Although men's minds are easier to understand than women's, young men are often fascinated by the authorities. To get a clear answer, only men of the corresponding age can make it clear.
Mr. A, 52, has been tired of women since he was over 500 years old, not only psychologically abstinence, but also physically rest. I thought I was an example. After discussing with men of the same age, I found that nine times out of ten men of this age will face the same problem, and they will lose interest in both women and men at home.
Then I thought and thought, and finally it dawned on me. At first, I was powerless. In the long run, I will be like a frosted eggplant, which has already faded. So today, I am not only weak as usual, but also lose my mood and strength. In fact, I want to understand that my first half of life has not been wasted, and I need to cultivate my self-cultivation in the second half.
Mr. b, 55 years old, don't say that 50 years have passed now. Even before I was 50 years old, I didn't move my heart. Once, a woman other than my wife chased me. As the saying goes, women chasing men go their separate ways at best, but I will sit still from beginning to end because of my promise to my wife, and I will only be moved by my wife in this life.
Although my wife is not beautiful, she is very virtuous and hit it off with me. My wife belongs to the sea. As for women other than my wife, they are either streams or lakes, and it is hard to call them water. In addition, I need to set an example for my children, for fear of the phenomenon of fish begins to stink at the head. Even if the children have settled down, I will continue to maintain and establish a serious image.
Mr. C, 5 1 year old, will never be tempted again. Men and women are different, which will become more and more prominent at the age of 50. Before I was 50 years old, I had heard it said by 50-year-old people several times, not boasting, but well-founded, but I would be unbelievable at that time.
It was not until I was there that I felt that my wife and I were not directly proportional in some aspects of life, but inversely proportional. The older my wife gets, the more she needs a man, while the older I get, the less I need a woman, which means that even if I eat home-cooked food, I have no appetite and it is difficult to digest. Even if there are delicacies outside, I won't have the heart and strength to eat.
Summary: Men need to serve the elderly. Even when they are old, they need to practice abstinence, not only outside their hearts, but also inside their hearts. If they are profligate, what little money they have left will be hollowed out quickly.
Judging from the physiological functions of men and women, women are generally frigid after menopause. Especially in China, most people talk about "sex". Husband and wife live relatively little. A 50-year-old man, as long as he is healthy and sexually active, can hardly resist the temptation of women outside! Heart rate is normal! Temptation is inevitable! Seeing beautiful women outside, meeting confidants and intimate friends will definitely be tempted.
When a man reaches the age of 50, many things have been finalized. As the saying goes, if you are not tall at 30, you will be short, and if you are not rich at 40, you will be poor ... Physically, a 50-year-old man is more or less worse than before, just like the rotating shaft of a car. After several years of use, the wear is certain, and steel is damaged, not to mention meat. However, men's psychological needs will not decrease. Walking on the road, any man's eyes will look more at beautiful women. If his wife is not around, he will follow him more, especially when he meets a woman with big breasts and fat hips. Psychosexuality exists in most men's hearts, and men also know that it can't be done according to their own conditions! However, the love of beauty never dies. In the past, I liked dancing very much. I used to have some beautiful dancers, and they were very close. We often practice dancing together, get along for a long time and appreciate each other. Sometimes, I think to myself. However, when I think about it, my woman is not bad and has 100% trust in herself. I can't live up to her years of bed. The most intense thought at that time was: if you cheat, your wife will definitely make trouble and your child will definitely get hurt. If you divorce for this reason, your house is gone and your savings are gone. If your children don't follow you, it will be a betrayal. What makes you feel most uncomfortable is that a good divorced woman was robbed! People live better than you! It is equivalent to handing over the beauty of Jiangshan who has struggled for half a lifetime. And you, the cheating woman is not necessarily good. After all, you may not know people very well. Maybe they're just having fun and tired of looking for something else! I'm so angry with you. At this time, you have nothing! Only a dead end ...
Yes, men are lewd lower-body animals. How can they not be tempted or emotional when they see the big beauty outside?
There are always many loving couples around us, but after entering the marriage hall for more than ten or even twenty years, they have embarked on the road of no return for their husbands to cheat. Why do men often cheat after middle age? Is it really because "Rhapsody on a Flower in July" has infinite charm? Especially for some men in their 40 s and 50 s, is their motivation for cheating because of love? Will a 50-year-old man still be tempted by women outside? Give women a warning.
First, simply seek excitement.
As we all know, after men reach middle age, the pressure will be inexplicably much greater, and with menopause and so on, it will come to what people often say is a middle-aged crisis. At this stage, men are extremely unstable in any aspect, so it is common to find a woman to raise a woman outside. Because the existing living conditions are difficult for them to meet, they can only seek excitement from the outside. In fact, many people realize that men in their 50 s are cheating purely for excitement, and there is no distraction.
Second, prove your charm.
The more people lack, the more inclined they are to pursue. When a man enters his fifties and begins to be afraid of aging, he will certainly try to prove his charm. And those beautiful young women outside are also one of the ways to prove that they are not old. When an old man in his fifties stands next to a beautiful young girl, people will think that he must be charming, successful or rich. So many men don't really fall in love with women outside, just to satisfy their vanity and prove their charm.
Third, disappointment and dissatisfaction with the existing married life.
We often say that love is a particularly perishable food, and it has no definite shelf life. This has also led to many couples. Ten years before marriage, they may still be very loving, and during 20 years of marriage, they are not bad. But after 20 or 30 years of marriage, various problems appear and marriage begins to be unfortunate. If a man is unhappy in marriage, it is easy to lose the ability to love the original match because of his dissatisfaction with the existing marriage, and then turn to love women outside.
In fact, feelings are the most difficult thing in the world, and many people want to break their heads and can't figure out why. But not all men will look for women outside when they are in their fifties, just as not all people will encounter misfortune and crisis in marriage.
The general function of 50-year-old men has not subsided, and some men will really be tempted by women outside.
But please don't get me wrong, this is not encouraging you to cheat!
Some people say that Yang Zhenning is 82 years old and has not divorced. Forget it! Who is he and who is Weng Fan? Not to mention the conditions of two people, at least they are single! I can't see this clearly, and I'm still tempted by women outside. It's no use being tempted by your wife.
There is a Yang Zhenning, and many old people stand out. At a marriage-seeking activity, an 80-year-old man asked for marriage, which was rejected by most women. The last woman went with him, because the man was a professor and had superior economic conditions, so everyone could see clearly. This woman is obviously after money.
Some old men have sex everywhere as long as they are tempted, regardless of it, making their homes restless, getting sexually transmitted diseases or even AIDS outside, and then infecting their wives when they go home. It really kills people!
The main transmission routes of AIDS are sexual transmission and blood transmission. In recent years, the state has paid more attention to the prevention of AIDS among young people and primary and secondary school students, but neglected the prevention of AIDS among the elderly. The proportion of elderly people suffering from AIDS is increasing year by year, which also sounds an alarm to people.
The knowledge of AIDS prevention among the elderly needs to be popularized. The most important thing is to lead an honest and clean life and be loyal to your wife and family, so that you can really have happiness in your later years.
Physiologically speaking, men are not old at the age of 50, and their sexual function still exists. If you are single, you have the right to be seduced by women outside; If you have a wife and children, it doesn't matter if you want to move If you still want to act, don't!
Men over the age of 50 are indifferent to seeing good things outside.
Men's physiological structure is different from that of women, and women are completely finished after 50 years old. Men are different, just a little worse than before. This function will not be lost. Therefore, although men are old, their lust for sex is not diminished, but they are unable to do so. This is the instinct of men. Seeing a young woman's eyes will make her horny. Only by self-discipline can a man resist the temptation from the outside world, and take the initiative to restrain the idea of playing with women with a responsible attitude towards his wife and family. Especially when men get rich in middle age, or when the economy is rich, children have grown up and even got married, and there is no burden and pressure. At this time, men are either bored or empty, and are easily confused by women outside. If a woman waves at this time, it is easy to cheat, betray her disloyalty and destroy the harmony of the family. If you can't do it well, your wife and children will be separated and you will be alone. The result of desertion is to make yourself miserable. Even if you have an affair with another "so-called lover" woman, you may not be happy. Because my wife and I have been in harmony for decades and get along easily, but being a greedy couple is not necessarily harmonious and happy. Because men in their fifties are very comfortable with their own personality and habits, they will not change their inherent personality and habits in order to walk with derailed women, so don't be entangled in other women for a while and eventually be embarrassed and accused. For other women, you still have to stick to your lust.
A 50-year-old man will no longer have the thrill of finding an affair. If a 50-year-old man still has a lover, it is also the fault of his 30 s and 40 s, and he can't get rid of it now, so he still has an extramarital affair. The rest I want to live to be 50. Middle-aged people become lights at three or four o'clock in the morning, because these people start to lose sleep when they go to bed in the morning. They have a lot of work and life pressure because of poor sleep every day, so the 50-year-old middle-aged people will not choose nothing and find a lover to develop an extramarital affair. Most of these middle-aged men live by themselves. I still have the energy to find a lover and the ability to develop women other than my wife. For people of this age, the body's control of kidney deficiency has become a sub-health state. Then this 50-year-old middle-aged man may even be tired of eating his own life, but will he still be interested in women? So I said that a 50-year-old man generally doesn't want to have an affair with a woman, and there is no woman in his heart.
There are roughly three kinds of shady extramarital affairs.
One is the breakdown of the family. Men and women who are caught in extramarital affairs have been discovered by the other half for a long time, leading to family breakdown; If both parties have families, it will lead to the breakdown of the two families, which is a very destructive extramarital affair ending.
The second is to turn against each other. A man and a woman who are involved in an extramarital affair, one of them doesn't want to hurt his family, and he doesn't want to live that shady life again. He wanted to quit, but the other side didn't agree, and the negotiation failed, and the two turned against each other. This is an extramarital affair ending from love to hate.
The third is the upper position of the third grade. A man and a woman who were involved in an extramarital affair, after a long time, their families were destroyed, and naturally they got married legally. This is the end of an extramarital affair based on the suffering of others.
People who hate the weather don't help, and people who are good at it don't bully.
Everything that excuses extramarital affairs is evil. When the social marriage morality collapses completely, no one is spared. Extramarital affairs, no matter what the reason, no matter how wronged the marriage is, can be understood, but unforgivable, because the most shameless and hateful behavior in the world is betrayal! !
People are borrowing, and the sky is watching. Don't be wicked if you lack anything, don't do something wrong and leave permanent regrets, and don't let yourself fall into the abyss. Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. No matter what you do, you will come back to you in the end. Don't believe it. For thousands of years, heaven has been good. Look who God has spared! Life is alive, but doing good deeds will bring Mo Wen a future. Do more good deeds, and you will be rewarded! -people hate heaven and don't help, and people are good at heaven and don't bully.
Marriage is not a lottery, even if you lose, you can't tear it up.
From this point of view, even in the face of such intolerable things as marital infidelity, we should analyze specific problems and not blindly find each other's shortcomings and faults.
Yes, marriage is sacred and should not be profaned by anyone. Partners need mutual respect and loyalty, and everyone can't tolerate each other's betrayal.
However, in that era of temptation everywhere, driven by human weakness and desire, no one can guarantee that no one's marriage will go wrong. Including this kind of marital betrayal that touches the principle, it has always been a pain point that plagues many families and couples.
There are many mistresses in marriage and family now. It is also common to make the original match insane. As a result, there are countless family tragedies. It is suggested that women should reflect on what they lack while running a family and marriage. I think, as a woman, the woman who has shared joys and sorrows with you for half a life has neither abused the elderly nor made selective mistakes. Excuse me, what happened to her? If it must be said that it is missing, then I think it may be the lack of conscience of the derailed person! Besides, what's a better explanation?
What is precious to be a woman is "not bullying the young and the poor." If you don't dislike a man's poverty when he was young, you are willing to spend the most difficult years with him. Such a woman is a good wife and mother.
The most precious thing about being a man is "don't be ugly." When you get old, men will get ahead and be brilliant, and women will lose their youth. At this time, it is cruel to think that people are old and ugly. Yellow-faced woman doesn't throw it whenever she wants. If she doesn't dislike her old and ugly wife, why not adopt a wife in her seventies and eighties to be a mistress? The reason is self-evident, right?
The fact that both men and women admit:
Cheating is easier than returning goods. If you enjoy what you shouldn't, you have to bear the consequences.
If you push your luck, you can't let it go. Bad people are not used to it.
Try it with a red-hot soldering iron. It hurts to brand others, and it hurts to brand yourself.
It seems easy not to stand and talk, which you haven't put on yourself.
There are thousands of reasons for marital infidelity, but there is only one.
It's extremely selfish, thinking only about yourself, regardless of each other's feelings, just trying to take advantage of all aspects.
Therefore, people who cheat in marriage should only have the following three ideas:
One is to leave a way out for yourself. Since it's an affair, of course it's sneaking around and I don't want my lover to know. In fact, this is to let yourself return to your family, let yourself have a way out, and let your lover become a garbage bin and a platter man when the relationship is not developing well and the other party does not accept you.
Second, I am afraid of losing my present wealth. Now the family has a certain wealth, or you have a certain wealth, but you are not satisfied with your lover, but you don't want to lose your present wealth, so you cheat quietly;
Third, people who are afraid of cheating are not as good as lovers and afraid of regret.
Therefore, to say anything for the sake of children and families is to deceive themselves, especially those who are found and exposed after cheating and refuse to divorce on the grounds of children. Such people, both men and women, are scum and deserve no forgiveness.
So, if you really don't like your lover, really feel that this marriage can't go on, and really feel that the outside world is better, then please divorce and pursue happiness.
Don't hurt your lover, children, parents. After all, couples can be grateful for a hundred days a day. Leave some dignity for each other and yourself. Do not be so selfish.
Case: Mr. Hu and Ms. Wang got married on 1982, lived for more than 20 years, and gave birth to three children, all of whom were adults. In July 2006, Mr. Hu cheated his wife Li (23 years old) and gave birth to an illegitimate daughter. Mr. Hu's wife, Ms. Wang, left home alone in March 2009. In 2009 10, Mr. Hu violated laws and regulations in false litigation, provided perjury and false certificates, and applied to the court to declare her as a missing person. On February 20 10, Mr. Hu and Xiao San gave birth to an illegitimate child. On July 20 13, he applied to the court for a divorce from his missing wife, Ms. Wang. 20 1 165438 In June, Mr. Hu married Xiao. Do you know how to investigate and investigate this situation?