As for the upbringing of children, Christine and blacks have also formed a set of communication philosophy. She smiled and said, "There are conflicts between them, but most black people will respect me. In fact, this conclusion also comes from the tacit communication between the couple. For example, when Feifei and Xiangxiang fought, Dad came out to stop them severely, separated the two brothers, invited one of them aside, and mom came forward to appease one of them.
What will Christine do when Feifei and Xiangxiang lose their temper? Taking littering as an example, she usually persuades first: "Don't throw anything, pick it up quickly!" " ! Sometimes children are obedient and will pick them up and throw them in the trash can, but sometimes they will say no and kick things around. At this time, she usually keeps quiet, let the children vent their emotions and then observe what to do. For example, Xiangxiang was in a bad mood for a while and would roll on the ground or hit the floor. At this time, she turned off the light and said to Xiangxiang, "Mom will be heartbroken if you hit the floor like this!" " After that, although he was still crying, after a few minutes, he found that it was quiet around him and he would gradually calm down. She stressed, "Patience is the most important lesson for parents. 」
Although most parenting methods are based on Christine's opinion, sometimes she thinks that the black people's approach is reasonable and adopts his approach. For example, when Feifei and Xiangxiang eat, she hopes that the children can eat the whole bowl, but the black people will think that they can only eat half of the last meal. After listening to it, she thought about it and thought it was right. There is no need to force the children to leave the table.
This is Christine's wisdom. Sometimes he is persistent, sometimes he is soft, and he can make black people give in and make them get along sweetly, without being strong or quarreling.
Model parenting: Give Fei an opportunity to monopolize his parents.
Everyone has a mother book, and Christine is no exception. "I hope that children can grow up in an ordinary and normal environment. The difference between twins and singles is that they will share their parents' love at the same time. Her parenting experience is very special. I hope Feifei and Xiangxiang can monopolize their parents occasionally.
So if the nanny is at home, Christine and the man in black will hold hands, take Feifei or Xiangxiang out for a walk, or buy a box lunch, just three people. Next time, the couple will take another child out, such as driving for a ride, to create opportunities for the two brothers to have their parents alone at different times. She stressed, "I hope Feifei and Xiangxiang know that even if they have brothers and sisters, they are independent individuals. 」
In fact, the two brothers came to this world only one minute apart, but their personalities and bodies are completely different. Flying higher, heavier, more easygoing and less courageous; Xiang Xiang is a younger brother, but he is bold, bold and dare to try. Christine said with a smile, "* * * is the same, two people can be coquettish. When Feifei eats cookies, she will allocate one to everyone according to her own logic, which is very intimate; In the middle of playing, Xiangxiang will suddenly rush over and lean her head on her mother, making her suddenly feel that the whole world has melted. 」
1+ 1+2 = On the road to happiness, Christine is brave and perfect. Christine, she likes to sing "Can we not be brave?" Bravely gave birth to Feifei and Xiangxiang more than two years ago, and began to pursue dreams, hold concerts and raise children at the same time. What are the hardships behind such a perfect life? What are the interesting things? Let's walk into her-a story about love and courage. Taipei concert flying love plus.
Although taking care of Feifei and Xiangxiang wholeheartedly, Christine did not give up her singing dream, and actively pursued her dream while taking care of her children. She recorded and performed after the two brothers were one year old; After I was two years old, I started my world tour concert. Are you worried about being forgotten by the audience when raising children full-time? She said confidently, "My music protects me silently. Concerts spread in people's hearts, and I don't have to be in front of the screen or have news to feel my existence. As it turns out, it is. On the first selling day of the Taipei Dome concert, it opened in red and sold 90% of the box office, with remarkable results.
Standing on the stage of the small dome four years later is my mother's identity. Will I take Feifei and Xiangxiang to the concert this time? "Taipei is my home, of course I will take them! Christine said with a smile that they had seen her mother's concert twice. At first, they would excitedly point at her on the stage and shout, "Mom, it's mom singing. However, when I saw two concerts in the middle, I couldn't hold back and wanted to go back to sleep. It's embarrassing for my mother, and it's cute.
Christine thinks that raising and singing are her dreams. The stage of the concert is to perform in front of thousands of people in Qian Qian, and it is also on the small stage at home. Conquering children's ears is another challenge. She often sings nursery rhymes and nursery rhymes that Feifei and Xiangxiang like at home, and they sing along with them, which is her sense of accomplishment. With children, there are many things to inspire every day.
You ask Christine, will you sing them children's songs that brothers like on the stage? She smiled shyly like a child. "If they don't resent it, maybe they can consider it." Standing on the stage of the concert and singing in front of Feifei and Xiangxiang is a happy and proud thing for Christine.
And how to achieve a perfect balance between work and parenting? Christine stressed that when you are with children, you should focus on your children, and when you are at work, you should focus on your work. Both should be cut and distributed. In order for Feifei and Xiangxiang to be accompanied by their parents for 24 hours, she coordinated with the blacks. No matter how hard they work, one of the two brothers must be at home every day until he is 3 years old. So if a black man wants to work, she is at home; She can go to work if he doesn't make a video.
Even so, sometimes there will be negligence, such as too much work and not seeing children for several days. Still caught off guard, Xiangxiang once had acute gastroenteritis, and the doctor said that he would be hospitalized. But at that time, when the black people were working in Beijing, Christine had to ask a nanny to accompany Feifei at home and Xiang Xiang in the hospital, which was very hard. In addition, sometimes I miss my children at work. She will pick up the photos of the children in her mobile phone, or have a video call with her children to relieve the pain of lovesickness.
1+ 1+2 = On the road to happiness, Christine is brave and perfect. Christine, she likes to sing "Can we not be brave?" Bravely gave birth to Feifei and Xiangxiang more than two years ago, and began to pursue dreams, hold concerts and raise children at the same time. What are the hardships behind such a perfect life? What are the interesting things? Let's walk into her-a story about love and courage. After she was too old to be brave, Christine married a black man (Chen Jianzhou), then Feifei and Xiangxiang were born, and her life turned a new page. She said, "Giving birth to them is the bravest thing I have ever done. I need to work hard every day to make myself stronger. After becoming a mother, the biggest change is to become braver. 」
Gave birth to the bravest thing in my life.
Feifei and Xiangxiang are hard-won. Christine experienced miscarriage and premature delivery. After the two brothers were born, they lived in an incubator for three weeks. After all kinds of hardships, they were raised bigger and healthier. In order to give better care and nutrition to her younger brothers, Christine accompanied them full-time for one year and exclusively breastfed them for eight months.
What's the hardest thing about being a stay-at-home mom? She said without hesitation, breastfeeding! Because Feifei and Xiangxiang are twins, it is almost impossible to kiss and feed two at a time, so she has been chasing and squeezing for eight months, and she has to milk two people every day. "I wish I were a cow. At first, it was milked every 2 or 3 hours, and then it was 4 or 5 hours. I'm still worried about not having enough milk. During breastfeeding, the incidence of milk, mastitis and fever did not decrease. Pay great attention to diet at every meal, and sometimes drink cold soup. Especially when milking, you can't be lazy. If you don't squeeze for more than a period of time, you will feel bloated and want to cry.
The most important gesture of a female star was temporarily ignored by Christine for flying around. I gained 20 pounds during pregnancy, and I dare not lose weight during lactation. I didn't start to lose weight until I gradually gave up milk. Even an artist, being a mother is not easy. How much courage and love does it take to have a child? She said firmly, "How much love is needed is beyond measure. But I know I can give them everything I have. " It is moving.
1+ 1+2 = On the road to happiness, Christine is brave and perfect. Christine, she likes to sing "Can we not be brave?" Bravely gave birth to Feifei and Xiangxiang more than two years ago, and began to pursue dreams, hold concerts and raise children at the same time. What are the hardships behind such a perfect life? What are the interesting things? Let's walk into her-a story about love and courage. The most romantic thing for a black man is to take her to the gym.
With Feifei and Xiangxiang, the life of Christine and the men in black has changed from a two-person world of 1+ 1 to a four-person world of 1+ 1+2. What's the difference between them? She said that after marriage, the two still have their own jobs, often flying, performing in different places, and not much time at home. After you have children, you should follow them to work and rest, and take care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation together. Life has changed greatly. For example, black people used to like having many friends and relatives at home, but now they can't always invite friends to parties with children.
What is the most touching and romantic thing that a black man in Taurus has done? Christine's answer turned out to be "take her to exercise". She said that after giving birth, she was often too busy to take care of her body. Therefore, black people often invite their children to ride bicycles, run, exercise and exercise together after they fall asleep to help her find a balance between body and mind, so as not to focus on the children and lose herself. So, she wants to say thank you to the black people. "I can't do these things alone, but it's good to have you." 」
In Christine's eyes, the black man is a responsible father with shoulders, but he is also a very naughty husband who often does things that make her laugh and cry. For example, when two people sleep with their children in their arms, black people will steal farts in the quilt, so smelly that even Feifei and Xiangxiang will ask, "Who farted?" "At this time, the men in black also deliberately refused to respond and let the children find the source of the smell themselves. Finally, all four people laughed. The so-called happiness is nothing more than that.