This is an amazing boy. It is always awkward to talk and chat with her. In love, it is always said that emotional intelligence is low and men and women don't understand? Appropriate restrictions, who does not understand social life, how to communicate with high emotional intelligence? Learn to communicate and express, and reap sweet love.
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When chatting with the girl you like, your head is empty and there is no topic to talk about. What should you do if you are embarrassed?
The premise is: if you are a little interested in chatting, you are not interested at all and you don't need to change people. If you like each other, if there is no topic, you can't talk about it. I'll share three topic tips with you.
1, state sensory expression
Whether chatting is interesting depends on whether you are in the mood. Topics and events are described, states and feelings are added, and feelings are emotional. Example: chatting with friends in life makes me fat again. I want to go to the gym and run to get fat. My diet is really difficult to control.
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Exodus: I just saw the kitten peeking at me. So cute, haha. There's nothing wrong with opening the topic like this. After cutting into feelings in communication, it is easy to cause * * *.
2. Find and send keywords to expand the topic.
Find keywords and extend more topics directly. For example: You: "What are you doing?" Woman: "If you watch TV right after dinner", three key words are provided in one sentence, and you lie down and watch TV after dinner.
(1), after dinner
After dinner, you will lie down and gain weight.
(2) Lying down
It can be said that my brain has made up for the way you fall asleep.
(3) Watching TV
It can be said that there is nothing to watch on TV recently, and it can also be used as a joke. Young people don't watch TV.
There are many ways to reply to messages. Just choose a leading topic, and then chatting will become easy.
3, the core, pushing up and cutting down translation
Image above: It is to summarize the topic and then raise it to a higher level. Example: The other party said that he likes outdoor fitness and swimming. It can be said that I can see that you are a person who loves life very much, so you push your hobby to your personality characteristics.
Bottom: it is to subdivide your interests, from one topic to a more specific topic. Ex.: I'm still talking about fitness-related topics. Another person said that I would go to the gym five times a week. You can say whether to practice with a personal trainer or by yourself. This way, the other party can easily answer the phone and reflect your professionalism.
Ping: For example, the delicious food, hot pot, stir-fry and barbecue that day.
4. Chatting is comfortable and does not cross the line.
Crossing the line means deliberately saying something that is not in place when you are friends. For example, a girl says to you, I'm so hungry. What would you say?
In three situations, you will have that kind of reaction:
1, give her some takeout, be caring and attentive. 2, cattle, cattle, 666. Then I'll give you a meal, and I won't be hungry.
This is a very general acquaintance relationship, and the third reply is enough. The second reply will definitely think that you are straight, 1, which is out of line.
Ordinary friends should not say what male and female book lovers should do, don't cross the line to do what boyfriends should do, be nice to her, ask her account number and give her some takeout. If not, don't overstep your bounds.