Nothing more than a review of thirty: 1 I can't help but brush the drama in my spare time. Every time I regret how my self-control is so poor, I can't help but follow the drama every time. I have only 30 left in these two days.
A 30-year-old woman will have many different States. Some people are thriving in their careers and constantly get promoted by their own efforts. However, when facing a new boss, it is inevitable to encounter career bottlenecks, slow promotion and obvious inferiority complex.
Seeing this gave me a strong * * * sound, and this year happened to meet with work changes. Coupled with the recent job search hit a wall, the original self-confidence has disappeared. More mentality is anxiety. Reflecting on self-questioning, I have been working in a state of only output and no input for many years, and sometimes I can master new tasks after anyone has studied for a period of time. Although no one can master the skill, it is not always irreplaceable.
Zhong in the play is a good girl, and her life is smooth sailing. I have lived with my parents since I was a child. When my husband is on a business trip, he goes home to accompany his parents. The work is neither good nor bad, and there have never been any mistakes, but there have been no remarkable achievements.
Zhong's life is what many of us call a beautiful life. There is no great pressure, everyone cares about everything for her, so that she doesn't know what she likes and does. As her good friend Gu Jia said to her in the hospital, it is always good for others to say yes, but it is not good for others to sayno. She turned herself into what others wanted.
Although Gu Jia is a stay-at-home mother, her life goal is clear. With intelligence, the wife circle has settled down, which not only allows her son to enter the dream kindergarten, but also helps her husband tide over the difficulties of the enterprise and get the order from Xanadu.
At the age of twenty, I was thinking how terrible it would be to live to be thirty. Because people always say that after 30 years old, it is not only the increase of age, but also the decline of physical strength and energy, which can no longer be compared with 20 years old.
Time never gives an answer, it only increases the burden.
Now I'm 30 years old, and I don't have as many ideals and fighting spirit as I did at the age of 20, but I'm more about accepting and compromising reality.
Recently, my sister who braved the wind and waves and her thirties, both women in their thirties, chose to face the unknown bravely and make life more colorful, which gave me great encouragement. The road ahead is still very long. Don't doubt yourself because of temporary frustration. Believe in yourself, there will be infinite possibilities!
Review of Thirty-year-old 2 has recently been frequently brushed with fragments of two plays in Tik Tok, Thirty-year-old and Twenty Don't Be Confused. Coupled with Mango Taiwan's hit variety "Sisters Riding the Wind and Waves", it simply depicts different aspects of women in this era for us. Despite facing different problems and challenges, as well as the grievances and troubles brought by life, they are still trying to grow up, become independent and find themselves more real.
The topic of "Don't confuse twenty" is very interesting. The original "40-year-old" means that I have experienced a lot at the age of 40 and have my own subjective value judgment, and I have become 20 years old here. Is it really possible to be "not confused" at the age of 20?
The ancients may not have it, but today's society does.
In the era of developed network, overlapping information and knowledge explosion, our minute has been extended to countless times in the past. Although they are only twenty years old, their laughter, tears, sadness and joy are no less than their sister who braved the wind and waves. Premature maturity is not a bad thing. On the contrary, you would expect them to be even less known. At the age of 20, they can be determined to learn, can stand still, can not be confused, can ride the wind and waves, and have unlimited possibilities.
Compared with too many TV dramas that emphasize women's ability and status and ignore women's life difficulties, there are nothing more than 30 workplace problems, marriage problems and life path choices that women are facing at this stage.
For a 20-year-old girl, most of the difficulties are the adaptation stage from campus to society. Thirty years old, each has its own difficulties.
It is also worth noting that the three 30-year-old women in Thirty are firm and independent in the face of difficulties.
Although each has his own difficulties, the women in Thirty Farewell are not the pitiful heroines in the story, but the epitome of the sisters who braved the wind and waves in real life.
At the age of 25, I am deeply touched, whether it is the sisters of Twenty Don't Confuse or the sisters of Nothing but Thirty. Think about the four years I have been working, I have lost my childishness on campus and understood the laws of society. As a member of grass-roots workers, I quickly realized more human feelings in my close relationship with the masses. In our daily work, we need to regard ourselves as a member of ordinary people, in order to make "serving the people" deeper and more practical. In the face of difficulties, do your best, ride the wind and waves, hone your skills and forge ahead.
Review of Nothing More than Thirty 3 Recently, the search rate of the hit TV series Nothing More than Thirty has been soaring. The play tells the story of three 30-year-old urban women who are under heavy pressure at home and at work. In Gu Jia, there is an enviable family in the kitchen below the hall. Her son is both clever and lovely. Her husband is not only Gao Fushuai, but also Gu Jia, who is in charge of company affairs. On the surface, Gu Jia is a full-time wife. In fact, she is the chairman behind the scenes. Gu Jia keeps the company and family in good order. She is a perfect character who combines talent and beauty. Wang Manni is a drifter in Shanghai. He has good looks and brains, and he works hard. She is 30 years old and still single. Zhong is a local girl in Shanghai with a gentle personality. After the divorce, she grew up quickly and finally got happiness with her ex-husband.
Gu Jia's husband used to be a fireworks designer, but with her help, he became Mr Xu. If her family follows her plan, it will get better and better! Xu Huanshan's cheating ruined a happy family. There are many controversies about Gu Jia's experience on the Internet. Some netizens cursed Xu Huanshan and love rat, some netizens thought Gu Jia was too strong, and some netizens wanted to tear a third party.
I think the family changes in Gu Jia are due to the lack of communication. The reason why the green tea girl Lin You can approach Xu Huan is because her sister-in-law appreciates and admires him and satisfies the vanity of men. In front of Gu Jia, he is just a child who hasn't grown up. When something happened to the company, Gu Jia came forward to clean up the mess. Children's education at home, even as small as what socks to wear, should listen to Gu Jia. Gu Jia is more mature, capable and rational than he is, and it is absolutely right to listen to Gu Jia. But he felt that Gu Jia had been watching him out of the corner of his eye. In Gu Jia's eyes, he can't see admiration or appreciation.
Gu Jia worked tirelessly for this family, and the company was in crisis. She tried her best to get into the circle of wives and try to please them, so as to make a list and bring the company back to life. At home, he is a full-time wife, taking care of the family's food and drink. She thinks that with her efforts, this family will get better and better!
The problem is that they are just self-righteous and don't ask each other what they really need. If Xu Huanshan had told Gu Jia what he really thought earlier, if Gu Canon had let go properly, there wouldn't be so many ifs in life.
Wang Manni's ex-boyfriend missed Wang Manni again because of lack of communication. Zhong divorced because he didn't know each other's real thoughts. After communication, misunderstandings are removed and feelings are deeper. Communication saved their marriage.
This TV series tells us: If you want a harmonious and happy family, please communicate well.
Nothing more than the reflection of thirty. It is always human nature that defeats love. Those who can stand the temptation, even the women at home will not cheat; And those who can't stand the temptation, even if they marry a fairy, will cheat outside. There is no doubt that cheating is wrong. However, some people are busy whitewashing love rat, and even put the blame on women. Just like Xu Huanshan's cheating, some people say that he cheated because Gu Jia put a lot of pressure on him invisibly. Some people even say that perfection itself is a fatal problem. How many people can be on the same frequency as perfector? It is strange that a woman like Gu Jia should not be cheated. This is love rat's logic. I cheated, but it was you who was wrong.
A friend of mine, and her husband from school uniforms to wedding dresses.
Men are successful, gentle and considerate, and spoil their friends like children. You can cook well, take care of the baby, milk, change diapers, study with the children, and do everything. It's such a model husband, who has dinner and talks about hotels with his female colleagues in the company every day.
My friend's sky is falling. How could such a perfect man cheat? If you want to make a mistake, she must be wrong, but she is not good enough. Friends fall into deep self-doubt, doubt that they are not beautiful enough, doubt that their bodies are not good enough, doubt that they are not gentle and virtuous enough, and doubt that their beds are not hot enough. ...
Be a beautiful woman, feel inferior when walking on the road, and feel that the aunt who dances square dance is more attractive than herself. She is more desperate to develop her hobbies in skin care and fitness, and even more desperate to be kind to her husband. As a result, people went out on business trips and hooked up with college students they met on the plane. This time, my friend finally realized that it was not her problem, but that man was disgusting. Don't talk about the campus flower, even if you give him the earth flower, he will still cheat. Her only shortcoming is her lack of self-confidence. She takes love rat's shortcomings on herself.
When a woman cheats, everyone will accuse her of being morally corrupt, shameless and sympathetic to men; But when a man cheats, people will "analyze" women's problems when they scold him-too strong, too independent, and then ugly and sexy, so that they can't tie the man. To make matters worse, women are also rethinking themselves. Save it, which man is really perfect? Do you earn a lot of money? Did you do the housework? Care about your wife and children? No fat, no beer belly, no baldness. Are you handsome in the sky? Why don't their women cheat? They also have reasons to cheat, but they just choose loyalty.
In the face of cheating, the most correct way is not to forgive, not to save, not to "correct one's own shortcomings" to cater to a man who has no moral bottom line, but to leave decisively.