Father is a towering tree, supporting the whole family. Without him, there would be no sapling like you. Mother is a lotus leaf. Without her, you little fish would lack the barrier of life. Some unfilial descendants have driven their parents and the elderly out of their homes, but I want to appeal for caring for the elderly.

In fact, the elderly are the hardest. They dragged us from a hungry baby to a primary school student with a handful of shit and urine. How much effort and cost did they spend? They have done so much for us. Should they be kicked out of the house? No, when people are old, they need harmony and warmth, not a "curse" and a burst of disgusting words.

Affection is a comprehensive expression of kindness, love and conscience. It is natural to honor your parents and respect your elders. It is the duty of being a man, the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and the premise of the formation of various moral qualities. So it has always been praised by people. A book once said, "When you grow up, you will definitely communicate with people. There is a kind of person who is determined not to make friends. That's people who are not filial to their parents. His parents raised him (her) so much.

In a person's life, parents' care and love are the most truly selfless, and parents' kindness in raising is endless. Sucking my mother's milk and leaving infancy, taking my parents' hearts to take the first step in life, falling asleep in sweet nursery rhymes and growing up in meticulous care. How many sleepless nights have parents endured because of disasters and diseases? It can be said that parents have been raising children all their lives.

If human beings should have love, they should love their parents first, and then they can say: love the collective, love the motherland and love the society. ...

To honor parents, we should not only undertake the task of supporting parents, but also try our best to meet their spiritual and emotional needs, especially elderly parents, and we should take care of them and comfort them patiently. That is to say, most old people in the city, although full of children and grandchildren, rarely see their children, give their parents plenty of food and clothing, let alone spiritual comfort, because the old people need affection and happy time for the whole family.

Parents are no longer important or even a burden in the eyes of many people. In their eyes, the old man used to be a blooming flower, but now he has withered. He used to be a lush tree, but now it leaves its roots, but it is selfless dedication to society.

The old people have made great efforts for the growth of the next generation, contributed to the inheritance of China and contributed to the construction of the motherland. They deserve filial piety from their children and respect from society. There would be no us.

I have read such a story. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, there was a young man named Zhang Mingliang in South Korea. One day, he was walking on the edge of a small bridge. An old man deliberately put his shoes under the bridge and said to Sean, "Young man, help me pick them up." Sean got off the bridge without thinking and picked it up. The old man said, "Put it on for me." Sean thought, "Since I picked up the shoes for him, I just wanted to be a good person and give them to the Buddha, so he put them on for the old man. The old man took the shoes from the bridge three times, and Sean patiently picked them up again and again. Seeing that Sean was trustworthy and a good man, the old man handed him a long-lost art of war.

In fact, being kind to the elderly and their parents is not a reward or praise. To treat the elderly, you need to feel with your own heart. Maybe one day, when you understand the phrase "without me in your heart, you can ask for nothing", you will realize the true meaning of love.

If one day, your study is excellent, but if you can't respect, love and help the elderly, you are not a person with excellent academic performance.

There are countless examples of this. Finally, let's work together for "respecting, loving and helping the elderly and building a harmonious left banner"!

Article 2:

The true meaning of respecting and loving the elderly

The society is aging gradually. How can the elderly enjoy their old age and eliminate worries for their children? How can people in the whole society truly respect and care for the elderly? How to make the elderly regain their vitality in creating a harmonious society ... Recently, the author braved the cold to come to the warm and pleasant hot spring apartment for the elderly in Linyi County. Here, we see a large group of old people living happily here. Respecting and loving the elderly must first respect the elderly.

Linyi Hot Spring Apartment for the Aged has established a lofty concept of respecting and loving the elderly in the early days. The founder is determined to create first-class achievements, build first-class hardware facilities, offer first-class love and provide first-class services ... The apartment is located in Sanxingtai, the highest place in Linyi County, surrounded by beautiful rural scenery. The most unique thing is that there is a geothermal hot spring well. Hot springs are rich in various minerals, and old people can soak in hot springs here twice a week. In addition, there are various recreational facilities. In the interview, Yan Shuling, the manager of the apartment, told the reporter: Our employees' service aim is to do their filial piety and show the true feelings of the world. We strive for first-class service and strive to make our hot spring apartment for the elderly a warm home and a commendable social welfare institution.

Dedicate one's affection to the elderly

Sometimes the pressure of work and society can't make children filial in front of their parents, but they are more worried about whether the service of the apartment for the elderly can reassure them. Therefore, the business philosophy of the old-age care institution must be based on good humanized service, and the family service should be infiltrated into every detail with love. In Linyi Hot Spring Apartment for the Aged, the old people live happily. Fitness, entertainment, chatting and rich daily life make them extraordinarily energetic and happy. Whether in the health of the elderly or the elderly who can't take care of themselves, the service staff here can take care of them patiently, meticulously and thoughtfully. The first object that nurse Jing took care of was Shen Lao, an 83-year-old retired cadre. Shen Lao suffers from sequelae of cerebral thrombosis. When he first moved into the apartment, he was delirious, inarticulate, incontinent, unable to sleep day and night, and completely lost his ability to take care of himself. Xiaojing started from dribs and drabs and carried out all-round nursing for Shen Lao. The clothes and bedding dirty by the old man's urine and urine, Xiao Jing washed with dirty things, and there was never a bad smell in the room and clothes. In addition to feeding the elderly three meals a day, she also washes their faces and feet in the morning and evening to help Shen Lao carry out rehabilitation exercises, as kind and meticulous as her father. In order to make the elderly happy, she insisted on turning on the radio every day to let Shen Lao listen to music and watch TV with the elderly at night, doing everything possible to make the elderly full of confidence in overcoming the disease. Shen Lao's children said with emotion: "This true feeling makes us all feel ashamed ..."

Let the old people live comfortably and happily.

In the sense of modern society, providing for the aged is no longer to meet the needs of the elderly, but to create a warm, harmonious and beautiful living environment for the elderly. Walking into the hot spring apartment for the elderly in Linyi County, no matter where you are in the courtyard, you will feel lush trees, flowers and plants competing for each other, and distant mountains and rivers echo each other. It's like an evergreen garden, with exercise and fitness equipment neatly arranged among flowers and trees. The design of the whole courtyard is full of consideration for the elderly: fitness, leisure, viewing and enjoying the cool, so that the old people can be placed in a beautiful environment and breathe fresh air as soon as they leave the room. During the interview, we came to the "home" of Mrs. Guo's apartment, where refrigerators, color TVs and high-end furniture are all available. Lao Guo said happily, "After my wife died a few years ago, I tried to live in this apartment in order to reduce the burden on my children. I was fascinated by this apartment because it has elegant environment, good food, good life and better service. Later, I gritted my teeth and sold the house in the city and moved here to settle down. I want to live here until I see my wife ... "

Article 3:

The traditional virtue of respecting and loving the elderly of the Chinese nation must be passed down.

On the occasion of the Double Ninth Festival (also known as "Respect for the Elderly"), Zhao Yan Metropolis Daily published an article saying that 897 centenarians in Zhao Yan will spend their old age peacefully, and the centenarians will receive a monthly allowance of 100 yuan.

The news is comforting. Old people have worked hard for family and social progress for many years. Health and longevity are our wishes. At the same time, we hope to give them allowances, so that they can feel the care and comfort of the party, the state, the government and society.

You can't forget your ancestors by counting classics. The modern civilization we now enjoy, including the peaceful living and working environment, is the result of the unremitting efforts made by the old people in their young years, even today's old age, to contribute to society and benefit future generations. Therefore, we can't forget our old friends, nor can we forget today's hard-won good times. We should respect and love the elderly, so that our society will be harmonious and our family will be happy.

From the perspective of historical and cultural heritage, respecting and loving the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, regardless of other ethnic groups. However, the reason why the Chinese nation is a Chinese nation, the reason why blood is thicker than water, the reason why it has experienced vicissitudes, and the reason why it has a strong "human touch" is an important aspect.

Every nation and culture has its vitality and unique charm, but the Chinese nation, with deep feelings, has condensed the population of China/Kloc-0.3 billion and the vast number of compatriots and overseas Chinese, and those traditional virtues (including the virtue of respecting the elderly and loving the young) are indispensable. Lin Xiuzhen, a "good man" in Hebei Province, regards the widowed elderly as his object of support and respect. Tangshan City often adopted many elderly people in Zhenzhen, setting an example for the society to respect the elderly. And the family respects the elderly, which we deserve. It's not difficult to go home and have a look, talk to the old people on the phone and talk about their family, is it? But it can bring infinite happiness and beautiful aftertaste to the elderly in their later years, and also cultivate our own sentiment of being a man.

The elderly contribute to society and family, and are a treasure house of knowledge and wisdom. They not only nurture us, but also spread the truth of being a man to us through words and deeds. Although we sometimes think that the old people are old-fashioned in knowledge and too orthodox in thinking, they are still the last and most determined support in our hearts. After we hit a wall in reality, we still feel that the old people have passed on their wisdom, and we still feel it. This is the soul of our nation, passed down from generation to generation through the old people. Guide our nation to live endlessly, and guide our nation to stand tall among the nations of the world.

Therefore, it is natural for the government to provide for the aged, the society to provide for the aged and the family to provide for the aged. This is the reason for the non-independence Double Ninth Festival ("respecting the elderly").

To care for the elderly, we must respect the elderly, respect their way of thinking and independent choice, provide more convenience for them to feel caring, create a better environment for the elderly to support themselves, let them have a happy lifestyle, and create conditions for them to build confidence in new social values and family values.

Caring for the elderly, we should start from ourselves, from the things around us, and from now on.

Story 1:

, Cai

Cai, male, born in September, 1946, party member, worked as a village cadre in Zhangshan town for 23 years, and was repeatedly elected as a representative of the municipal and district people's congresses. It is such an excellent * * * production party that not only works conscientiously, but also is a dutiful son praised by villagers in neighboring villages.

Cai's father is 94 years old and his mother is 9 1 year old. Before liberation, his father served as the director of the political work department of a division of the Kuomintang. After liberation, he was a member of CPPCC for many years. He is a legend.

As parents get older, there are more and more inconveniences in life. In order to let their parents live a comfortable and comfortable life in their later years, the Cai couple paid a lot. Because of mother's poor health, Cai and his wife have a person to take care of her daily life every day. When you are sick, you have to pee, take a shower and wipe your body. In order to avoid bedsore in hot weather, massage for 3 or 4 hours every day. You are so tired that your back is sore and your hands are swollen, but you never complain. When the neighbors saw it, they were all glad that the old mother could have such a son and daughter-in-law. My father is a real cultural person. Cai and his wife not only take care of the elderly in life, but also pay more attention to their spiritual needs. They ordered many magazines and newspapers for the elderly. The old man's eyes are not good. Cai reads newspapers and tells books for his father every morning and evening, so that the old man can understand what's going on in the countryside and enrich his spiritual life to the greatest extent.

Under the influence of the Cai couple's words and deeds, the three children are also particularly filial to the elderly. When studying at home, you can share your worries for your parents and take care of your grandparents. Now, although everyone has a successful career abroad, they still miss the old people at home. They often make phone calls to comfort the old people and send money and things from time to time, which makes the villagers envy the 90-year-old birthday girl very much.

Story 2:

2. Mr and Mrs Lei Jinsheng

In Baotai Lane Community of Gu 'nan Street, there is a good family of five commended by provinces and cities. It is the family of Huang, a provincial model worker.

Huang is 93 years old and lives with her only son and daughter-in-law. Her two grandchildren work in Guangdong, and the eldest grandson's son goes to college in Dalian. Granddaughter got married, and great-granddaughter also graduated from junior high school. This is a big family with four generations living under one roof. Only Huang, his son Lei Jinsheng and his daughter-in-law Yu live at home.

Huang is a tall and strong old man. However, due to the influence of Alzheimer's disease in recent ten years, she has been completely deaf and toothless. In addition, she is constipated all the year round, and her diet and urine are all regulated by her children and daughter-in-law. Due to unconsciousness, the former healthy model spits everywhere today, and sometimes she has incontinence. Nevertheless, the old man's face is red, his body is clean, and the hygiene at home is no less than in previous years, because the old man has a pair of filial children and daughter-in-law. They take care of the elderly day after day year after year, and their deeds are touching. It is an example for us to learn in the process of studying and implementing the eight pains and eight shames and building a harmonious society.

The life experience of the elderly

Huang was born in a poor peasant family in Nanchang county in February 2004, and her husband 1942 died. War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, with her only son, fled to Ji 'an, where she had no source of livelihood. She made a living by farming and working as a nanny and suffered a lot.

1949 Ji' an was liberated, and his son took part in the work again, and his life improved. 65438-0958, worked in the state-owned Ji 'an Brick and Tile Factory and worked as a bricklayer's company commander. Because of her active work, she gloriously joined the 1959 China * * * Production Party, was awarded as a model worker at the prefecture level, and participated in the meeting of advanced producers in Jiangxi Province (i.e. provincial model workers) at 1959. 196 1 year, due to the streamlining of the factory, she was the first to resign and go home. She used to be the director of the neighborhood Committee and the director of the street straw bag factory. At work, she is committed to unity and friendship with colleagues; Live in harmony with neighbors, and always ask her for mediation when there is friction between neighbors; In the family, he raised generations of offspring with broad maternal love, and she did almost all the housework such as buying food, cooking, washing and sanitation. This great mother is respected by all future generations. It is precisely because of her role model that she has cultivated her filial piety to the younger generation.

Filial son and daughter-in-law

Huang's son, Lei Jinsheng, is also over the ages. He was a retired cadre who took part in the work before the founding of the People's Republic of China, and his wife was the stationmaster of Gunan Grain Station before she retired. The couple have been educated by the party for a long time and influenced by the example of their elders. It is natural for them to be filial to their mother. Their filial piety to their old mother who had suffered from dementia for ten years won the praise of the residents.

It's delicious to eat without losing your teeth. As the saying goes, "Food is the most important thing for the people", and eating is the first priority. Mother's teeth all fall off and it is difficult to eat. Daughter-in-law buys vegetables and soft dishes with leaves that are easy to swallow; The temperature of the son's cooking should be suitable for the elderly, and the dishes should be soft and easy to swallow as far as possible. In order to balance nutrition, some unpalatable breakfast and vegetables should be ground with chopsticks and scissors every meal every day, so that mother can eat without teeth.

Help mom defecate. People with Alzheimer's disease are usually accompanied by constipation, so they are eager to eat inside and outside! It is common for the elderly to defecate on their bodies because of improper drug conditioning. Therefore, they should eat bananas, fruits and honey every day, and take care of their defecation at all times, just like taking care of children. And groped out some experience, now when I want to defecate, and let the defecation be dry but not thin.

My heart is hot and cold. Daughter-in-law Yu is not only responsible for the health of her family and old mother, but also always cares about the warmth and coldness of her old mother. Because Alzheimer's patients are slow to respond to the climate, they don't know what to take off when it's hot and what to wear when it's cold. The daughter-in-law not only starches her, but also urges her to add clothes and reduce clothes.

Help mom rub her back and pedicure. Huang's son not only helped his mother wash her feet and bathe, but also washed her hair, wiped her back, massaged and trimmed her fingernails and toenails. Calcareous toenails are too thick, please ask a professional pedicure to help repair them.

Children and daughter-in-law support. As the saying goes, an old man is like a child, which is true. It is not difficult for an old mother to have children and a daughter-in-law to support them, but sometimes it needs to be attractive. If the son and daughter-in-law don't feed her, they won't eat. When the son went out, he insisted on letting his daughter-in-law feed him. The daughter-in-law ate quickly and happily. No wonder well-informed neighbors say that old people really enjoy it!

Furniture is for the elderly. The old man is weak in limbs and has difficulty in moving. For the sake of mother's safety, prevention of wrestling and convenience of squatting, the sofa and toilet in this house are all raised, there are special armchairs for eating, and there is a bedpan with a backrest in the bedroom, so that the old man can't go out to urinate at night, and the room is also illuminated by anchor nightlight all night. It can be seen that the son and daughter-in-law have good intentions for the safety of their mother.

Smile at home. Dementia elderly people often make some unpleasant mistakes, such as defecating in the urinal, spitting everywhere, and mopping the floor every day. These can't be criticized, let alone being fierce. Even if it is the focus of speech, the elderly will fidget, sleep, sit and be confused. Therefore, daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law will discuss with each other, and if mother is wrong, she should also serve with a smile like a shop assistant.

Determined to protect my mother for a hundred years.

Whenever people praise the filial piety of this family, Huang's son and daughter-in-law say: filial piety is the duty. Mom, each of us came to this world. First of all, our mother washed our bodies, breast-fed us, poured excrement and urine, and worked hard for us all our lives. Since our mother is old, we should take good care of her.

Under the careful care of her daughter-in-law, Huang's heart, lungs and internal organs were all normal. He doesn't have any other problems all year round, and he doesn't catch a cold in cold and heat. He used to cough a lot, but now he is fine. Nevertheless, my daughter-in-law bought precious nucleic acids for health care. If there are no accidents, the daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law are determined to care for their mother until she is 100 years old.

We sincerely wish their good dreams come true, and also sincerely wish the filial daughters-in-law and kind people in the world a safe life!