These five things need to be considered before living together.
Now that you are "family partners", many things will change: if you pick her up on Saturday night, she will not be so happy. Yes, you're dealing with a sweaty, grumpy woman who comes back from the gym and gets angry over trifles. Before moving in together, make sure you know this and are willing to accept it.
1, gentlemen, please pick up the mop.
Housework distribution is the first problem to be solved when living together. Forget about gender equality. Everything doesn't have to be evenly distributed. You can wash dishes if you don't like cleaning, and you can wash clothes if you don't like washing dishes. Think of these as fun, not tasks.
After living together, you may find that there are many habits you don't like in each other, because you can try to live together for a short time to ensure that you can accept each other's habits.
2. Your sex life will change.
When you don't live together, you will seize every opportunity; But when you have plenty of time, your * * * may decrease. At this time, we should lower our expectations of * * * and give more sweet hugs.
You're not engaged.
Not all cohabiting couples will eventually get married. But at least, when you are willing to live with your girlfriend, that is, tell her that you are ready to settle down. Unless you make it clear that cohabitation doesn't mean engagement, she will think that you will put a ring on her in the near future.
4. Live and study together
Maybe you will be surprised to find that your girlfriend still has many advantages worth learning. When you encounter difficulties, solve them together and enjoy living together.
You are facing a long-term marriage.
Many problems encountered by cohabiting couples are the same as those encountered by couples. The important thing is how to keep your relationship fresh, because you don't date anymore. For those who just started living together, don't rely too much on each other, but have their own life circle and circle of friends.