1, posture, it seems that no one has mentioned this. Please try to lower your body, preferably not higher than the cat's head, at least squat down instead of bending over. Cats are usually less willing to accept the former than looking down from a height.
2. Smell, no, it's not that you are covered with Polygonum multiflorum or catnip, but that you don't have a strong smell. The smell of orange peel, smoke and strong perfume make cats sick, and the signal of this smell is simply "away". As for the taste of food, I believe that cats are attractive when they are hungry, but they may not be attractive at other times.
3, demeanor, in fact, I think cats and people can't understand each other's expression information, so it doesn't matter whether you cry or laugh. I said, please pay attention to the cat's manner. If you are lazy, you will be closer than an alert cat. If the cat has obvious vigilance, please don't try to avoid injury.
4, pronunciation, frankly, the first answer at present may be a joke ... We humans have not yet established a cat language translation system, but I know a more scientific conclusion is that cats prefer high-frequency sounds to low-frequency sounds, so it is true that it is easier for a gentleman to attract the cat's attention by speaking in a sharp voice than by speaking in a rude atmosphere.
5, time, not to say that it is easy to get it during the day or at night, sometimes cats are very reluctant to get close to humans, including pregnancy, breastfeeding, hunting, etc., and the vigilance of lactating female cats will be greatly improved, and domestic cats may attack owners who are too close to their kittens, let alone wild cats.
7. Familiarity, yes, long enough goodwill contact will gradually reduce the cat's vigilance against you, but this is a long process and may be repeated-see the last example.
X. When you do the above precautions and the cat is still unwilling to approach, it is better to give up the behavior of approaching the cat. If you approach it rashly, it will basically only arouse vigilance and disgust. If you get too close to it, you may even be attacked-don't worry, most of the time cats just run away.
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Then if the attraction is successful, the next step is to approach and touch. It would be easy if the cat came up on its own. If I just show indifference to your practice, I have the following suggestions in specific contact:
1, don't reach out and touch it directly, you may be attacked. Please get ready. Cats may attack or even bite this behavior with their claws, but as long as they don't exhale, bow their backs, scratch their hair or wave their claws, they will reach Lv 1: I'm not dead yet. 2. When reaching out and slowly approaching the cat (within its field of vision), and the cat has not shown aggressive desire or obvious vigilance, it is Lv2: successful diving. At this time, you can try the next stage of direct touch and stroking: clench your fist, stretch out your index finger and knuckles to get close, and don't straighten your fingers, which is more likely to arouse the cat's vigilance.
3. When the cat has touched the kitten and there is no obvious expression change, it has reached Lv3: achieving the goal. You can try to touch it slowly at this time. It is recommended to touch the back of the neck (it is best not to touch the ears), back, chin and bridge of the nose (not recommended); Try not to touch limbs, tail and abdomen; In addition, along the fur, that is, along the cat's fur growth direction rather than the opposite direction, otherwise it will almost certainly cause cat dissatisfaction soon. 4. When your fingers hover on both sides of the cat's head and the cat is willing to actively rub your cheeks (where the glands are located) with both hands, it basically shows that the vigilance is reduced and some trust is generated in you, reaching Lv4: Develop a strategy. This stage often benefits from your outstanding performance in Lv3. Yes, if possible, please practice your cat touching skills.
5. The cat purrs and reaches Lv5 with lv4: Raiders is successful! At this time, it shows that the cat has basically developed a sense of closeness to you.
6. If the cat falls to reveal its belly, it can be gently stroked, indicating that the cat has reached the Lv6: illusion stage, that is, it shows full trust and closeness, and can basically be stroked at will, but it is unlikely for a wild cat. This situation is basically only seen in the previous family where the cat was abandoned.
7. Before 7.Lv4, there is still the possibility of being attacked; Lv5 and Lv6 basically depend on the cat's mentality, not the person who comes into contact with them. Please observe the cat's reaction and stop it in time when it shows impatience or vigilance.
Xin Weijun, the big cat in the gym, regards pedestrians as nothing and is indifferent and generous. Even if the strategy reaches Lv4 today, An Lushan's hand will still be knocked off tomorrow.
Above, I thought of making up again.
In the past, Huang Jun downstairs was a typical type of refusing strangers thousands of miles away. From spring to autumn, it took me half a year before Huang Zai was willing to get close to me, and the scar on my wrist was the tragic price of robbing him when I took him to the hospital. The bigger price is that he doesn't want to be near me for a long time. I looked at the bite marks and scratches that I can still see today. I never get rabies vaccine twice a year in more than 20 places below my arms and shoulders ... I'm sorry, maybe I'm not a good role model, but most of my experience is flesh and blood for your reference. )