1 First of all, what is the emotional state of your husband and wife? If it is good, don't make a fuss because of the occasional dinner, coming home late, not answering the phone, etc.

Tell me an experience: after one or two years of marriage, he said that he would stay up late with his clients. After midnight, he didn't return, so I started to call, and more than a dozen people didn't answer, but no one answered that, so I began to think about it. Did I deliberately not return? Did you lose your mobile phone? Is anyone drunk? Or did something happen on the road? All kinds of worries and doubts, the more you think about it, the more you are afraid of getting angry. Later, when he came back, he called back and said that he was just accompanying the client in the bath center. I believe him because I know his people. Later, he often came back late and told me in advance. Occasionally I get suspicious, and he will make video calls or something. Over time, I got bored!

Therefore, for business people, it is inevitable for men to socialize outside. As long as two people have good feelings at ordinary times, it should be understandable!

If the distrust of him rises to a certain extent, and he doesn't reply or reply to information, and he doesn't explain and communicate well when he comes back, you still doubt that it's not what mentality you think he is, but the trust in your feelings!

You can also change places. If you go out to play with your sister and she can't contact you, what do you think is your mentality?

I'll teach you a trick. Don't make any noise. Deal with a man as he deals with you. Wait for him at home, just go out for one night, don't answer the phone, don't return messages. Look at his reaction!

My husband used to go out to play cards and drink, and didn't answer the phone in the middle of the night. At first, he was worried that he could not sleep. Then he figured it out, and everything faded. When my children entered junior high school, I began to exercise and yoga. The whole temperament has changed and people have lost a lot of weight. Now my son is studying. I am in good health. I care a lot. I make my own money. I take care of my son. I drive by myself and work hard.

Maybe I will offend most men, but men are really unreliable many times. In the past, most of the separated men in the company had mistresses, and a small company employee also had mistresses. At the end of the year, the supplier invited us to dinner and sang K, and we girls left after dinner and went to find various girls. There is a colleague who is very pure. We often tell him not to mix with them, but to be nice to his wife. If we ask those men, we are not afraid of our wives, okay? They said the third child would help hide. For example, if the wife calls, the third child won't make any noise. If the wife comes, the third child will automatically avoid it. Therefore, a husband is a husband within ten feet. Girls should be less expecting of marriage, more realistic, more alert and more principled, and be prepared to turn around at any time.

Normal people's psychology, under normal circumstances, after marriage, a man does not go home, does not answer the phone, does not reply to text messages, it can be said that he has basically done nothing good! Maybe some men think I'm a little extreme, but I'm not. As husband and wife, it is right for two people to trust, understand and tolerate each other. But the premise is mutual respect. No matter what happens, we have an obligation to tell each other. After all, husband and wife are the closest people in the world after marriage, and your every move is concerned about another person's heart. I believe many wives have the habit that their husbands don't go home and sleep alone. As a husband, you know there is always a light on for you after midnight. If you have her in your heart, even if you really can't come back, give her a message that you are waiting for you at home, so that she can feel at ease.

However, everything has two sides. The ancients said: When you are married, there is no doubt about love. In any case, trust is the most basic attribute of a family harmony. A wife should give her husband as much trust as possible on the premise that this kind of thing happens occasionally and is explained clearly afterwards. Marriage is like a handful of sand. The tighter you hold it, the easier it is to leak light. On the contrary, just like flying a kite, this is the smartest way and more conducive to a long-term marriage. As a husband, we should try our best to avoid these things, especially in today's developed communication. If we don't answer the phone or reply to the message after midnight, it is easy for the other half of our family to daydream and cause unnecessary misunderstanding. Wives are for love, not for hanging.

Husband doesn't come back after drinking until the early hours of the morning, doesn't answer the phone, and doesn't reply to text messages.

One: I got drunk with my friends. When you are drunk, you don't answer your wife's phone to save face for yourself, so as not to make friends laugh at your wife.

Two: singing after drinking, the sound in the box is too loud, I was drunk and didn't hear it.

Three: the worst case is that you dare not answer the phone after doing something bad.

In either case, this man is an irresponsible husband. A good husband won't drink until midnight, and even if he is really entertaining, he will take the initiative to explain the situation to his wife. Therefore, when you meet such a husband, you should pay more attention to yourself!

Do you agree?

An irresponsible man, who cares about his psychology! Take care of yourself, love yourself, and don't understand men too much, because that will make you sad!

This phenomenon is vividly reflected in low-level talents.

If a person has quality and reason, especially adults, the ability to distinguish things and control their inner level, they will have rational thinking. What time? What kind of audience are you facing? What is your code of conduct? Be reasonable.

People with normal thinking will tell the other half in advance when they go out for entertainment, and they are not sure when they are drunk and warm! I wonder if my family will miss me in the dead of night? Would you be worried? Can't you just call home as a sign of respect?

At present, many people lack emotional intelligence and education. They take delight in disgusting food, take delight in unreasonable troubles, and take vulgarity as chic. In my opinion, people who get carried away by drinking are really people who lack self-control.

Since he doesn't answer the phone or reply to text messages, he should get a divorce as soon as possible. It is better to be single than to be with such a person.

My husband used to be like this, but he always came back with an explanation, but then I found out that he was cheating.