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Is fear of trouble a disease?
I asked everyone a question in the group yesterday, saying that besides your current job, do you have a second skill to support yourself?

Some people say that there is still a part-time job. If you don't do your main job, you will do it. But some people say that they have no skills at all, let alone skills, and they don't even know what they like.

Several brothers and sisters who didn't graduate from college said, I don't know what I like at all. In addition to class every day, I watch American TV plays and brush Weibo in my dormitory. I don't seem to like anything Several friends who have already worked said that in addition to going to work, they just go home to cook and take their children to watch the news. It seems that life really has no surprises.

Cai Kangyong once said that when you were 65,438+05 years old, you found it difficult to swim, so you gave up swimming. At the age of 65,438+08, when you meet someone you like and ask you to go swimming, you have to say "I can't". 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't". The more troublesome my early life is, the lazier I am to study, and the easier it is to miss the people and things I am interested in and the new scenery later.

As for you, you don't find it difficult or uninterested. Actually, you're just afraid of trouble. I was afraid of trouble from the beginning and didn't even give myself a chance to feel difficult. Unconsciously, the fear of trouble helps you reject everything you might like.

Fear of trouble is really a disease.

Your classmates dragged you to the movies, and you said it was too much trouble to transfer at the cinema.

Friends drag you to swim to exercise. You said trouble. You have to take a bath, bring a big bag of clothes and long hair, and finally blow dry. So tired.

Colleagues said let's learn to dance together. You said I was most afraid of trouble. Go to the dance classroom after work every day, and ask for leave if you don't go.

As a result, people who are not afraid of trouble find that these things really seem to be their favorite.

As a result, students who are not afraid of trouble have become film critics, friends who are not afraid of trouble have taken the swimming coach's certificate, and colleagues who are not afraid of trouble have become dancers who can dance for a while at any time.

Photography, French long-distance running, writing, you refused for fear of trouble.

Guitar design programming tour, you are afraid of trouble and refused.

Pottery, flower arrangement, manicure, you are afraid of the trouble and refused.

There are many opportunities to find out what you like, but you turned it down because you felt troublesome. Finally, I have to complain: "Why do some people's lives seem so smooth?" They can not only do their jobs well, but also do what they like. I don't even have a favorite thing. "

If you want to envy them, don't just envy them for finding what they like. In fact, the most admirable thing is that in the end, their love really turned into their own work, and they can really support themselves by what they like.

There is a girl named Hu who graduated from the Chinese Department. Later, she went abroad to study photography, but in the end she went to Jingdezhen to be a ceramic craftsman, specializing in porcelain doll.

Recently, Xiaoxing Yi, a very popular animal, was a civil engineer from 2006 to 1 1. He worked as an engineer during the day, recorded funny videos by hand at night, and finally started a company to make movies, making a living by jokes.

KK, a supermodel in Victoria's Secret, walked so many catwalks and found that she actually likes programming best. She enrolled in a programming class and started from scratch. Now she is studying related majors in new york University, and she is going to become an engineer. We don't need to make these hobbies professional like those people, at least we can make ourselves happy. Only by trying new things in life, even trial and error, can we try out what we like best.

Many favorite things really start from never being afraid of trouble.

My cousin used to be a representative who was really afraid of trouble. The only thing she didn't think of was sleeping. She took the first step of being afraid of trouble and learned the guzheng. Now she has time to play two songs to help.

Sweet sister, a good friend, is also a typical spokesperson who is afraid of trouble. She will refuse to eat delicious food because she is afraid of trouble. Later, I dragged her to learn pole dancing, and found that she was able to control it freely, and finally she became a kind heart.

If I had been afraid of trouble, I might not have written on this platform, and I would not have gradually discovered the happiness that writing brought me.

We don't need to do everything we like to the extreme, but in this impetuous society, one thing we like is so important. You can enjoy cooking, manicure and even cleaning the room. No matter what you love, you can comfort yourself with this favorite thing when you are upset.

Some people say that they don't try many new things because they have no money. Seriously, it costs money to try new things. Whoever doesn't want to pay the bill lying down can make life interesting.

You can make money without money.

I'm not saying it's easy, and I'm not saying it's easy to stand and talk. When a person really feels that he has to spend money to satisfy his pleasure, there must be many ways to make money in his mind. What he fears most is that he doesn't even do it because he feels troublesome.

You say desire can't keep up with strength, and he says wallet can't keep up with desire.

Then come bit by bit, even if it takes a little longer. But really don't be afraid of trouble, because there is nothing better than pleasing yourself. Every girl is a demon. She wants to cultivate Wang with half love and half sexy ID:chun9276.