got depressed, and then she started asking you out again, giving you hope. You're chasing him again.

It takes time and energy to give gifts on a date. This is the real hanging you. By contrast, which one do you think is a good girl?

So if you find the reason when ignoring you, you will be suddenly enlightened. Don't be sad. It's not a bad thing to ignore you At least it means that she is kind and doesn't want to hang you up. You have a good eye.

I have a friend who is unwilling to let go after being silently rejected by a girl. What he thought was to take the initiative to chat immediately and apologize immediately. But this is a big taboo. Why should he apologize when he is clearly not wrong? Is it wrong to like someone?

So I advised him not to blindly lower his posture. The lower he is, the more he will push his luck and get angry.

Originally, people were still angry. You have to run in front of people and wander around. Isn't that boring?

What you have to do is to pursue your own thinking before you change at the fastest speed during this time. The stupidest thinking in feelings is to get new results in the same way.

You need to shape your new posture and new image, and know how to calm down at an appropriate time and don't bother too much.

Since he didn't delete you or hack you, it means that what he did is not very good, and you may still be friends.

You can wait until you become excellent, and then give her some opportunities to get to know you. Who knows what will happen in the future? Just don't do anything to catch up actively for the time being.