Women should be realistic. Many women always think that love is everything to them. In fact, it is better to be realistic, which is good for yourself and the future. Here are some sentences and related materials that women should be realistic.
Women need a realistic sentence 1 1. After a long time, you will find that a man's appearance is not important. The important thing is that he has wisdom in his mind and responsibility in his heart! The sweet words of men are not important, what matters is whether they can keep their promises! It doesn't matter how much money a man has, what matters is whether he spends it on you! It doesn't matter where a man is, what matters is whether he cares about you in his heart.
After marriage, men always say that it is not easy for my mother to raise me, so be nice to my mother. But how many men will say to their mother, mom, my wife can't come to our house without parents, so you should be good to her.
3. Woman, you should know that only yourself is the most precious wealth. Without yourself, there is no possibility, which is the most important thing. Life, beauty and emotion all exist by their own existence, that is to say, only existence can do other things. Therefore, a woman who knows how to love herself can get the love of others.
4, woman, you have to know that only when you understand, you will relax. It's human nature to be considerate. No matter how beautiful you are, you should be reasonable in dealing with people. A smart woman should emphasize principles on major issues and learn to be flexible on minor issues. Deliberately doing one thing will sacrifice something more or less.
5, woman, you must know that for love, falling in love is like playing mahjong. It is not fun if you are not serious, and it is easy to be sad if you are too serious. Therefore, we might as well cultivate some psychological games. Therefore, a calculating woman will not ask this question: "Why don't you love me?"
6. Woman, you should know that whether a man is reliable depends on what means a woman uses to control him. Men are always courting women who don't take him seriously. Too much care about a man often can't get him; Don't force a man to lie, he will hate you, and don't take his words seriously, or you will hate him. The way to distinguish good people from bad people is simple. The man who often makes you smile is a good man. So, don't take love too seriously. You can live without the best.
7, men to women, don't love it, if you love a woman, men are likely to want to develop a lover relationship with you. Therefore, if a woman falls in love with a man again, she should keep her distance, and don't give it to herself without reservation, so as to prevent herself from falling into both wealth and human resources.
8. In most cases, online dating = meeting, going to bed, getting out of bed and blacklisting. If we have a clear understanding of its essence, we will not suffer from this fruitless emotional pain. Network emotions, whether between the opposite sex or between the same sex, can only be released freely if they swim in a game mood.
9. A good image is a permanent fashion for women. Many people spend a lot of money to decorate their houses (in fact, not many people visit your house), but they don't know how to maintain themselves. They show a relaxed, bloated and drooping image to the people around them. Even if you have money, you can't show your noble temperament, but a good figure can win the respect of more people.
10 Please don't care what men say. If a man tells you to call you in two days, don't think he will really call you on the third day. You should be surprised if he does. If he doesn't, you should think it's normal. If a man says when to invite you to dinner, but he stands me up. You should be surprised if he apologizes to you specially. If he thinks nothing happened, you should feel normal.
1 1. After a long time, you will find that a man's appearance is not important. The important thing is that he has wisdom in his mind and responsibility in his heart! The sweet words of men are not important, what matters is whether they can keep their promises! It doesn't matter how much money a man has, what matters is whether he spends it on you! It doesn't matter where a man is, what matters is whether he cares about you in his heart.
12, after marriage, men always say that it is not easy for my mother to raise me, so be nice to my mother. But how many men will say to their mother, mom, my wife can't come to our house without parents, so you should be good to her.
13, a good image is a woman's permanent fashion. Many people spend a lot of money to decorate their houses (in fact, not many people come to visit your house), but they don't know how to maintain themselves. They show a relaxed, bloated and drooping image to the people around them. Even if they are rich, they can't show your noble temperament, but a good figure can win the respect of more people.
Women should be realistic. 2 1. Yes, I'm not beautiful. But plain face is not the patent of beauty, but a way of life that all women can choose. Look around us. Every tree, every blade of grass and every flower has no makeup. Facing the scorching sun and snow, it is so natural, so natural. They will age and wither, but aging and withering is also a reality. As the master of all things, why should man hide himself behind powder and paint? We will all grow old. I looked at my age calmly, like a white sail coming from a distance. Why should I hide this reality? Hiding is not only futile, but also a kind of weakness. Self-confidence is not inversely proportional to age, just as self-confidence is not directly proportional to beauty. Courage is not stored in your face, but in your own hands.
For most men, gradually alienating and being indifferent to a woman is the best way to break up. Well, it's all wet. This will only make women more crazy, and then haunt you, because for every woman, breaking up is a trivial matter, and being left out by men is the most humiliating thing. You can leave her, but you can't insult her confidence, so remember, you love her. Remember, too, that giving her a chance to break up is the basic rule.
3. Only men who have no skills will criticize women's reality, and only women who have no skills will sigh men's playboy.
Giving up an established marriage, even a wrong marriage, is really a great test for women. The test is not only a woman's wisdom, but also her courage to face reality.
So little girl, the first piece of advice I want to tell you today is to work hard. Work is the only way for all girls who are not born princesses to become queens. Work is one of the most realistic fantasies about freedom. More importantly, work helps a woman learn how to love herself, and then you can love the world, others and be loved. Source: Douban
6. Men always say that if I have no money, no car, no house and no diamond ring, but I have a heart that loves you, will you marry me? I want to say: if I have no figure, no looks, no job, no height and can't have children, but I have a heart that loves you, will you marry me? Forget it, don't always talk about the reality of women, and so do men. Don't envy other people's daughter-in-law's frugality and ease of life. Can the cost of raising geese be the same as that of raising swans?
For a woman without education, youth and future, true love can only be cruel. Others drink wine, only my cup is tears. In fact, Rafi and Erguotou will never be put on the same table. Author: Yu Source: Who says we won't love?
8. Beauty is an old saying in women's passports and a common phenomenon in reality. It is obviously a sugar-coated cannonball, but it may not win the beauty's heart in the end, but it is wholeheartedly pleasing her. And those women who lack visual effects, although some are obviously good medicine, are often unable to make up their minds to marry her because of the bitter taste.
9. A good man is to help you realize your dreams and make your world wider. Instead of letting you give up your dream and follow him, your world will get narrower and narrower, leaving only him. The reality is that when only you have him in the world, he will give his world to others, and finally women have nothing.
10, women, when they encounter things that they can't explain, like to move things like fate and fate out as a backer. They are good at accepting the fate of reality without asking why. They are definitely not something that can convince me. But I don't deny that I don't understand many things. Source: Xi Jue
1 1. Men are prisoners of reality and women are masters of dreams.
12, women love fantasy, in fact, their hearts are clearer than anyone else; Men don't like fantasy, but they lack the courage to face reality, so although women are easily hurt mentally, men like to lie indiscriminately ... not so much bad, only a little bad, which is the most fashionable new "bad woman" style of our time-a new bad woman is a clean and fierce woman who will never die for a man, always save herself and always know what she wants. Men love and hate competition. It seems that a woman who has been robbed smells better than a woman who has been delivered to her door. If a girl wants to be happy, she must think like a man, look like a girl, act like a lady and work like a slave. Author: Huang Tongtong Source: Floating Love.
13, women think men are playboys and have no charm, while men think women have no strength in reality.
14. Girls in the romantic girlhood stage value your personality charm more than the material foundation you have. Real women need exactly the opposite of romantic women. A woman who is used to sweet talk wants a stable home at this time.
15, for women, love is the whole of life. For men, love is only a small part of life. No matter what promises he has made, he is always more realistic and rational than women when faced with choices.
16. Some people live for themselves, while others live for others. To live for yourself is to take the ideal road. There are many ways to live for others, either women, families or worrying about the world first. No matter how you live, you must face up to this real life.
17, don't complain that your woman is ugly, don't complain that you don't have a good father, don't complain that your work is poor, and don't complain that no one appreciates you. There are too many disappointments in reality. Even if life gives you garbage, you can still step on it and climb to the top of the world. The world only cares whether you have reached a certain height, not whether you have stepped on the shoulders of giants or stepped on garbage.
18, there is no perfect person in the world, but there can be a perfect fit. Home is a woman's dream and a woman is a man's dream. Couples who can turn their dreams into reality can last long. In reality, couples who dream occasionally are happy fairy couples.
19, grandpa taught me a few words, and they all came true. I like giving up. I heard that I gave up my life for love. He won. I gave up a dreamy woman and really won back a real one in my arms. Well, I still won. Author: Jing Wong Source: Caishen Inn
20. Men are more romantic than women, or men's reality and romance are obviously separated. When we meet for the first time, the most important thing for a man is feeling.
2 1, the cruel reality tells me that the whole environment is relatively loose in gender relations, which leads to the decline of some people's moral binding force and self-discipline ability. Therefore, not every man can control himself in the face of temptation, so every woman must be careful!
22. Maybe this old saying is right. For a woman, love is the whole of life, but for a man, love is only a small part of his life. No matter what promises he made, he is always more realistic and rational than women when facing choices. In a man's world, a woman is actually just a dotted white cloud. He will occasionally admire its innocence and beauty and miss it, but he will never give up the vast sky for it. Of course, there are smarter men who can step on the ladder and climb to the sky step by step, or hope to have a place to live under the cloud for a while before the storm comes. Author: Wu Xinyi
23. "The reason why women love tea bowls and collect kimonos with beautiful patterns is because only those things have real survival value. Every moment of action is the purpose of living in the present. Besides, what do you need? The profound reality completely suppressed the perversity and detachment of women. I don't know how easy it would be to let these desires directly express themselves and their bodies, but everyone is unwilling to touch the unfathomable "devil" in his heart and pretend not to see it. Because of this, many tragedies have happened. Perhaps only profound reality can really save us. " Author: Osamu Dazai Source: Girls.
24. In life, women who can turn their wishes into reality are really rare.
Only when you are down and out can you understand how few people are willing to help you. Only when you are poorest can you understand that no matter how good your feelings are, they can't compare with reality. People are not greedy for money but afraid of suffering. Only in my long life did I understand that it is easier to be romantic than to endure. Everyone can love you, but few people are willing to put up with you. What we should cherish most in this world are these three kinds of people: friends who need help badly, women who are willing to accompany you through poverty, and men who put up with you in everything.
26. In the face of complicated life, you can still keep a simple dream; In the face of the obstruction of reality, I can still maintain my true self. A woman who is always sincere, optimistic and warm attracts me the most. Source: p.s. male, thief.
27. I have always felt that I can accept marrying a rich man and spending money. Who wouldn't? I am a woman, a rich wife should be, but the reality is not like this. We are basically people from two worlds. Source: Prince and Dancer
28, can't expect too much, a little is enough. I hope: let the past be better for memories, let parting be better for thoughts, and let reality be better for dreams. Let marriage be better for love and men better for women.
29. Only an unattractive woman can say that a man is a playboy, and only a man with no ability can say that a woman is realistic. Both love and marriage need to be managed. ...
30. Men live in reality and women live in memories.
3 1. They live in tall buildings, and we wade in the rapids, not frowning for the days, but bowing our heads to love you. Do women bow their heads just to love you or frown for the sky? Some men know, some men think they know, some people are merciful, and some people become more cruel. I wanted to write something a long time ago, and stripped off enough paper. I wonder if it is just as cruel. But cruelty is cruelty. A woman who is sad all day can face the reality, at least she doesn't have to ask the question "Why did he do this to me", and she still has a chance to live a refreshing life. A woman who bows her head only for love will understand if others know it in this life. If she doesn't understand, forget it. Let it go down in history, go down in history, just like the song sings.
32. I thought that after the fate that passed by, sometimes I would stay in my heart. Only after separation did I understand the depth and weight of that fate; That woman thinks it is a kind of life to relive this hindsight. A woman's door hasn't been opened for a long time, and there are two or three invitations at her dusty door, people who are close to her like a refreshing wind and people who shelter her from the wind and rain like umbrellas; For the first time, that woman was afraid that she was eager to open the door. When people are too painful to accept the reality, they will look for reasons from others, because it will be very simple. In fact, there is no way to solve the problem, and people are very weak.
33. In The Roar of Lions, when Cecilia Cheung drank the water of forgetfulness, 80% of the women shed bitter tears when they saw the concert being played. Women always feel that men don't cherish her enough, so they always hope that God can punish men and let him know how difficult it is to regret losing her. Seventy percent of the men watched the ending of Titanic, and the old rose threw a sapphire necklace that recorded the relationship between life and death into the vast deep sea, without much noise on her face. It's my girlfriend crying next to me, nose, tears, tears. Men are realistic and women are romantic. Men don't believe in shadowless stories, and there is not even a river in their hometown. How can that kind of life-and-death love happen in the water? Women stretch their arms and kick at the edge of the bathtub, similar to the classic shot of Jack and Ross spreading their wings and flying at the bow. It is very likely that not only did they not get closer to each other because of this beautiful story, but they also had a big fight because of their different views.
34. Life is like a dream. The past is like the wind, and I am one year older. The meaning is far away, and the youth is gone. Low-key doesn't mean that I don't shine. Kindness doesn't mean that I am weak. I can fall down and I can be reborn. If I am not sad enough, I can't fly. If I don't have a dream, how can so many ordinary people in the distant world be so affectionate to me? A friend is better than a group of friends who only know you smile. Just to climb higher, I can overestimate you But don't underestimate my IQ. Doesn't mean someone can step on my shoulder. I don't have enough money to make a living. I have no regrets. People are afraid of emotional breakdown and going astray. Who should I tell with our real names? In reality, we tell the truth under pseudonyms. My heart is too bitter and tired. People are getting haggard. Everyone has his own interests. Learn to be a beautiful woman for life, not a dangerous woman, not a weak woman.
35. The whip held high by Salome in the photo suddenly dawned on me. The true meaning of Nietzsche's motto is just the opposite: remind men to bring whips to women, not to whip women, but to let women whip themselves. Nowadays, no one mentions this adage again, precisely because the situation recorded in that photo has become the reality of post-modern life and the reality of "political correctness": the meaning of "political correctness" in post-modern culture is that men whip women and let women beat themselves. Author: Liu Xiaofeng Source: The fear and love of this generation.
36. Women like to test men's bottom line with willfulness, and men like to test women's sincerity with material things. It is not reality that defeats love, but our inner hesitation.
37. Women can attract men by their looks for a while, but men may conquer women with money for a lifetime. This is another naked reality.
38. Please remember; Women are fantasy and comfort animals, while men are realistic and rational animals.
39. The cruelty of reality lies in the instant collapse of dreams on the other side. Curiosity is to finish smoking that cigarette that can't be quit, or to become so natural after a woman's eyes are blurred and charming.
40. It is said that the current concept of mate selection is becoming more and more deformed. Young, handsome and excellent young people are unabashedly behind the rich and senior officials, regardless of other people's age and virtue, whether they are middle-aged baldness or goose bumps, as long as they have money and power. When the charm index rises linearly, you can be the first choice. It seems that you can enjoy the sweetness of love after marrying "money". However, once you meet a man who is carried away by money and thinks he is great, he is just a guy with no virtue and no righteousness, and all his skills of accumulating wealth are used to play with women. What happiness can this unlucky woman have? In fact, there are few perfect men, so let's face the reality! Finding the man who loves you, loves you, tolerates you infinitely, shares joys and sorrows with you and lives together is the truth!
Women should be realistic. 1. Don't always compromise yourself by accommodating others. There are few people worthy of bending over in this world. Bending for a long time will only make people get used to your low profile, and yours is not important.
Second, you can find out that one person has money and one person has power. You can find out everything you want, but don't just find out that one person is good to you. Once he treats you badly, you have nothing.
Third, you should be beautiful, educated, knowledgeable, gentle and have personality. Not for someone to love you, but for your love, which can be more valuable and expected.
Fourth, don't compare with your lover. Whoever loves you is more than a few points. Love can't be compared. Too much is debt, and less is resentment. Love seven points is enough, love yourself three points.
I always see some girls show off how many spare tires they have. In fact, I am embarrassed to say that the more broken the car is, the more it needs a spare tire.
Six, in fact, there is nothing, give yourself some time to heal. It's better to say that it doesn't matter if you are free and easy than rushing to hit yourself.
7. If there are many heterosexual pursuits, you should reflect on whether you are cheap and versatile. Or because you are excellent and charming? In the face of ridicule, always strive to be excellent, even if you break the cocoon into a butterfly, you will turn into a moth and dazzle those people's eyes.
Eight, everyone has light, even if you don't look dazzling, be sure of your warm existence.
9. If a person says he likes you, please wait until he takes good care of you. If he promises to take you to a place, he will be very happy until he has booked a plane ticket. If he says he wants to marry you, he will be unmoved until he buys a ring and kneels in front of you. Feelings are not just words. We are past the age of listening to love.
No matter how much money you earn, at least you have your own circle. Doing housework at home and spending all day with your husband and children will make you lose yourself more and more and derail you from the world.
1 1. No matter how hot water is, it is still cold. No matter how full the enthusiasm is, it will still fade. The person you love again may leave, so you have to grow up. If you don't talk, you will have plenty of time, but you have to get used to it.
If a man tells you that he likes you, believe him. If he says he doesn't love you anymore, believe him. At any time, tell yourself that someone who doesn't love you is lucky to leave.
Don't be too kind to a person, because one day you will find that if you are kind to a person for a long time, that person will get used to it and then take it for granted. In fact, you could have been stupid enough to ignore the return at all costs, but the reality is always chilling.
Fourteen, the true meaning of happiness is to develop good habits to store health, and to indulge bad habits is to overdraw life. People who can't spare time for fitness on the excuse will make time for medical treatment sooner or later!
Fifteen, why do girls work hard, because you can't always be a little cotton-padded jacket for your parents. When you grow up, you should be their body armor, and when you are alone, you should be your own armor.
Sixteen, never endlessly around the man you like, even if you like him to death, you still have to learn to give him space, otherwise, you should be careful to tie him too tightly and strangle him.
Seventeen, a woman's greatest sense of sureness, not from dependence, but from recognition. If you have a heart, you will no longer look for it or wander. The focus of my life can finally be put down, which is stronger than any kind of man's condescending protection for you.
Don't care too much about what others say about you behind your back, because people who are better than you don't bother to mention you. Defamation itself is a kind of hope.
19. When you can embrace the initial heart of a pursuer and the sincerity of a yogi, there will be no third party in your relationship.
Twenty, buy two good books with the money for cosmetics. Although a beautiful face can make people shine at the moment, its rich connotation can make people forget for a long time.
Twenty-one, I am willing to lose the bet, but if I lose this game, there will be the next one. If I miss this person, I can wait for someone better.
22. An elegant woman will turn her life into a poem, constantly save her strength and practice her internal strength, and always maintain her enthusiasm and passion for new things.
If the people you meet don't love you enough, then God is teaching you how to love yourself. Don't complain about your miserable fate, in fact, no one forced you to pay. You are not a superwoman who helps the poor. Only by knowing self-pity can women really start to be attractive.
Twenty-four, you run yourself as a queen and naturally attract the emperor; You knocked yourself into a princess, which naturally attracted the prince; You hit yourself into a beautiful woman and naturally attract heroes; You ran into a demon yourself, which naturally attracted hooligans; At what level, you will attract people at what level; Always remember: a confident and self-reliant woman is the most beautiful.