Lele, 36, divorced.

Lele said: he hurt me for ten years, and I endured it for ten years, and finally I couldn't bear it.

Ten years ago, Lele was young and beautiful, still a talented woman, and she took a fancy to Wang Tao, a talented person in the same department. At that time, Wang Tao was very rustic and poor, but very talented.

Lele said: I didn't care about money when I was a child, as long as I had love.

After graduation, they stay in big cities, get married naked, have nothing, and go hungry after paying the rent.

Later, Lele worked hard and worked as a supervisor from a small clerk for three years, but Wang Tao was depressed. After working for three years, my salary didn't rise much. I was beaten by my wife and accumulated a lot of grievances.

In addition, Lele often goes home late at night. Wang Tao plays games while waiting. When I saw my wife coming back drunk, I scolded her for not being sociable, so they always quarreled. At first, they just cursed each other. Later, Wang Tao began to hit people.

Lele said she wanted to give up, but she already had a baby in her stomach and couldn't let it go!

She simply resigned and raised the baby with peace of mind. At first, Wang Tao finally found the feeling of being a big man, but after a long time, forced by the pressure of life and the salary was not enough for the family to stutter, he began to get grumpy again, and even began to beat Lele who had not yet had children.

Lele said that she wanted to divorce, but the child was so small that there was no way!

The child went to kindergarten, Lele returned to the workplace, and Wang Tao was still the same. They finally bought a house, but life didn't get better.

Wang Tao always called names and hit people, and Kororo was patient until one day, Wang Tao hit Lele in front of the children. The child cried for his father, but to no avail.

That night, Lele realized that patience has no result and is the way out.

She finally got divorced. The house belongs to her husband and the children to her wife. Others said that Lele suffered a big loss. She said: If you leave love rat, you will be lucky all your life.

Women can endure for a while and for a lifetime. Endless tolerance means giving others a chance to hurt themselves, making themselves heartless and making life hopeful.

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Compared with Lele's tragic marriage, another woman was very happy.

Her husband is a senior in the company, with high salary and good cultivation, but studying is just a housewife. Many people say that the final result of this marriage is that the husband is looking for a woman outside and the wife is crying at home.

But the reality is just the opposite. This husband always likes to take books to various parties, and everyone will praise his wife for being virtuous and capable.

Where on earth can housewives go?

Reading said that when she first got married, her husband was still obsessed with her ex-girlfriend and even secretly went to see her for dinner and movies. After she knew it, she didn't bear it, but gave her husband an ultimatum: either she broke contact with her ex-girlfriend and stayed with me, or she divorced me and got back together with her ex-girlfriend.

Many people around me said, how can you talk to this rich husband like this after seeing this stupid woman? I would rather divorce than accept my husband's consideration for others.

Later, her husband finally considered it, gave up contact with his ex-girlfriend and managed his marriage well.

Reading in life is so refreshing and tidy for everything. She is cruel to her husband and even more cruel to herself.

Although she is a housewife, she never eats junk food, insists on fitness and maintenance, and maintains a good figure and face.

Although she didn't have a job, she used her brains to do part-time jobs and used the extra money for financial management. She usually reads books instead of soap operas in her spare time. Go out to travel when you have time, and your husband can't accompany you.

Reading is cruel to herself and she is not allowed to become greasy, obese and depressed. She made every effort to make her life more exciting than when she was young.

She said: once a woman relaxes herself, she will be surrounded by crisis, and when a woman begins to be self-disciplined and cruel to herself, the world will be good to me.

The reality is the same, because she can carry it clearly and stress principles, making the hall go to the kitchen, not only not sticking to her husband, but also often giving her a long face. It is conceivable that her husband loves her more and more.

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Many people say that the true meaning of marriage is two words-patience.

A woman's marriage will definitely not be happy if she only has the word patience. Small things, small details and small flaws can be tolerated. In the general direction and major issues, women must have a big pattern and be ruthless in order to get hard happiness.