In contemporary China, there is such a teenager who went to college with his seriously ill mother on his back. His name is Liu Ting, because his filial piety touched the world and China. However, in 20 15, he resolutely chose to be a transgender woman. People are curious. How is his/her life now?
Go to school behind my mother's back.
1985 A baby boy was born in Sara Town, Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province. Although he is thin but healthy, the tailor's mother holds her son tenderly and snuggles up to her husband happily, lamenting the wonderful life.
At this time, they will never think of the suffering and separation after more than ten years, let alone know what wonderful legend this baby named Liu Ting will leave on the land of Central Plains.
In a small town, Liu Ting had a happy childhood, but his happy life came to an abrupt end at the age of 13. His mother, busy from morning till night, unfortunately suffered from uremia. Continuous treatment has caused huge expenses, not only spent all the assets at home, but also owed a lot of debts.
My father can't stand this endless torture. He left home to work and never looked back. The disappearance of his father's life has made this tragic family even worse and shaky.
Suffering makes people precocious. Liu Ting seems to have grown up overnight. After consulting with his mother, he decided that her mother would temporarily stay at her grandmother's house. Although he insisted on going to school, he took care of her with her after school. As the days go by, the origin of hope is getting closer and closer.
In September 2005, Liu Ting, who suffered a lot, was admitted to Zhejiang Forestry College. On the day of receiving the notice, mother and son cried bitterly. In addition to joy, she looked at her thin son, and the guilty mother secretly made up her mind not to drag her son any longer. However, Liu Ting, whose mind is delicate, has already noticed the difference of her mother.
While encouraging his mother to actively treat, he applied to the school and resolutely decided to take her to school. The school extended a helping hand to him, not only agreed to his request, but also helped Liu Ting and his mother in many ways.
From the first day she entered the university, Liu Ting completely shouldered the burden of taking care of her mother, tidying up housework, washing clothes, buying food and cooking, taking injections and taking medicine, and even skillfully using electrotherapy equipment. In the canteen of Forestry College, Liu Ting always eats half and keeps half for his mother. It is his obsession to feed his mother.
Filial piety moves everywhere, and everyone helps.
That is, since 2005, Zhejiang Forestry College has occasionally seen such a landscape. A teenager is pushing a wheelchair, carrying his seriously ill mother in the warm sunshine, and the silhouette of the mother and son is shining with a faint halo.
Word of mouth, Liu Ting's filial piety gradually spread inside and outside the school. The news media reported in detail that all walks of life were surging. Everyone was moved and infected by Liu Ting's filial piety, and they all extended a helping hand.
Zhongshan Hospital affiliated to Fudan University took the initiative to contact Liu Ting, sent a special car and experts to Zhejiang, took Liu Ting's mother to Shanghai, had a comprehensive physical examination in urology, and made preparations for kidney transplantation.
At first, Liu Ting volunteered to replace his mother's kidney, but after the hospital comprehensively considered his physical condition and the burden of going to school and taking care of his mother in the future, the attending doctor decided to wait for the kidney source. During this period, the medical and accommodation expenses were donated by urological medical staff.
The operation was very successful, and the money donated by all walks of life is still left. Liu Ting didn't forget everyone's kindness. He and his mother decided to keep this beautiful feeling, so they donated all the remaining money to their alma mater and set up the first national college students' love award fund. The purpose is to donate to those students who are caring and filial but have poor families, to help them reduce their burden and successfully complete their studies.
His filial piety has been recognized and commended by the state. In September 2007, Liu Ting was rated as a national moral model, and successively won the honorary titles of "Chinese filial piety and respect for the elderly hero" and civilian hero. He became a well-known star student.
A man's body and a girl's heart are brave enough to be the "most woman"
Mother's health gradually recovered, her studies got on the right track, and various honors emerged one after another, which made Liu Ting, who was unhappy in the past, feel relaxed in Huo Ran. However, Liu Ting's long-buried girl's heart came unexpectedly and lingered in his mind.
Since childhood, Liu Ting envied other girls to wear flowery skirts, lipstick nails and pout, which was very cute. In daily life, he often tilts his little finger unconsciously. He likes playing with girls, but he doesn't like playing boys' games. Even the boy's adolescence is beyond his ability.
Knowing a son like a mother, Liu Ting's mother had already discovered her son's abnormality, and she even corrected his femininity tendency. However, seeing her increasingly silent and lonely son, the mother's heart could not bear the pain. Finally, she decided to take her son to a professional hospital to see a psychologist. Liu Ting was diagnosed as a congenital heterosexual disease, and the doctor advised him to follow his heart and stop wearing men's clothes.
Guangzhou from 2065438 to August 2004 was the starting point of Liu Ting's other life. Guangzhou Meilai dispatched experts from five international and domestic departments to make a comprehensive and systematic transsexual surgery plan for Liu Ting, which lasted more than 20 operations for half a year, and a brand-new girl stood in front of the world.
On April 20 15, a new ID card was made, female, and her name was Liu Ting. Liu Ting can finally take off his men's clothes, put on his daughter's skirt and go shopping generously.
Li Yinhe, a famous sociologist in China and the first female doctor of sexology, sent her best wishes to Liu Ting and called on the society to help Liu Ting with both "body" and "mind". We should pay more attention to the inner world of transgender people and not discriminate and stigmatize them.
Break the cocoon into a butterfly and create greater glories.
Becoming a girl is not the end of a story, but a new chapter. 2065438+In September 2005, Liu Ting signed up for the Miss International beauty contest of the United Nations and won the "Most Beautiful Butterfly Award" in the final of China District. Liu Ting became the first transgender woman in China to take part in a beauty contest and win a prize, and she set another historical record.
On 20 16 65438+ 10/9, Liu Ting was awarded the "Female Model Award" by UN Women's Agency, and became a role model for a new generation of women in China to challenge the traditional gender discrimination.
Two days later, Liu Ting held an autobiographical novel "My Beauty" in Guangzhou, and announced that he would donate half of the royalties of the new book to "Jiang Reptile Love Fund" to help children in poor mountainous areas and convey love.
She also said that she is a very ordinary girl and she has a long way to go. She will work hard with a more positive attitude towards life to repay the support and care of society.
Liu Ting is getting better and better on the road of women. No matter Liu Ting as a man or Liu Ting as a daughter now, her filial piety is eternal, and her role as an example cannot be ignored. The traditional virtues of the Chinese nation have profoundly influenced and infected the people around her, making the society more harmonious and happy.