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We must keep in mind the core values of socialism, and we must not forget the civilized rules of WeChat social interaction.

Whether at work or in life, WeChat has become an important medium for our daily social interaction, occupying most of our lives. It is no longer a simple communication software, but more like our ID card.

Thoughtful expression is the basic etiquette of social intercourse. If expressed properly, others will feel your kindness, personality and emotional intelligence between the lines.

But sometimes, some inappropriate expressions and perfunctory words will make you unconsciously lie on someone else's blacklist for minutes.

0 1 "Are you there?"

I don't know if you feel this way. You are busy every day and time is tight, but when you receive someone else's question, "Are you there?" You often feel angry and helpless.

Maybe for people with a weak sense of time, I don't think this is a big problem at all.

However, for many people who are busy with business, they even have to squeeze in their lunch break, so they really don't have much time to pay attention to these unknown information that requires a lot of energy to guess, wait and deal with.

In life, talking about something is actually saving each other's time.

Because instead of catching others' appetite, worrying others and making others uneasy, "Are you there?" The sooner you get to the point, the more sincere you are, and the easier it is to accept.

02 "Don't bother you, get busy"

Many people don't know how to end the conversation when chatting, so they politely say, "I won't bother you."

When you hear "I won't bother you", you should know that you can end this conversation.

Don't solemnly say, "Hey, I'm not busy. Let's talk about it later. "

You are not busy, others are busy.

"I won't bother you, please get busy" = "I have work to do, so I'll get busy first. Bye-bye".

Especially suitable for friends.

The core of social etiquette is stop.

Those who see through the truth are stopped; People who can't see through and tell the truth are hated.

Respond to information in time

You must have met such a person. You sent a WeChat to t a, anxiously waiting for a reply. As a result, TA did not respond.

You think TA is busy and has no time to reply to you. As a result, you turned to see TA in a circle of friends, or chatting with others in the group. ...

How did you feel at that moment? Do you feel neglected and your self-esteem is greatly affected?

The so-called reliable person means that everything has an explanation, everything has a landing, and everything has an echo.

It is most comfortable and reassuring to make friends with such people.

Make good use of expressions and modal particles

In social life, many people don't know you, and they can only feel your character and heart through the words you send.

Therefore, in the eyes of others, your words are your emotions and your people.

As for sentences, some words have the meaning of network-specific mood.

For example: oh > oh > oh; Mm-hmm > hmm; Hehe = perfunctory response.

Similarly, adding an emoticon when chatting properly will make people feel close and express their emotions more intuitively. It can also release your goodwill and willingness to interact with each other through symbols and activate the chat atmosphere.

Of course, the expression should be moderate, don't brush the screen!

05 voice, to obtain the consent of the other party in advance.

With voice, it is easy for the sender to save trouble and go out after a few bites, but for the receiver, it is simply a ton of trouble.

Voice is not impossible to send, but it should be divided into people and occasions.

Remember, try to fight if you can, especially when reporting work or having other important and complicated things to communicate with others.

If the other party is in a meeting or class, it is probably inconvenient to listen to the voice, and the words are always clear at a glance, which also saves reading time;

If the other person is free now, if you receive five or six WeChat messages with a duration of 1 minute in a row, will you feel broken?

Make good use of WeChat voice function, learn to respect each other's feelings, and try not to cause trouble to others, which is also a reflection of your good or bad personality.

We must keep in mind the core values of socialism, and we must not forget the civilized rules of WeChat social interaction.

It's our first time to be human, so don't torture each other. Remember these online social etiquette, decent and thoughtful, with appropriate limits, is the most lovely person.

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? This article is selected from People's Forum Network (rmltwz).

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