You will face many temptations in your life. This is human nature. Remember, one step forward is unrestrained happiness, and the next step is rational calmness. You can only quench your thirst by drinking poison. Pay a huge price.
Self-discipline is the key to solving many problems. Cultivate core self-discipline from going to bed early, then get up early, read, exercise and eat breakfast, and get better and better. That's how I got here. In recent years, because of staying up late, I regret during the day and feel powerless.
4 find your true love and do those useless things. I worked full-time for several years, and my son was free on the first day of kindergarten. The gift for myself is not a brand-name bag or a trip to Europe.
Write down the dream you want to realize. Find a dance teacher, have 40 one-on-one classes and learn a belly dance. Ask a vocal music teacher to learn Liu Mingxiang's ""in ten one-on-one classes. Then ask the coach to exercise. Read books and spend one day a week in different bookstores in Beijing. I found another coach and learned. Then try to write down these life experiences. Keep writing every day. Then I know what I love.
Don't expect too much from others. There will be disappointment if there is expectation. Including spouses, parents and children.
Don't give advice to others easily unless they really ask you. Most people just need someone to listen. Listen, listen sincerely and effectively. Like, well, I understand how you feel. You are not easy. Warm listening can cure half the pain.
7 Insist on exercise, health is the best investment. After exercise, I am tall and straight and have a good temperament. Allergic rhinitis, which has been bothering for many years, has not been repeated. Colds are rare.
8 Keep reading. Time is limited, please read the classics. It covers philosophy, economics, history and psychology, not just novels. Philosophy is the foundation of all disciplines. Not blind. Reading the history of western philosophy is a direct dialogue with the smartest brain in 2500 years.
The significance of philosophy can help you find the softest landing point in the cruel world.
Remember, don't make shallow remarks. Emotional things, slowly understand. If you pay more, you will have expectations. Especially girls who can't get enough love, a little love will make us, moths to a fire, love, friendship, and so on.
Read a paragraph. It probably means that in every relationship, I am the one who pushes too hard, and the other party is always just right. After many years, I don't know where I lost it.
In human nature, what is easy to get, even if it is precious, is greatly reduced in value. Be mysterious to yourself. Keep a love. Yi Shu said, love yourself to love others.
10 is full of positive energy. I don't repeat my pain easily, and I don't really feel the same way.
1 1 Reading hasn't changed, but you must keep reading. Reading is not for eloquence, but for superiority. In order to maintain independent thinking, in the noisy world, a sober.
12 What do you want to do? Act immediately. After many hardships, life is fragile.
13 Three ways to improve cognition. Thinking about reading 1. Talk to the most successful people you know and listen to their stories. Travel as much as possible, and travel will make you see more differences and be more tolerant.