A few years ago, in order to send Dabao to school, I quit my job and did odd jobs at home. Later, I want to go out to work. Sadly, I found that I could hardly find a suitable job. Either the employer discriminates against me or I despise the employer. After two years of seesaw, I feel that my self-confidence has dropped to a very low level.
When I was pregnant with Bao Xiao, I made a decisive decision to take the civil service exam. Brush the questions, catch the exam, and forget all kinds of sadness. Fortunately, all my efforts have paid off. I am 35 years old and have successfully compiled the exam. Now that I have been working for several months, I have a sense of sureness, and my life has finally settled down.
This precious mother, stop obsessing and go to work. You are so entangled, which means you are not suitable to stay at home full-time. After a long time, you will be depressed.
Yesterday, I saw a mother on the Internet saying that she was afraid that after both her children went to school, she would be too bored and out of touch with the outside world, so she worked part-time at KFC for four hours in the morning, sweated at the gym for two hours in the afternoon, and then went to the kindergarten to pick up the children. This gives me a sense of work, interpersonal communication and kindergarten traffic. I think it's good, too, for a treasure mother who doesn't have the help of an old man to take care of her children.
I am a baby-sitter for two children. Now that the children are at school, we have more time to spend at our disposal.
First of all, if conditions permit, it is recommended to go to work. When you go to work, you have more contact with people outside, and you have more things to deal with, so your ability and courage to deal with problems will not deteriorate and you will not be eliminated by society.
Moreover, when you go to work, you can have your own income. After all, it will not be easy to ask for money. If you earn and spend your own money, you will feel at ease and have a clear conscience.
Finally, the embodiment of self-worth. If you really can't go to work, find something to do, such as writing, which can really enrich yourself and won't be empty mentally. If you find something that suits you, you will get not only material but also spiritual satisfaction.
At the same time, you can also communicate with your children and set an example for them.
For example, I, the oldest kindergarten teacher, have been unable to go to work for five months, and I am learning to write articles and submit articles recently. Every time I write, the boss will consciously do homework or draw pictures. In short, he will do his own thing quietly.
Although there is no harvest yet, I will stick to it. In the end, I certainly not only gained money, but also enriched myself.
Come on, ladies [light up the safety lights] [light up the safety lights] [light up the safety lights] [light up the safety lights]
I also want to find a job, but no one picks up the children! Can't help it! ! !
Delaying classes is a good policy for working mothers, but it adds extra expenses for stay-at-home mothers!
My child is not affected in kindergarten! So for me, it doesn't matter whether there is this policy [covering your face] [covering your face] [covering your face]
Think about playing mahjong and shopping, boss!
I am in a small county, and I still go to school as usual, and the training institutions also enroll students normally. I signed up for the online course on Monday, but nothing has changed for me.
Each family follows the situation of each family.
Been working.
I am a mother with a second child. My boss has to bring a second child to primary school. He won't be able to go to kindergarten until next year, so now he is also taking his children to work.
I haven't been to work since I was pregnant with my boss for six months. At that time, the reaction was great, I couldn't eat anything, and I was depressed all day. My husband asked me to resign, and I didn't go to work after giving birth to the baby. After the boss went to kindergarten, I went to look for a job. I heard that I took care of the children myself and no one helped me, so I declined because I was afraid that I would resign every winter and summer vacation. Later, I did odd jobs with other treasure moms. The boss was pregnant with a second child when he was in the middle class. After a month, I sent my eldest brother and my second child to kindergarten alone. Next year, the boss doesn't need to pick up the third grade, so it's his turn to pick up the second grade and go to kindergarten. His health is not as good as his sister's, and he may often ask for leave in the first semester of kindergarten (my sister is often sick in the first semester of kindergarten, which is one of the reasons why I can't go to work). I'm ready. You can't go to work until the second grade. By that time, I will be 40+. Which company will want me? And I haven't been to work for so many years, and I don't have the confidence to integrate into the working atmosphere of young people in their twenties. In my husband's words, I don't have to go to work in my life, as long as I take care of my children. So, I retired at the age of 27.