Observe and evaluate the suitability of future spouse or son.
Hearing your wish, I'm ready to praise you for putting it into action, because blind date needs courage. Sounds like you need detailed advice:
Before dating, you need to do your homework in advance.
Before dating, please know the basic situation of the blind date. For example: looks, height, body shape, occupation, working status, hobbies, general personality ... followed by the basic family situation of the blind date, parents, relatives at home, brothers and sisters, occupation, economic conditions, ...
I know this to prepare for talking to girls on a date.
Second, try to be humble in front of girls.
When a girl meets a blind date and talks alone, she should first pay attention to the performance of her state. In other words, psychologically, I want to feel supercilious, that is, I don't talk much, but I know what to ask and say, and I know what to say.
The so-called "conscious" means that we want to see each other's talking temperament, what is the gas field between us, whether we want to hear each other when we talk, and whether we feel warm and harmonious when we are together, which makes people want to be close.
Satisfy each other's psychology
Third, when talking to girls, we should find the right starting point.
In other words, when we chat with girls alone on a blind date, we should pay attention to where to start talking, which may be what the other party is willing to listen to.
Psychologically speaking, we are generally willing to be satisfied by people close to us.
1 Then you start from the place that the other person likes and feel that you are familiar with it, so you should know the other person's preferences in advance and start chatting with her.
For example, if she likes sports, you can start talking about sports and fitness. For example, she likes traveling. You can talk to her from tourist attractions. For example, she likes watching movies. You can start with the categories of movies and what movies you like.
Talk to each other about her friends.
You can ask each other what kind of friends they have. We say that we can usually see a person through her friends, so we ask her what her friends are like, same-sex or opposite-sex. How many? How does she get along with them? You can see what the blind date is like.
Observe and evaluate the suitability of future spouse or son.
Besides these, you can also talk to her from the state of daily life. For example, how do you spend your days? How about sleeping? How was the food?
Through the regular state of daily life, you can know whether your blind date is full of sunshine, positive optimism, depression or what.
If you feel that you are not very good at dating girls alone, you can make use of some environmental occasions, such as restaurants, cinemas or cafes, and places with emotional appeal can help you have some environmental fields. For example, on the occasion of eating, by asking about the preferences of dishes, you can get to know each other and understand the living conditions and tastes of this person.
The above suggestions are for your reference only, hoping to give you some help.