65438+ 10/2 1, a man in Linquan County, Anhui Province married his daughter-in-law from Belarus and led the villagers to take a group photo. According to an insider, the man is doing business in Shenzhen and the woman is from Belarus. The two sides met through the social platform INS. The man sent flowers for more than a year and finally got the beauty back.

A photo of two people.

It should be said that with the increase of foreign exchanges, foreign-related marriages are no longer news. According to the report, from 1990 to 200 1, the number of foreign-related marriages registered in China increased from 23,762 to 72,778. By 20 19, there were 9,386 cases of transnational marriages in Guangdong alone, and the proportion of foreign-related marriages exceeded that of foreign-related marriages. That is to say, in foreign-related marriages, many people used to marry out, but now they are married in, and it is more common to marry foreign wives.

The fact that a rural boy in Anhui married a "post-00" Belarusian model still attracted attention, not only because it was not unusual for a long time, but also related to New Year's Day and celebrations. Then, the man is a rural guy, the woman is a model, or a college student. The man is 36 years old and the woman is 22 years old. It has something to do with pure mutual appreciation. It seems that there are not so many utilitarian factors, so it has become a much-told story.

Both sides feel happy.

Mr. Geng said that the young people in his wife's hometown have pure values. As long as they love and are simple and hardworking, there is no bride price when their wives get married. He met on social media, sent flowers for more than a year, and got married, as simple as that. This has aroused the interest of netizens, because in reality, many people value material things, want bride price, house and car, which often become obstacles and troubles for marriage. Marrying love is certainly enviable.

Although netizens are also worried that foreign-related marriages will have obstacles in living habits, language communication and culture, which will affect the stability of marriage. But when they get together, the first thing is to overcome the related obstacles, everything will be fine, and all shall be well. This is a good wish in marriage. Realizing this is gratifying and should be blessed.

The bride brought the others in tune.

Mr. Geng said that they usually communicate in Chinese, English and Russian, and there is no obstacle to communication. "I know a little English and Russian, and she knows a little Chinese." In addition, the two also hit it off in diet. Mr. Geng's wife said that she likes Shenzhen very much and wants to live in Shenzhen with her husband in the future.

A good marriage is to share the same interests and hobbies and tie the knot forever. Material things should not be an obstacle. Pure love, in the secular world, always has the power to touch people's hearts. The marriage of a rural boy in Anhui to a "post-00" Belarusian model has aroused concern and expressed everyone's blessing and yearning for a beautiful marriage. I want to marry more love, and I want ordinary people to have more happiness.

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Why does "18.88 million yuan sky-high bride price" always provoke the public's nerves?

The cause of the incident originated from a question and answer about the bride price in Zhihu, and one of the anonymous answers attracted the attention of netizens.

A: Chen and his girlfriend fell in love when they were studying abroad, and they survived the epidemic together. So after returning to China, the man went to the woman's hometown to propose marriage, prepared a bride price of 6.5438+0 million, plus a house worth 45 million in Shanghai plus the woman's name, and even bought a house in her hometown.

I thought this bride price package could impress the woman's parents, but my father-in-law made a jaw-dropping list in the future:

1. 1.888 million yuan in bride price cash;

2. The man's house is transferred to the woman for 45 million yuan;

3. Buy millions of properties in the woman's hometown and only write the woman's name;

4. Hundreds of relatives of the woman each gave a red envelope of 6.5438+10,000 yuan;

5. The woman gives each child 6.5438 million yuan in cash and no less than 20 million yuan in real estate;

6. Hundreds of relatives and friends watched the first-class air tickets, as well as countless precious diamond rings and various ornaments.

It is roughly estimated that such a combination boxing is worth hundreds of millions of yuan. Under such conditions, she replied that the woman had found out the assets of the man's family, even checked the equity and salary of the man's parents, and concluded that the total assets of the man's family were not liabilities, and accordingly a quarter of the amount was used as a bride price.

The man was dumbfounded. In the future, the father-in-law kept saying that it depends on the sincerity of the man. The girlfriend changed her previous gentleness and stood on the side of her parents completely, asking the man to fight with her in-laws. Finally, the two broke up, broke up.

Subsequently, the news of this sky-high bride price quickly rushed to the hot search. Because it involves Pingxiang, Jiangxi, it has attracted local attention. After preliminary verification, it is judged that the content of the article is fabricated.

"18.88 million yuan bride price" has been reversed, but the question mark still needs to be straightened. Is it a custom or a bad habit? Where should the bride price go?

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Why do sky-high bride price events always attract traffic?

In fact, when this post first became popular, the shopkeeper expressed doubts about its authenticity. Why do you say that? The combination of the rich second generation of returnees, regional differences and sky-high bride price is bound to attract traffic.

In fact, the sky-high bride price incident will be heated up every year. We might as well confirm the nature of the problem.

Some scholars have pointed out that the bride price has two attributes: marriage compensation and marriage assistance. In some places, the bride price is really regarded as a kind of compensation for the woman's parents to raise their daughters. Because of the water spilled by the previously married daughter, the woman no longer supports her parents after marriage and needs a one-time compensation. Now both husband and wife have the obligation to support their parents, so there is no such statement.

In more places, especially in the north, bride price is symbolically given to the woman's parents, and finally brought back to the small family by her daughter as the wedding expenses of the small family. This bride price is also the financial support given by the husband's parents to the young couple, and many women's families will also give considerable dowry. In this sense, it is not unreasonable to give financial assistance to young couples in the form of bride price, but it must be within the range that both parties can bear and recognize, rather than asking exorbitant prices.

I hope that "18.88 million sky-high bride price" rashomon event can put an end to similar discussions.

This rope breaks easily.

We are talking about the sanctity of free love.

Regardless of the authenticity of the news itself, let's clear the fog and see the truth. Why does the bride price always provoke the nerves of Chinese people? I have suffered for a long time because of the bride price.

The fact that there are 600 million people in China whose monthly income is less than 1000 yuan has fallen under the glasses of many people. Hundreds of thousands of bride price is equivalent to the income of these people who have not eaten or drunk for ten years, which basically declares that these men have permanently withdrawn from the marriage and love market. Don't think that the bride price is just a pain point for men, and women are also victims. Because most of the bride price is decided by the woman's parents, as a daughter, she can only stand on family of origin's side and force the man to obey, and will eventually break up without hesitation.

Opening the history books, the bride price has existed since the Zhou Dynasty, and later formed a ritual system. Bridal gift is one of the six gifts. So it seems that the bride price is still a "non-legacy", but Lu Xun said: It has never been like this, has it? In ancient times, the husband was the wife, and women were subordinate to men in the family. Even in the Southern and Northern Dynasties, there was a social phenomenon that wives were concubines. Now, can you imagine a husband publicly betraying his wife? Therefore, in ancient times when there was no free love, women were the subject matter of family of origin's transaction with men, and bride price became an indispensable part of this transaction.

But, my Lord, times have changed. In the new era, women hold up half the sky, and there are no more matchmakers. The spring breeze of free love blows all over China. In many places, even at home, financial power is in the hands of women. The soil of bride price has changed. It is no longer a part of marriage, but assumes the role of a good bride price. It is both the regret of two people and the sorrow of the times.

So when we are discussing the bride price, what are we discussing? We are talking about the sanctity of free love.