From your story, we can see there are many differences between you two. If you can't understand each other, it's not suitable for dating. What he said can be interpreted as a cold war or a breakup, so I think it's better to break up.
Long-distance love is indeed a factor that affects the feelings of two people, but most long-distance love breakups are not due to this factor, so it is necessary to judge whether you two are suitable by appearances.
I have a friend who was sloppy at the beginning of her relationship. As a result, there was a contradiction after falling in love. Some problems may not exist who is right or wrong, but only conceptual problems. Anyone with a discerning eye will think that two people are not suitable, and there are many conceptual differences. But because I have been in love for a long time, I feel it is a pity to break up. As a result, there are contradictions and no feelings, or not to break up.
I remember my cousin and brother-in-law were long-distance lovers. They are far apart. Internet and telephone connected their love bridge. After knowing each other for a while, they decided to have sex. Later, they got married and had children. My cousin also went to live with her brother-in-law.
If you don't want to break up, you can't choose peace. In fact, this is the cold war. I have a friend and a girlfriend, both of whom like to choose the cold war. As a result, with the passage of time, their feelings are getting weaker and weaker. Once asked to calm down, they broke off contact.
Therefore, I would like to suggest that if you are still obsessed with this relationship, you should try your best to manage it, tolerate each other and make fewer contradictions. However, if you feel that two people are really inappropriate, you should stop these hesitant behaviors and break up as soon as possible to pursue your true happiness.