My father loves to drink, and he is a heavy drinker. He is only 63 years old. He is really inferior to an old man in the countryside. His eyes are swollen, and his hands are shaking every day, but if you don't let him drink, it's just cutting him off. I can't help it. My brother and sister can only force him to have a physical examination, but he is stubborn and you can't help it.
This time, our brother and sister dragged him to the physical examination. The doctor said that his blood pressure was high and he couldn't drink any more. As a result, it was understood in his ears that "you can't drink alcohol when your blood pressure is high", and the implication is that you can still drink alcohol when your blood pressure is not high. And after coming back, the sphygmomanometer became his personal necessity. As soon as one measure went down, he quickly mixed two cups, and as soon as one measure went up, he quickly stopped.
Then something happened. The other day, my throat suddenly seemed to be stuck by something. I can't talk or breathe. My face changed color in an instant. My family was so scared that they quickly opened his mouth and saw that his throat was very big, and his mouth and nose were stuck to the upper jaw, so he could not breathe and could not make a sound. It's too late to go to the hospital at once. My family quickly found a long needle to try puncture. In the intense work,
This just breathed a sigh of relief and hurried to the hospital. The doctor said it was caused by excessive internal heat. I eat light food and give up smoking and drinking. But after such a dangerous thing happened, I still didn't agree to let him have a physical examination. After I came back, I kept wondering why he was so avoiding the doctor.
The first is the fear of spending money.
Many elderly people feel that "it doesn't hurt or itch, why throw money at the hospital?" If nothing is found, it is a waste of money. If you find anything, it will cost you more money. Might as well not check. "And the prices of all kinds of medical examinations that hospitals do for the elderly are not low. There are not many thousands, and those various bags are deeper than one.
The second is fear of trouble.
Not to mention the elderly. As a young man, I find it extremely troublesome to go to the hospital. Imagine that the old people are nervous about physical examination, their ears have to be memorized, and their mobile phone operating lines are not skilled. At this time, they were urged by the doctor and treated impatiently. How flustered should they be?
Finally, I'm afraid of getting sick.
When people reach old age, they can really feel the decline of physical function and are threatened with death at any time. Under fear, they will begin to accept positive information and ignore negative information. The doctor, who broke all their illusions, said from the doctor's mouth that the diagnosis book in the doctor's hand is so scientific and rigorous that there is no room for refutation.
To tell the truth, many changes have taken place at home. I am most afraid that the phone will ring in the middle of the night and I will break out in a cold sweat. It is precisely because of this anxiety that I insisted that he go to the physical examination. For my children, a detailed and clear physical examination report for the elderly is the reassurance of young people wandering outside!
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