"What are you doing in a circle of friends? Just have fun. "

"I always stay in the circle of friends and can't see the reality."

"Many times a lot of content needs to block some people, which is very troublesome."

"I don't know what is appropriate, too sensitive, and I am afraid of being ridiculed."

"I feel that I am not as tall as others, so I will not send it."

"In the circle of friends, I have lost the true face of life."

"True happiness does not need to be authenticated in a circle of friends".

I think, maybe, it's not that we don't like it, but that we dare not.

One,

Once the circle of friends was a window to record life and show daily joys and sorrows, but later it was gradually discovered that the circle of friends was a distribution center for showing off wealth and basking in happiness, and there was no room for sadness.

Some people have been living in a circle of friends, trying to manage their own personal designs in the circle of friends, dressing up their exquisite lives, interpreting their wonderful times with heart, and admiring the glamorous and wonderful lives of others in the circle of friends.

The circle of friends now is like this. What is displayed in front of everyone is the glamorous side, the side of enjoying life, the free and easy on the road, the moments of staying up late to catch up with work, the troubles and sadness, and the trivial family, all of which are intentionally or unintentionally avoided.

All kinds of traffic jam photos, travel photos, beautiful photos and food photos on holidays have made many insiders feel lost, envious and anxious. It seems that in this world, only they are forced to stay at home and suffer all the year round.

However, if you are a careful person, you can try to look through some people's circle of friends, and you will find that in fact, they may only travel once or twice a year, and the rest of the time is immersed in life, and you seem to only remember their best time, and then slowly ignore their real life.

Therefore, those who inexplicably regard their circle of friends as real life are very unhappy, because they always think that others are happier than themselves.

Second,

True happiness is not in the circle of friends.

Life is for yourself, not for others. Low-key luxury and secret efforts are the real state of life.

Some people say that they don't like to send friends more and more, let alone send them. They don't even bother to brush, and they don't want to look at others'. Just have fun, because the most active thing in the circle of friends now is WeChat business, purchasing and sunbathing every day. Baby, travel, food, fitness, plane tickets ...

In recent years, really smart people have long since quit their circle of friends. Instead of wasting their limited time in meaningless social circles, they spend their limited time and energy in real life and live a real and comfortable life.

Don't be disturbed by true or false happiness in your circle of friends, don't envy other people's poems and distant places, and don't dislike your "mediocre" present.

In fact, smart people understand that photos are just a short moment in life, recording a moment of life, not a continuous moment. Real life still needs our own feelings and experiences, so only from those seemingly happy photos, we can't connect normal life, let alone outline complete happiness.

Happiness at that time does not mean happiness at this time; Being happy for a while doesn't mean being happy all the time.

Third,

In the circle of friends, there are no real friends for a long time.

In the past, the circle of friends was a bridge to connect friendship, bringing together old classmates and good friends from all over the world, but since we found the organization, everyone has been lying in the circle of friends silently, and there is no reason to say a word, let alone contact feelings.

And the circle of friends is becoming more and more complicated, including colleagues, leaders, friends, classmates, relatives and customers. We always have to face all kinds of ideas and people. Therefore, when sending every message, we always think twice about whether it will hurt anyone, thus misinterpreting your meaning. ...

Sometimes, it is always troublesome to block back and forth because you don't want leaders to see things at home, family members to see things at work, and customers to know about the company. Sometimes, I make a casual expression, but I'm afraid of being gossiped by my classmates. In fact, it is just a simple mood. When I was suspected by others, I changed my taste.

In other words, it is a circle of friends. In fact, all the friends in the circle of friends are not necessarily friends. What's more, they don't have friends and don't send them.

Some people cooked chicken soup all day, and then served it with nine squares. P is not her own; Then eat a hot pot barbecue and have a sunshine; Buy a new book, read it or not, anyway, take a photo first, which means you are charging; Occasionally hit a ball, run a few steps, sweat, and become a fitness expert; Learning to punch in the circle every day, I don't know whether to inform others that he is insisting or let others supervise him to have the motivation to persist.

It is undeniable that the circle of friends is no longer so unrestrained and free, and there are more and more people who know each other and fewer and fewer people who can speak. There are more and more friends in the circle, and there is little to talk about.

So, we gradually learned to be silent.

End,

Author: Mr. yl,

An emotional person who loves life.

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