Lose weight. Besides, not all fat people are ugly. My boyfriend weighs 180 kg, but his shoes are all 189 kg, so he doesn't look fat. Fat or not, everything else depends on the individual. If you pay enough attention to your image, you can lose weight. Weight before meeting boyfriend 184 kg. And I only have 168cm, and then I lost 40 pounds because of others. Continue to lose weight. Everything depends on you, it doesn't matter whether you are fat or not! Boyfriend looks very thin!